Your views ? - Page 11

Originally posted by: shin-chan

Just would like to say this one thing as came across one comment which is very much offensive.

Who decides that only a particular member of a fandom instigates the other. What makes them eligible to say this of an IF fellow member irrespective which ever fandom that particular member belong to? Any particular eligibility they have to decide who is wrong and who is right and tell this in open?

Closely if we watch, everyone knows from where it starts and doesnt stop until MODs intervene. Still its no point in discussing this in open as it will never end and has no solution.

But end of the day, PreRish fans shud not say anything. Hmm

Originally posted by: Kabiraa

when u use the word for a character u don't like, it is offensive. I always saw u using it for Bajaj.

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

I feel that regardless of anything else, we should maintain the civility which even outsiders appreciate us for.

But one particular comment, I felt so offensive. So commented on it.

Originally posted by: najma123

Idk, we haven't interacted much so I wouldn't know. But my friends swear all the time, my teachers do to, kameena, saala and what not 😆 So for me, it seems like common talk. But that's just my take.

If not i was scratching my head maine kya bola. Me using galli word is like really kab on earth...

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

no issues RD using that word is not name calling as per me. I tried being a natorious member as always. But personnel targets are done from begining & its not first time. If you want to review closed threads pls recheck once again if u feel it should be reviewed as its human error.

Actors bashing against members bashing is at high peak & thats what making anupre fans feeling bad on moderating.

Does love on characters give free license to bash fellow members.

If its so as i call IF as illusion world i take personne targetting sportingly than it should be vice versa tooo

Thanks for speaking up for this😇

I dont think we have ever allowed member bashing be it any fandom and yes actor and character bashing has taken over this place and it always happened it started with Erica when the show started moved to Hina and then to Ksg and it filters down to their characters and their fandoms too ...and i dont think you can deny that however if u feel a member has been targeted let Munni no ...

I'm sorry for getting carried away nd naming one member in my post.

sorry @parijatrocks I should not have taken ur name like that. I admit my mistake.

that;s my last interaction with u. good bye!

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

I feel that regardless of anything else, we should maintain the civility which even outsiders appreciate us for.

I absolutely agree. We cannot have a control over what others say or do. The least and most that we can do is, refrain from saying anything that crosses the line irrespective of what the other person says, irrespective of the fact if the other person initiates a personal attack, irrespective of any and every damn thing. If one can manage this level of control and patience, one can avoid a whole toxic conversation. Nothing is worth spoiling inner peace.

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

I feel that regardless of anything else, we should maintain the civility which even outsiders appreciate us for.

Thank you mods for the thread , everybodys complaints coming out in open.... that's how our mother's sorted out our jhagdas🤣 Bachpan mein.. utho brick aur maaro sarr par..fight as much as you want..kitna karoge🤣 I have never seen such a thread in any forum ..👏 excellent way of letting all the frustrations out..hope it's a new day tomorrow. India Pakistan nai hain hum bhai behen log😆

Originally posted by: Kabiraa

sorry Wist. Got carried away.