Update 22nd August 2005

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks Sree for the great update! 👏

Samaj mein nahi araha hei,ke kisko kya kahu!Anand is definetely trying to have his cake and eat it too...at both Pia's and Ratna's expense!!
Ratna shud know by now that she will always remain 'the other'woman in Anand's life,even if they DO get married someday,in the event of a divorce between Pia and Anand,it cannot be the same,it will keep haunting HER,with guilt,fear(of a repecussion!)insecurity(of him mite be thinking of Pia at any given point of time etc!),and it will haunt him the same,and it just CAN NEVER be the same!!

And for Pia,well..all i can say is..she should move on..easier said than done,i know..but how can u ever trust your husband ever again after so many broken promises,betrayals etc?Will she be able to respect him?Trust and Respect,the 2 most important basis in a relationship between husband and wife,will she be able to do that wholeheartedly?This is not about modern women or traditional women anymore,its about women with self-respect,and in my humble opinion,any woman with self-respct will not be able to pick up the pieces and start over again,and if they do(due to the presence of kids etc!)life can never be the same again,and it will be empty and filled with hurt and suppressed feelings of detest!And this too,Ratna is Pia's cousin,for God's sake,a cousin is like a sister,and this betrayal is a double blow for her,one from her husband and another from her 'sister'!Uffff!!!How painful it wud be!!!My hats off to Pia,to be able to remain so calm after such encounters,and i feel very sorry for Ratna,for allowing Anand to get away with it each time!!
Yeh pyaar bhi ajeeb cheez hoti hei naa?Kya sahi hei aur kya ghalat,fark hinahi samaj pate koi!!! 😛 🤢

Sorry friends,i guess i got alittle carried away and alittle too emotional here!!Just gave it a thought as a woman...it hurts..so i thot i wud share it with you!!! 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks for the update Sree. As usual brilliant.

nicely written views Mumtaz. Thanks for that as well.

Anand is one confused character as far as I can see. He loves Pia's simplicity and straightforwardness with a life of no great surprises as such. At the same time he also loves Ratna's bohemian lifestyle and as a person who can share and discuss his profession as well. Its high time he understood that no one is perfect and he cannot expect a perfect companion as well.

Ratna should soon realize that if a person can ditch his wife he can do the same with her as well. and as far as Pia is concerned she should just move on with life. There is no use trying to rejoin a broken glass. Though I do understand that its easier said than done.

Swathi
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks for the great update Sree di and great views mumtaz and swathi😊

If Ratna doesnt understand now, I dont know when she will understand. She told Wasim that Anand's love is everything for her and she doesnt ever need to get married to him because his love is enough. But its moments like these, when Anand lets go of her hand when he sees Pia, that should knock some sense in Piya's brains. I mean, she should understand that there will be one time when she will want the status of a wife in society.😊

And as for Piya, well, I think she is wasting her time. When Anand had said it in clear words that Ratna is an important part of her life and he cannot leave her AND he brings her to Mumbai as soon as Piya leaves, does Piya still see a hope for this relationship?? It looks like Anand is really hung up on Ratna and it would be almost impossible for him to choose one of them.😊

So both ladies should really start thinking now!!😛

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Posted: 19 years ago
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thanks for the update Shree.

Anand is one confused character..........so i am not surprised that he keeps on moving from one side to other like a pendulum.

But i don't understand Piya's behaviour.........after all that Anand has done to her..........she still wants to come back to him..........why? She still has hopes

I feel bad for both Ratna and Piya. They are stuck up with a man who can not decide what he wants.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: purva

thanks for the update Shree.

Anand is one confused character..........so i am not surprised that he keeps on moving from one side to other like a pendulum.

But i don't understand Piya's behaviour.........after all that Anand has done to her..........she still wants to come back to him..........why? She still has hopes

I feel bad for both Ratna and Piya. They are stuck up with a man who can not decide what he wants.

Amen to that last line.

Pia is an optimist. She does not want to believe that her marriage has gone sour. She wants to restore it... after all did she not take the sacred vows of being there with her 'other' ( NOT BETTER!!!) half at all times.. I guess she does not want to leave any stone unturned in her efforts to get their relationship back on track.

but this idiot Anand does not seem to remember any of his vows... kya aadmi hain, bina reed ka.. he is spineless to the core!!!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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thax a zillonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnsssssssssssssssssss times. 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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thanks for the wonderful update sree.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks sree !!! It's so sad !!

Characters like Anand make me so sick !!!

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