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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nibuuu

Whatever Anurag is doing or saying might be cringeworthy...but u can't say this that he is pressurizing prerna or harrassing....Think from his perspective, he himself doesn't know the whole truth behind this marriage, but he can feel that something is wrong in this marriage and her lady love is not happy....that's why he is trying to find out the truth and after seeing the obessessive face of Bajaj, how can u expect him to sit behind and doing nothing!!!!...He knows no one but only Prerna can tell him the truth...He knows how much Prerna behave coldly with him, At some point she must break down before him cz Our prerna can't act fake for long time before his Anurag......

Now whatever he is doing canbe claimed wrong if he is doing that after knowing the whole truth... In the precap, he already told prerna that he woundn't be able to get her back if Prerna herself doesn't want... But he will be always there whenever Prerna wants him... That's make it clear that he won't never ever force Prerna to live with him without her consent..

And at last, if u think Anurag is worst as he is harrassing a MARRIED women, influencing EMA, then let me remind u.. That MARRIED WOMEN herself accepted this marriage for the sake of her WORST BOYFRIEND(!), still is in love with this guy, carrying his baby in her womb....And his ex boyfriend could feel her pain without even knowing anything.... He could feel that his girl isn't happy with this marriage...So, why would he accept this marriage when her love isn't happy???? Why he should move on without even fighting!!!!!!! This is 2019... If any third person comes between you and your love, marries your woman in the name of deal and your woman isn't happy, then why won't u give damn to this so called marriage and fight against the society and fate???? If someone gives up so easily and accept his bloody fate then that's make him looser...

Why does he want the truth from her? Why does he want her to tell him she loves him?

He's shown to be astute and smart.

1. He catches her lies about her closeness with Bajaj.

2. He knows she ran to him when he was dying.

3. He knows she sent Bajaj to jail as soon as he charged him for attempt to murder.

4. He knows they sleep separately.

5. Most of all, he knows they are soulmates.

Soulmate se jaanne ki kya zaroorat? It is obvious she loves you, what will you get by making her admit it? Satisfy your ego huh? If not, then for what joy? Instead of that, try another way. Try finding out what transpired between them when she went to get the proofs. Think beyond a bit. Face her, surprise her by asking how Bajaj gave her the proofs? She isn't some first class liar, he asks her something point blank, her face will give it away. Dig deeper. And find the truth. Then tell Bajaj, come ruin me. Take the deal back, and let her go. Tell Prerna, he doesn't care if he rots in jail but he doesn't want her to live with Bajaj as part of a deal. Free her man! Don't bind her again!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: najma123

Why does he want the truth from her? Why does he want her to tell him she loves him?

He's shown to be astute and smart.

1. He catches her lies about her closeness with Bajaj.

2. He knows she ran to him when he was dying.

3. He knows she sent Bajaj to jail as soon as he charged him for attempt to murder.

4. He knows they sleep separately.

5. Most of all, he knows they are soulmates.

Soulmate se jaanne ki kya zaroorat? It is obvious she loves you, what will you get by making her admit it? Satisfy your ego huh? If not, then for what joy? Instead of that, try another way. Try finding out what transpired between them when she went to get the proofs. Think beyond a bit. Face her, surprise her by asking how Bajaj gave her the proofs? She isn't some first class liar, he asks her something point blank, her face will give it away. Dig deeper. And find the truth. Then tell Bajaj, come ruin me. Take the deal back, and let her go. Tell Prerna, he doesn't care if he rots in jail but he doesn't want her to live with Bajaj as part of a deal. Free her man! Don't bind her again!

All of the point u mentioned are valid and might eventually happen within 1/2 episodes after the end of the track if Cvs want.. It's KZK and expecting this too early is something demanding too high...During komo track, the whole confession had shown within 2 episodes... I'm just trying to justify his current state though some of his dialogues are cringeworthy ( it's KZK, so expected)..

And last,, he never ever tries to bind prerna, he did too move on jaap during komo track, it was prerna who entered his life again as his wife....

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Daffodils I'm sorry but that is not the only way! That's not even about her. When a girl tells you NOT TO TOUCH HER. You don't touch her! PERIOD. There's no if and no but and NOTHING short of she's got a bullet inside her and if I don't touch her she'll die (which is again debatable) should make you do otherwise. NVM. In his quest to get what HE wants out of her, he has given no hoots to her sense of wellbeing, comfort, needs.


Fine it's not the only way but it sure is a way and I see Prerna wanting out of the relationship and so kind of working.

Ofcourse.....if a girl says no it's a no ....no matter what. I never said otherwise. If you are referring to yesterday's episode then he was just wiping her tears.But ok if you find it wrong den I won't agree otherwise.

I genuinely find her comfortable around him .But you feel she is feeling uncomfortable around him and he isn't paying heed to dt......den I can't say anything. We all interpret the expressions, actings , dialogues and scenes in different ways.....dt is all.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Brilliant post ...one more thing which I never wanted to tell but want to tell now ...when Naveen started to eye on Pre ...first of all Anu acted as a protective friend because initially he had no feelings for her ...but suddenly his concern changed into strong sexual attraction ...which we can notice in one of the pooja ceremony when he grabs her and starts dancing with her ..that time there were no love feelings between them ..thats the moment I lost connect with the character ...it was alright he was helping her but there is a thin line between helping without expectations and then helping with expectation that the person would love you back ..so this is called selfish and toxic ...everytime there is Anurag to decide for Pre ..its not other way around ..also we saw Prerna openly voices her concerns in front of Bajaj but rarely in front of Anu ...That means he is overshadowing her persona in name of love ..thats why this love is toxic and thats the reason yesterdays article was so on point.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I don't know who gets to decide who deserves who as their partner...except for the people involved. IF Pre does not want Anu then Anu does not deserve Pre and vice versa.

On the other hand if who pre wants is bajaj then also its her choice and Bajaj deserves her because its her choice.

But Pre has been reiterating that her body and soul belongs to Anu so I don't consider myself as an authority on whether Anu deserves Pre or Pre deserves Anu. Its their choice. If both wants each other they deserve each other.

If we are talking about actions of both Anu and Pre and then deciding who deserves who then I still don't know how to say their actions prove that either Pre or Anu does not deserve each other.

Pre showed her utter lack of trust when Anu married Komo just after risking his life to save her and he had already done that while he was her friend too in Naveen track. But I also took into consideration as to what she was going through ie her father just died recently, the guy she loves she was looking forward to marry in the very near future dumped you and you find yourselves pregnant at this time too...That's a lot on her plate so I didn't find it too hard to try and see things from her point of view. What stuck me during that track was that Anu's side of grievance was shown through his monologues and actions so we knew he has no intention of abiding by that marriage and hated Komo and still loves Pre.

Again during that track both girls actions and dialogues treated Anu as an object to be won and who has more haq on who and why. All the clashes between Pre and Komo were like that only.. But I guess we as women find it easy to see men being objectified but not women in that sense.

Now coming to Pre marrying Bajaj again Anu showed lack of trust in Pre in so quickly believing that Pre was capable of leaving him just like that at the alter without even informing anyone for no reason. He only started to believe that there must be something wrong with their marriage very recently. Anu was shown at his lowest low and pathetic at this track and suicidal twice now. Love as an emotion is experienced by people differently and here obviously Anu's whole life suddenly was shown to be consumed by his grief and inability to accept his fate. I'm not gonner lie. It was pathetic and he was behaving like an utter fool...BUt but....it doesn't make him any less a human being undeserving of understanding and empathy either IMO.

In this track compared to Anukom track the difference was that Pre has shown no indication of her stand with regards to if she still wants Anu or not for a whole month worth of episodes and only gave us a glimpse of her feeling trapped in one maha episode. Otherwise viewers were left to believe what ever they want with her going around her business as a wife taking care of Kuki and taking care of Bajaj and Family and at the same time showing attitude and anger towards Anu.

Again only a week before she started showing any positive emotion towards Anu after that accident. And then the latter half of this weeks episodes she is shown breaking down and showing she still loves Anu. And during this time she reminded Bajaj why she married him in the first place.

Hence IMO at this stage I really don't see why Anu is undeserving of Pre IF SHE WANTS HIM.

TBH everyone has agreed that the story writing is really pathetic here and a story consists of actions of a bunch of characters. So obviously the characters in that case if we look at it individually without taking into account all the other characters actions that influence each other, it won't be a fair critique in any sense IMO.

Edited by SheAish - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nibuuu

All of the point u mentioned are valid and might eventually happen within 1/2 episodes after the end of the track if Cvs want.. It's KZK and expecting this too early is something demanding too high...During komo track, the whole confession had shown within 2 episodes... I'm just trying to justify his current state though some of his dialogues are cringeworthy ( it's KZK, so expected)..

And last,, he never ever tries to bind prerna, he did too move on jaap during komo track, it was prerna who entered his life again as his wife....

Yeah she entered then, he's entering now? I meant, binding her with his words and his actions. She would either be with B or himself, is it? Even if she leaves Bajaj, it takes time for people to get over shit like that. It's not as if she'll leave Bajaj today and walk into Anurag's arms in the evening. Getting over major incidents and setbacks in life takes time. And if he's her true soulmate, he needs to be there for her, instead of constantly harping come back to me, come back to me. Has he once said, leave Bajaj, and go back home! Did he talk to P about her family? Apart from mentioning your family loves me, they want us together. He knows Veena believes Prerna is guilty. Did he try telling her, go talk to them, if you can't tell me the truth, tell your Mom the truth. And, even with her family, the whole coming there when Bajaj was there was to show Bajaj he was an outsider that's fine. Do whatever. Did you tell them, that Prerna needs time with them, did he tell Shivi to talk to her sister about her life, how she feels, about living under the same roof as him, and her husband? If that family can't figure things out and he's her soulmate and he's their son too, he can do a lot more.

His current state, I understand. I so obviously relate. There was a show where the leads didn't get married, the girl got married to someone else. Obviously, the dude was there, he understood her Pain, and he told her he'll rescue her from there, but idk, he was understanding. Maybe, Prerna is a fool and she's doing ping pong or whatever other shit. But his tall claims of love and soul and shit, he needs to show them in action by getting the ball rolling.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallawi1803

Wow Anurag Basu one more post on you...you surely are slaying ladke that ppl just can't ignore u😎...keep shining n chanting ur Soulmate jaap n let ppl shower their love on u 🤗

No one ever ignored Anurag, he's the male lead, isn't he?
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

Brilliant post ...one more thing which I never wanted to tell but want to tell now ...when Naveen started to eye on Pre ...first of all Anu acted as a protective friend because initially he had no feelings for her ...but suddenly his concern changed into strong sexual attraction ...which we can notice in one of the pooja ceremony when he grabs her and starts dancing with her ..that time there were no love feelings between them ..thats the moment I lost connect with the character ...it was alright he was helping her but there is a thin line between helping without expectations and then helping with expectation that the person would love you back ..so this is called selfish and toxic ...everytime there is Anurag to decide for Pre ..its not other way around ..also we saw Prerna openly voices her concerns in front of Bajaj but rarely in front of Anu ...That means he is overshadowing her persona in name of love ..thats why this love is toxic and thats the reason yesterdays article was so on point.

He didn’t start dancing with her because he was attracted to her or anything. He noticed her discomfort that she felt in Naveen’s company and how she didn’t want to dance with him. So to save her from discomfort he danced with her instead

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallawi1803

Wow Anurag Basu one more post on you...you surely are slaying ladke that ppl just can't ignore u😎...keep shining n chanting ur Soulmate jaap n let ppl shower their love on u 🤗

Either we can love him or we may love to hate him... Eventually everyone is obsessedsmiley36

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Posted: 5 years ago
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@TM: Prerna decided for herself who her soulmate is going to be and she is happy with her choice. So who cares what Anurag deserves. Jab miyan biwi razi to kya kare qazi 🤷‍♀️

Edited by Cute_Virgo - 5 years ago

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