Tolerating humilation - Page 4

Originally posted by: euphoric

Typical case of kettle calling the pot black!

Physical abuse isnt the only kind of abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse r worst kinds.

One who gives gyan on respect trades on a pregnant girl's emotions and compels her to marry him. And the one who is dying a slow death as a result, he and his family r always at fault.

You are right, Bajaj was absolutely right, as he decided to expediate the death of the sufferer in road rage! Roz roz marne se better ek baar main maar do👏

Originally posted by: Waidehi

what if this is all done by anurag to get prerna then how will u react waise bajaj has accepted he is not hiding behind ok

U r talking hypothetical, waidehi.

He may hv nt planned it. But he fled the spot and he accepted it was in a fit of rage.

And if its anurag behind it, i am nt gonna defend him. Trust me a lot from anupre fandom will quit rather than to defend him.

As far as i am concerned, I am neutral to both ksg n parth as i hv appreciated both their works. But i cant defend a character just coz ita played by a fine actor. For example, i loved priyanka chopra in aitraaz also at a point felt sorry for her... But i will never defend her!

Public humiliation part will never go from this show. I would have supported Pre if she would have left Anu when he married Komo but she did the opposite. At that time she did give it back to them which clearly shows she is not weak and she can give it back.

But now when every body accepted her before marrying Bajaj.. and enjoying every lollipop with him without hesitation. In that time she didnot thought of humiliation. She was busy loving him blah blah . So how can you guys give lectures on that humiliation when lady didnot had any issue.

A lady ditched a man whom she claimed as Ghanta soul mate in the name of sacrifice. Live in his house act like the Bose in his house. Live with her husband in her ex room and husband accidentally hit him with car in anger. Leave him to die but still support.

Ex mom gives it back to face and frankly any normal person would think the same too but so.e people are bashing them lol. Whose son is in dead bed.. man lectures them and encourages wife to stand up for herself when both dont seam to understand their mistakes. Who dont have bleaming clue of atleast saying about a child.. who bleaming act victim and naive and accept Ex and his family to stay mute lol. Slow clap.

Those who R not supporting Anurag character will always bring humiliation part but my argument would be lady know how to give it back..but dont do it. Act victim. Dont see her deed but just show victim chard lol. She dont need help but stop playing victim card lol. She need to fight by herself..she herself created a mess which she need to answer for now.

But lady feel victim all the time but act like Mardani with her ex..for no valid reason N show attitude but not to husband lol. Hipocrisy at peak

Originally posted by: euphoric

U r talking hypothetical, waidehi.

He may hv nt planned it. But he fled the spot and he accepted it was in a fit of rage.

And if its anurag behind it, i am nt gonna defend him. Trust me a lot from anupre fandom will quit rather than to defend him.

As far as i am concerned, I am neutral to both ksg n parth as i hv appreciated both their works. But i cant defend a character just coz ita played by a fine actor. For example, i loved priyanka chopra in aitraaz also at a point felt sorry for her... But i will never defend her!

Originally posted by: Waidehi

i dnt mean that way i was just giving example i am also not saying bajaj is pure he is not pure he dd wrong to marry a girl by blackmailing her but i mean i. This post is humilation which every day mohini basu does only bajaj had been able to stop othewise her lectures god 🤢 dnt mind i was just giving view i hope u wont mind i dnt belong to any fandom i watch for ksg screenspace not for story too 🤪

Agreed thr is no story. But mohini as a mother is herself very helpless here. I cant hate the mother in her. She has been wrong. I an nt denying tht. But she is the same lady when realized her fault apologized and accepted her crime in front of her family. She didnt hv to do tht. Not tht her crimes r whitwashed with this.

But if i see her now, its a mother's pain... Time n again she have seen her son fighting for his life for a girl and one fine day that girl walks out of his life claiming to marry someone's riches. Uske baad she returns to her house with her new family, and witnessing tht she sees her son's torment. And all the while she only wants tht girl to never appear in front of them again.

Yet, the girl keeps coming back and her son keeps putting his life and happiness at stake for her. I dont expect a mother to act any better than this when her son has reached deathbed!

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

they should have kept him gray/black whatever n should have progressed with he story .this forced whitewashing is doing no good but only making him look like a hypocrite..a person who talks about injustice.. getting personal stooping low n giving lectures on morality wen he himself is doing all of it..who will accept it..

Don't know wat made these writers believe that whitewashing is the only way...they Butchered Bajaj as wellthe ruthless business man..who was selfish has now just been reduced to a hypocrite who have no idea about how to handle situations hence wenever at fault gloats I m no saint n the give moralistic lectures

Ksg is a very fine actor he would have carried that black character as well with grace but no..CVS are so uncreative that they Butchered bajaj's character as well by rushing everything..

Can someone tell me the reason behind this rushing..kom track was rushed because Hina had to leave .it was for 5 months ..here it's been 4 months already wen Bajaj was introduced n no progress in story...plus the butchering started already even for Bajaj. ... Just out of curiosity asking this if ksg has any plans to leave soon???

You said it.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Does anyone remember when Veena was put to jail for stealing moh jewellery.

What vina said to prerna - Leave anurag , dont marry him. That family wont respect u at all.

And that is true. Basus r the worst family I can think of. They treated prerna so badly throughout. I am glad that she has married Bajaj cos I am sure even if she had married anu, she wld have still been ill treated. Mohini koi aur bahaana dhoond leti prerna ko blame karne kaa.

This is karma for basus. And I am enjoying it so.much

Seiinģ mohini basu in pain is such a delight to my eyes. Call me sadist . I care a hoot.

Living without love but with respect is better then living with ur love with no respect .

Yes, Veena asked Pre to not marry Anu....The same Veena also was at Anu side and cursing her own daughter when Pre ditched Anu at Mandap and married Bajaj......after giving hat advice a couple of days ago.

I don't know what fate would have befallen if Pre had married Anu, but Anu's family have never done something to actually try and kill her or cause severe physical damage....They also accepted Pre and apologized to her during Anu's jail drama. You can assume that they were fake there and would have still disrespected her after marriage. And others like me can take it as they have genuinely accepted Pre after that...Since its a show I prefer to take things as are shown.

But funny thing is Bajaj's family has already tried to kill her in addition to terrorize their own pothy who also happens to be mute just to try and get Pre somehow in trouble with Bajaj....And both Pre and Bajaj has no idea because they are also fake as heck.

I'm assuming you are saying its better to be living under such threat that too about which they are unaware of than to have a set of in laws, who might not like you as a person for what ever reason and thus might keep taunting you and insulting you?

Bold: That is an individual choice. Pre has already chosen to still be with Anu when she refused to listen to Veena ma tried to convince her otherwise.

And you think Pre is better off living with a family who is hell bent on going to the lengths of trying to kill you where you have no idea you are under such threat than to live with the possibility of disrespecting in laws....?

Originally posted by: SheAish

Yes, Veena asked Pre to not marry Anu....The same Veena also was at Anu side and cursing her own daughter when Pre ditched Anu at Mandap and married Bajaj......after giving hat advice a couple of days ago.

I don't know what fate would have befallen if Pre had married Anu, but Anu's family have never done something to actually try and kill her or cause severe physical damage....They also accepted Pre and apologized to her during Anu's jail drama. You can assume that they were fake there and would have still disrespected her after marriage. And others like me can take it as they have genuinely accepted Pre after that...Since its a show I prefer to take things as are shown.

But funny thing is Bajaj's family has already tried to kill her in addition to terrorize their own pothy who also happens to be mute just to try and get Pre somehow in trouble with Bajaj....And both Pre and Bajaj has no idea because they are also fake as heck.

I'm assuming you are saying its better to be living under such threat that too about which they are unaware of than to have a set of in laws, who might not like you as a person for what ever reason and thus might keep taunting you and insulting you?

Bold: That is an individual choice. Pre has already chosen to still be with Anu when she refused to listen to Veena ma tried to convince her otherwise.

And you think Pre is better off living with a family who is hell bent on going to the lengths of trying to kill you where you have no idea you are under such threat than to live with the possibility of disrespecting in laws....?

Self respect & respect for others matters in situations.

Here the situation is mohinis aon is in death bed

If someone says stand for your respect at this situation lagega ek keench ke khaan ke neeche dedo bhai.

Humiliation or self respect discussion at this point was OTT and overrated

Whitewash ki jagah ye blackwash hogayee.

Self respect ka gyaan was needed for prerna but not from his mouth, and not at this situation.

Mothers pain at this moment is more than anyones selfrespect

Morthers worry will be more than to consider anyones humiliation

Conclusion # anurags recovery and concern of mother at this situation would have been more worth if bajaj has talked to mohini that he is guilty & he will pray foe anurags recovery he can understand mothers pain but prerna is not the one who should be punished its him who caused tbis pain to mother.

Koi marr raha hai wahan jaake bolo tum log mujhe respect nahin de rahe ho.

Short story#

Father in law was dying doctor has told kabhi bhi tapak saktha hai budda.

Son in law comes to sasuraal to check on FIL conditon, bit he sees no one is takibg care of him.

He creates noise & blmes no one asked me how was my journey not even served me water, no one is bothered to respect me.

Tab that old mans son comes & slaps the SIL

Are u inhuman cant u see one person is on death bed & you expect respect at this time

#end of story

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

Self respect & respect for others matters in situations.

Here the situation is mohinis aon is in death bed

If someone says stand for your respect at this situation lagega ek keench ke khaan ke neeche dedo bhai.

Humiliation or self respect discussion at this point was OTT and overrated

Whitewash ki jagah ye blackwash hogayee.

Self respect ka gyaan was needed for prerna but not from his mouth, and not at this situation.

Mothers pain at this moment is more than anyones selfrespect

Morthers worry will be more than to consider anyones humiliation

Conclusion # anurags recovery and concern of mother at this situation would have been more worth if bajaj has talked to mohini that he is guilty & he will pray foe anurags recovery he can understand mothers pain but prerna is not the one who should be punished its him who caused tbis pain to mother.

Koi marr raha hai wahan jaake bolo tum log mujhe respect nahin de rahe ho.

Short story#

Father in law was dying doctor has told kabhi bhi tapak saktha hai budda.

Son in law comes to sasuraal to check on FIL conditon, bit he sees no one is takibg care of him.

He creates noise & blmes no one asked me how was my journey not even served me water, no one is bothered to respect me.

Tab that old mans son comes & slaps the SIL

Are u inhuman cant u see one person is on death bed & you expect respect at this time

#end of story

One ,I dont understand anurag prerna rishta. Chalo dard ka hi sahi. Assuming this..can't prerna see his emotional & mental pain or does she deliberately choose to see only his physical pain and ignore the rest because she is somebodys wife ?

As a human also if she pleaded them to see anurag because his condition was improving by her presence ,they should allow her , but her husband was responsible for the accident and the whole family came there and asked basus to respect them ? 🤣 i haven't seen such guilty faces..what mohini did was a natural reaction of a mother but yes. Things can be settled without pushing pulling and slapping . Still i feel in some extreme situations like death or near death , a person loses their senses..mohini is a fierce tigress protecting her cub ..but The day she will know the truth behind prerna s sacrifice she will.be forever indebted to her.

Humans sirf masi type hai ,knowing moloy and anurags condition she wants basus to be thrown out. 👏