Is Pia soft on Anand?

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I can't grasp or relate with Pia's character at all. Her reaction to finding out that her husband whom she has spent six years with and loves have been cheating her for the past two years. I couldn't help but wonder is Pia's reaction genuine? I was watching the last night episode, in US, where she gives him one month period to get over his relationship. Also that she understands his and Ratna's feeling. I was taken back when I was watching that. Don't you guys think that Pia's being too nice of a wife? I don't think any person would understand his/her spouse's infidelity. I do see that she is upset and angry at what Anand did and she taunts him for that. But she not reacting and not getting angry is giving Anand excuse to see Ratna. I do like few quality's about her character and that is she is very mature and confident woman and she speaks her mind. In Anand's case she doesn't completely open her feelings and show her emotions. Do you guys think that Anand would feel more guilty and try to be a loyal husband if Pia have been reacting a little differently (like Dr. Simran did when she found our about Abhi and Kiran's affair in Aastitva)? Tell me what do you guys think?

From what it seems - Piya's character conducts herself with a lot of dignity. SHe takes pride in her strength and to people as such, even crying in front of others means showing thier weakness. Not once has she cried in front of Anand. On the other hand she detests creating huge scenes at home - can be seen when Anand loses his cool at her and shouts. About her being sympathetic to the Anand-Ratna relationship? Well I feel she is completely pratical in life, hence she is able to take such an approach and see it from their viewpoint as well. Thought I admire her for her mature approach. I don't think her approach really works for Ananad. I think he needs some drama to get the seriousness of this. And I feel you are right, with her passive approach Piya does come out looking rather soft on this subject. But with her warning yesterday she did redeem herself 😛

Piya is portrayed as a very mature and self respecting woman. She is very confident and is not afraid to speak her mind when needed. I don't think such person will take her spouse's infidelity so lightly. I did not watch yesterday's episode but i understand that Piya has given Anand one month time to get over Ratna. I think Piya needs to take much stronger stand. Only reason i can see for Piya's soft stand is her child. I mean she dosen't want to break her family at the stage when she is pregnant after six long years of hope for a child. There might be a chance of Anand returning to Ratna if she takes much stronger stand. Like what happened in Astitva when Simran was strict with Abhi; he went back to Kiran. Maybe Piya wants to avoid such situation. But Piya's behaviour certainly doesn't go with her character.

I think Piya is being very practical.. it is so so so difficult to be that way when one is sufferering so much inside. Her kicking out Anand is not going to solve the issue. Anand will go to Ratna. Piya also wants to make sure she tried to get the marriage to work. I have a friend who tried to make her marriage work for 9 out the 12 years she was married. I asked her if she thinks she has wasted those years, she replied, I have the satisfaction that I tried my best to make the marriage work. In her case it was not infidelity, the issues were different.

I guess once Piya feels that she has given her best shot at saving the marriage she will eventually want to get out of his life.

I still think, such men should end up as losers with no companionship. It is one thing to make up your mind and say that you want out of a relationship and the it is another thing to carry on this kind of double duty.

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

I agree!

i agree too