what does anand see in ratna

why is anand so undecided between ratna and pia, there just isnt any comparison between the two, pia looks young, graceful and on top of it has a heart of gold and this ratna looks like a tired, middle aged woman who is desperate to settle down before all wrinkles on her face start showing, why is the choice so hard for anand, hasnt he seen pias loyalty towards him and his parents and her confidence, only a loser can love someone like ratna.

Peace,

You said it all 👏 ! Anand is a loser. He did not deserve a wife like Pia and now that he got it, he doesn't know her worth. I feel pity on people like Anand, who is an ocean of sorrow. 😃 😃

Originally posted by: chikoo

ocean of sorrow. 😃 😃

I loved the way you put it... sorrow followed by two LOL...

it is true though... it is sad to seem him this way and but othe than laugh at this plight, I cannot do anything else either...😆

Well, well, as they say love is blind!! What did Abhi see in Kiran. LOL! Same way. Though in Abhi's case, Kiran literally threw herself on Abhi when he was hungry for a physical relationship..

Originally posted by: peacestead

why is anand so undecided between ratna and pia, there just isnt any comparison between the two, pia looks young, graceful and on top of it has a heart of gold and this ratna looks like a tired, middle aged woman who is desperate to settle down before all wrinkles on her face start showing, why is the choice so hard for anand, hasnt he seen pias loyalty towards him and his parents and her confidence, only a loser can love someone like ratna.

does it mean that if pia was a middle aged woman and ratna the young, refreshing kind then it was okay for anand to cheat? i don't think looks should be the basis of any relationship.

but i agree with you on this one. anand is a loser😊

I personally believe that men often dont know what they are looking for in a woman, be it a wife, a lover or a friend or companion.

I agree with Anju that physical appearances cannot or rather should not form the basis of any decision, but in reality, thats what really happens.

When choosing a life partner, how many men today see if the girl really matches intellecutally, mentally and in every other way possible. What matters most at the time when the decision is made to marry is how good the girl looks on his arm.. and the vision is shortsighted at that. they look only at the immediate years.. upto 10 years maximum. do they ever look beyond that to see if the relationship will still remain the same, will the same emotions survive and grow...

We see examples everyday of where men have left their happy family life behind to marry his secretary or some girl junior or whatever.. How much these relations last i think is now well accepted, but has the statistics ever deterred men. NO. They still continue on their silly ways and walk themselves into these situations.