That selfish waala love applies to Anurag too here. He’s so adamant on Prerna loving him, accepting that she loves him that he hasn’t even bothered to find out why she’s in this position. The effort from him seems so non-existent. All he does is play with words to get Prerna emotionally.
I’ve said this before, Anurag and Prerna’s love comes off shallow because they sacrifice so easily and willingly. You don’t see enough effort from them to try alternate routes.
Bajaj knows how to manipulate. He’s not trying to win Prerna’s love. He’s trying to make her stay with him. Both men haven’t given Prerna the respect an individual should have. Anurag is suffocating to say the least and Bajaj plays behind the scenes.
THANKYOU! The constant Anurag love vs Bajaj love is so laughable. They both are giant dicks who don’t respect the woman they claim to love and want. At the end of the day sacrifice the act of foregoing something you want should be meaningful. If you are constantly sacrificing, thus COMPROMISIING, and not living your life, then why do it? if you sacrifice A for B, then the result should be amplified that makes it worth while to have foregone A. Here none of that has happened.
Anyone who thinks Anu Pre are better because they are sacrificial, is missing the point. Their love is so fickle and their sacrifices are so Unneeded, it borders on overcompensation for their lack of communication/ trust/ belief in one another.
Anurag and Bajaj at this point don’t care who she wants. anurag didn’t care that she is now married and constantly emotionally harasses her, overwhelming the girl, and Bajaj does the same thing but is subtle and manipulative about it. Knowing Bajajs mind, Anurag never considered her wellbeing when he constantly engages in a pissing contest with Bajaj and when Bajaj rebukes her attempts to talk about her feelings re Anu, he pushes her away.And, in that both their love is selfish. The men want what they want.
Yes, love is important, but so is trust, support, security etc. Oh she loves him, so should be with him is a biased argument. At the end, if Prerna wants to be with Bajaj and his brand of love or with Anurag, it should be her choice.
and Prerna herself is so undecided. She DOESNT KNOW if she wants to continue in her marriage or she wants to break free. In today’s day and age, symbolism shouldn’t dictate your life partner. It should be your choice as a adult who you want to spend the rest of your life.