My analysis of 9/15: still hopeful - Page 3

Originally posted by: jinc118

I am dissapointed Sumu that you won't even give my thread a chance.😭

Originally posted by: unnati72003

Thanks a lot dear for giving Michi a chance......😳😳😳

Unnati

Originally posted by: jinc118

<br><br>I disagree Shubs. Prachi is not dumb stupid or foolish. She is simple. And i think its very extreme to say that she has no guts to face life. She has proven her guts before. She came from a very sheltered life Shubs...so for her each step she takes towards being independent is a big step for her. It really started when she had the first heartbreak...and she accepted Varun's proposal. That took guts. Then when the marriage breaks and her engagement to Neev...and then she face opposition from her own family and the people she loves when she has to choose between family or doing what is right. She sided with the truth instead of family who all went against her including Neev and Inder who were her pillars of strength. That takes guts. When her father died...she carried the burden of her family on her shoulders...of trying to get Ayesha feel included in the family being the leader to the family...making up for the mistakes of her father by giving Ayesha what she wanted...letting her have her revenge. That takes guts. Real guts is not just in opposing the bad things in life...its also in accepting the tragedies in your life and trying to make best of what you have. It takes guts to hold onto hope till the last minute and watch your husband forget you and decide he'll marry his ex and still not reveal to him the truth because you can't endanger his life...that is guts...its takes gut to decide to leave everything you have known for the man you love...and even leave him in order for him to live free. So don't call Prachi a coward...she faces her problems...she may not fight them to the extent that some of us will fight..but she doesn't run away...she accepts life as it comes to her...and that takes courage and character. <br>

Originally posted by: ismita

Wonderful post Jc.I was venting my frustration,but somehow Iam not able to hate Prachi.Today when I saw the episode ,that one moment of milsi running behind Prachi brought all themichi memories back.

As you told they should have started leap ina sensible way.

I hope atleast from now on they show sensible.I thought if I come to know that Prachi is Panchi ,then I will quit the serial.But here iam finding some reason to watch it all again and give Prachi a Chance.

Originally posted by: KillSandy

now all i can think is of Milind...thats it.

Originally posted by: jinc118

<br><br><font color="#0000ff">I agree Subs that the scene was real cheap... but i think there is another way to look at Prachi. I don't find Prachi weak...at all...never have seen her as weak. But we are defining strength in different terms. I find strength both as a passive quality and as an active quality. Just to make it clear...i am the aggressive type of woman...but i've seen women who completely are opposites and they go through situations in life in a completely different way that i would..but their ability to make the best of everything leaves me surprised and stunned. BTW my appreciation for women's silent strength and the definition of 'strength' comes from "A boxcar of crysanthimums" ..if you ever read it... its a short story (japanese i think) and was translated and i read it in collage...it changed my outlook completely...though i am still myself...but i think that is the reason i find myself justifying Prachi at different turns in the story. The heroine of the short story has left me that impressed. She is the real woman of strength thought from her actions you would think the opposite...that she is meek and unable to fight the injustice done unto her...its at the end that you realize how strong willed she really is.</font><br>

Originally posted by: michifanreal

JC, Prachi as Milind's wife should have had the guts to make Mallika lose the battle. She didn't need to accept defeat when she herself was very clear about her husband's innocence and Mallika's tricks. That's why I feel she has not enough courage to face life.
There was a bomb blast. She knew that Milind knew she was in that train, she knew Milind was pleading her not to leave. But did she try to call him or her family before walking away? Was she not foolish?
I guess her father in law (Mr. Mishraji) her daadi might have died in the grief of losing Prachi and Milind leaving home too.
Now what has happened to Milind is another question. I only hope he is not shattered which will make Prachi look even more cowardly.

Originally posted by: jinc118

I thought the same Ismi...that today's epi will surely get me to quit Kayamath at least until Milind returns...but actually i was surprised to see Prachi the way she was. I really feel they mishandled the leap and if they had slowed it down some more and not shown unnecessary closeness between Prachi and Proteek then we would have reacted differently.