Back to singing the old song - Page 5

Originally posted by: kim02

yas if you were disappointed with her yesterday than i must warn you she was worst today

Sorry akka i was away so couldn't reply to your post.

All i want to say is...
Prachi better put the children ahead of everything including Milind and Proteek and the D family. Because the only people who will get my sympathy in this whole thing is the kids. And by kids include Sumonto who does think of Proteek as father and no matter how much Milind and Sumonto bond...that child doesnt' not think of God uncle as a replacement for his father. As unfair as it is to Milind...thats the truth right now. The more time he spends with God Uncle the easier it may become for him for the transition. As for Suproteek having an entire family to take care of him..sure but no one will take the palce of a mother....a mother he has known from the age of 1 till now. Just because they havn't show a real bonding between Prachi and that kid doesn't mean its non-existant and won't be shown later or that Proteek and his family will make up for him loosing his mother...yes its destiny that the kid lost his real mother...but it was decision by Proteek and agreement by Prachi that led to the current situation. Prachi has no right to hurt that child this way. It was the adults's decision that has come to a point where the kids will get hurt now and i don't want to hear about any excuses. Prachi cant' get off as easily as telling Proteek "Guess what my husband is back and the purpose i left him for wasn't fulfilled so now i am going back..tata...you can deal with the damages now." uh...no thats not what i want to see.

As for MIlind...i understand his anger and misery in that his wife left him without letting him expalin much or giving him a chance much to stop her and he's lived without her for 5 years and now must watch his family not be his. But how much of those 5 years of misery is his own doing? WHo the hell told him to leave his family and roam the streets. He cna't get off the hook for that and how dare he ask PRachi about her forgotten duty to her family when he's done the same. What of the Ritwik whom he had promised to take care of...his sister who was left without a support....and a father who could have died with the sorrow of a missing son. How could Milind even think of writing them a letter and taking off like that. Besides that wouldn't he have found Prachi much sooner if he remained with his family...all it took was to give an ad in all newspapers and offer a hefty amount to anyone who gave him the news of his wife. Why not go to the Police????? No he rather go door to door. So the 5 yrs of misery...don't really make me feel sorry for him.

His current state on the other hand does. Prachi's inactivity is bothering me too. But then what is she gonna do. I don't like the idea of her telling everyone the truth and thus getting herself thrown out of the house leaving the kids to suffer. ANd i told you why telling Proteek doesn't appeal to me...that would be like running away from the mess she made...and she is responsible for even if not as much as Proteek is. So until my brain can see a peaceful solution for this in a way that the kids don't suffer, i am not going to crib.

JC, great you identified the problem but not the solution.

Akka...i didn't read the whole post yet...but the problem is that you are not ready to admit that Sumonto will suffer too. To tell him one fine day that Proteek is not his father...yes..he had a great father in Milind very alive and well and very much capable of loving him and providing him with all that he needs...but does that make it less painful to know that the man he's been loving as a father and family he's been living with for 5 years...the only things he's known for 5 years is false and that he'll be uprooted and forced to live and accept a new family and new life.

I am not asking for Milind to suffer. But i am asking that Prachi and Proteek can't be let off the hook. Why should Prachi simply walk away with her son and not be held responsible for her actions. Ofcourse Milind has already spread his arms wide of her to walk into them...and her family too will be more than glad that she is alive and welcome her back with open arms...where is the lesson in that...where is she being taught that she should never do such things again...that she can't leave her family one fine day because "its for the best" and expect to walk back into their life and all will be forgiven and alright. Where is she learning that her actions have irrevocable consequences. That she cannot act on impulse and assume that her mess will be taken care of by others. Whenever she's in a pickle someone else has come to her rescue...either to bail her out or to aid her in some small way. I want that to stop and for her to realize that she needs to stop acting this way and taking life for granted.

Originally posted by: jinc118

Akka...i didn't read the whole post yet...but the problem is that you are not ready to admit that Sumonto will suffer too. To tell him one fine day that Proteek is not his father...yes..he had a great father in Milind very alive and well and very much capable of loving him and providing him with all that he needs...but does that make it less painful to know that the man he's been loving as a father and family he's been living with for 5 years...the only things he's known for 5 years is false and that he'll be uprooted and forced to live and accept a new family and new life.

I am not asking for Milind to suffer. But i am asking that Prachi and Proteek can't be let off the hook. Why should Prachi simply walk away with her son and not be held responsible for her actions. Ofcourse Milind has already spread his arms wide of her to walk into them...and her family too will be more than glad that she is alive and welcome her back with open arms...where is the lesson in that...where is she being taught that she should never do such things again...that she can't leave her family one fine day because "its for the best" and expect to walk back into their life and all will be forgiven and alright. Where is she learning that her actions have irrevocable consequences. That she cannot act on impulse and assume that her mess will be taken care of by others. Whenever she's in a pickle someone else has come to her rescue...either to bail her out or to aid her in some small way. I want that to stop and for her to realize that she needs to stop acting this way and taking life for granted.

are you getting annoyed with my giving problems without solutions...well thats what i see and thats what the show is showing...a problem without a peaceful resolution...so do you see why Prachi can't utter a word nor in her defense nor say to Milind that she'll be back with him in a short period of time...just let her find a solution. I deem myself to have more brains than Prachi and if i can't see a solution without turning Proteek negetive (and that i can do only because for me this is a story and the characters can be turned any which way)...or by Tanu forcing the truth in front of everyone and thus creativing a hateful exit for Prachi from D family...why would Prachi come with a solution. She is asking God for a solution cause she can't think of any. She may tell Proteek..soon maybe...but then why is she silent now...why does she not run to Proteek and tell him hey Milind is my husband and he is here to take me back...the only explaination is see is that she never has done that before in her life...when did she run to anyone and disclose her problems. Neev had to dig it out of her most of the time...the only time she opens her mouth is when she is pushed to the limits. None of us like that trait in her but thats her. She needs to be thus pushed to open her mouth. What can you do. And Milind is once again doing the pushing.

Her conscious is enough to make her guilty only for the suffering caused to Milind...but what of others who are effected by her lies. What of Neev who was equally implicated with her lie that Ritwik was her kid. Did she feel guilty about that? And now the kids' life....how will she be made to realize that its not just Milind who is effected by her actions. There is a bigger picture in everything that is said and done...her dedication to Milind is great but the consequences of her actions have a greater scope.

JC how can you not expect Milind to push her ? Is he wrong to ask for a life with his family? I really don't think so. Well keeping the fact that she pushed him to it firstly I find his act justified he did ask her to leave now whatever her reasons she denied. What else was the guy supposed to do he pleaded he requested she's not willing to budge.

Originally posted by: blind horizon

JC how can you not expect Milind to push her ? Is he wrong to ask for a life with his family? I really don't think so. Well keeping the fact that she pushed him to it firstly I find his act justified he did ask her to leave now whatever her reasons she denied. What else was the guy supposed to do he pleaded he requested she's not willing to budge.

Munee do you see me complaining about him pushing her.😆 I said that thats what it takes for her to open her mouth and since thats what all of us want...😃 Push away Milind. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: jinc118

Munee do you see me complaining about him pushing her.😆 I said that thats what it takes for her to open her mouth and since thats what all of us want...😃 Push away Milind. 👍🏼