I am not a viewer. I checked the story today just out of curiosity to find out whether it's same as season 1. Didn't watch it either but I was in school that time and the show was famous. So pretty much knew the storyline.
Anyway, first some hotstar videos and then your post pretty much cleared the whole thing for me. Thanks for that. Then I went to check the comments and got stunned. So many people ( I suppose girls ) are defending Bajaj. According to them, the points you mentioned were not disrespectful towards a woman !!!!!!! First it got me speechless, then really worried and then I remembered how 50 shades of grey is an international best seller. Then everything seemed perfectly normal and I got into my usual 'meh' mode.
P.s. Batman is an antihero. Walter white is an antihero. Bajaj is a petty villain who wants to bang the babysitter.