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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Reemz11

That selfish waala love applies to Anurag too here. He’s so adamant on Prerna loving him, accepting that she loves him that he hasn’t even bothered to find out why she’s in this position. The effort from him seems so non-existent. All he does is play with words to get Prerna emotionally.

I’ve said this before, Anurag and Prerna’s love comes off shallow because they sacrifice so easily and willingly. You don’t see enough effort from them to try alternate routes.

Bajaj knows how to manipulate. He’s not trying to win Prerna’s love. He’s trying to make her stay with him. Both men haven’t given Prerna the respect an individual should have. Anurag is suffocating to say the least and Bajaj plays behind the scenes.

THANKYOU! The constant Anurag love vs Bajaj love is so laughable. They both are giant dicks who don’t respect the woman they claim to love and want. At the end of the day sacrifice the act of foregoing something you want should be meaningful. If you are constantly sacrificing, thus COMPROMISIING, and not living your life, then why do it? if you sacrifice A for B, then the result should be amplified that makes it worth while to have foregone A. Here none of that has happened.

Anyone who thinks Anu Pre are better because they are sacrificial, is missing the point. Their love is so fickle and their sacrifices are so Unneeded, it borders on overcompensation for their lack of communication/ trust/ belief in one another.

Anurag and Bajaj at this point don’t care who she wants. anurag didn’t care that she is now married and constantly emotionally harasses her, overwhelming the girl, and Bajaj does the same thing but is subtle and manipulative about it. Knowing Bajajs mind, Anurag never considered her wellbeing when he constantly engages in a pissing contest with Bajaj and when Bajaj rebukes her attempts to talk about her feelings re Anu, he pushes her away.And, in that both their love is selfish. The men want what they want.

Yes, love is important, but so is trust, support, security etc. Oh she loves him, so should be with him is a biased argument. At the end, if Prerna wants to be with Bajaj and his brand of love or with Anurag, it should be her choice.

and Prerna herself is so undecided. She DOESNT KNOW if she wants to continue in her marriage or she wants to break free. In today’s day and age, symbolism shouldn’t dictate your life partner. It should be your choice as a adult who you want to spend the rest of your life.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Bajaj' s love is selfish and so is Anuraag's.

But the difference is that Anurag WHEN and IF convinced that Pre actually loves Bajaj and will be happy with him, will let her go because his happiness lies in her happiness. Anurag's selfishness and obsession both are conditional to Prerna's happiness. His obsession towards Pre led him to self-harm, not others.

On the other hand, Bajaj's love is more like a conquest. Despite knowing that Pre loves Anurag, despite the child in her womb being the biggest testimony to the fact, he wants to tether Pre to himself. She has lately become an object of his obsession - lethal one at that. Perhaps he sees no difference between a business deal and her- He has to have an upper hand over his rival and have it at any cost, by hook or crook. In winning Pre, he has turned into a psychopath who will not stop at anything- he will go to the extent of harming himself as well as others, consequences be damned.

Edited by bashful_moon - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Anurag and prernas love is anything but selfish. They r two extremely foolish individuals yet they have a heart and its at the right place. Yes they lack trust they lack communication and probably respect too.. but more than that , it's the capacity to forgive and go on thats important to sustain that kind of love..I think both anurag and prerna are capable of that..kind of..continue to make mistakes and still love each othrr ?

Edited by _charu_ - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#34

I’ve reiterated this point over and again. Baj is a spoiled brat with a sense of entitlement. Whether in business or personal life he decides he wants to possess/own something he doesn’t care who gets hurt or ruined, he rejoices in the thrill of destroying and owning something just for the sake of it. He decided early on Pre was a gem worth possessing.

Pre may have married him, but her heart is still with Anu. Baj still loses. That’s what happens when one imposes their will by blackmail and sees a woman as someone to own, objectifying her.

He intentionally hurt Anu that put his life on the line and now a petty prank to get Pre’s attention. How pathetic!

Will CVs ever show Baj learn a painful lesson that he can’t own his wife. Whatever his miserable past his attitude and approach towards relationship is terrible and needs an awakening.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#35

Peanut is baby basu😆 who never seems to grow in pre's womb

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: havima

Peanut is baby basu😆 who never seems to grow in pre's womb

Oh Munna😆 it’s a miracle life, can’t call it fetus given it’s taking an elephant’s gestation time line.

Edited by MERARAI - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#37

Love ? Sorry I cant find it anywhere in this circus. May be I missed everyone's love amidst kidnapping, jail and hospitals.😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Very well put. But it applies to both the men. Both of them don't care a damn for what the girl wants.

" I LOVE you, so I want you with me despite you not wanting to be with me for whatever reason"

This is the mantra both are following

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Posted: 5 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Very well put. But it applies to both the men. Both of them don't care a damn for what the girl wants.

" I LOVE you, so I want you with me despite you not wanting to be with me for whatever reason"

This is the mantra both are following

joke is 'the girl herself dont know what she wants'😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
#40

Anurag is a creep and Pretna is a spineless fool. She accepted Bajaj's deal but cannot keep her promise. She is playing both men. And Bajaj deserves the current situation. He got the ex lovers to live under one roof (why, defies logic) what did he expect, specially with Anurag hell bent on stalking Prerna. Its surprising they haven't ended up in bed so far

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