कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 28 Aug 2019 - Page 12

Originally posted by: _charu_

He must fight moni he must definetly fight ..but this is not the way. You cannot force anyone to love you isnt it ..He should just ignore her , it will affect her more if he shows indifference...He should make her realize that she ruined him not save him...He should make her feel guilty for what she lost..He should use his brains and try to ruin bajaj instead ..else become mean and evasive. But venturing into this territory where it will look like he is forcing himself on a married woman, I dont want him there..

Anu always said he could see it in Pre’s eyes when she was lying. He knows in his heart she still loves him. The ball is in Pre’s court. If she truly moved on in her heart and doesn’t love him like she once did, then it should be easy to tell him of her sacrifice and move on and let Anu deal with his guilt or whatever it is....it’s not her problem anymore. Does she have the courage to speak the truth?

As she often claims she now belongs to Baj and his family. Great! But is she really over Anu? Or is she secretly getting some solace knowing he still loves her? Simply bec she has resigned to her life as Mrs.Baj and she tells Anu he should move on doesn’t mean he can, not if his heart is telling him she still loves him and she’s not being truthful about things. Anu is not ready to give up like a dog with a bone until he gets the truth. From his perspective he’s not wrong to want the truth ....it may hurt but will help him move on.

Pre’s unwillingness to speak truth is making Anu look to some like a stalker, harasser, etc. She has the power to set herself and Anu free of the past. But in spite of telling herself she doesn’t love Anu and resigned to being Baj’s wife she still can’t tell Anu the truth. Why? But then she holds a second secret in her belly that would bring Anu right back into her world IF the truth were to come out. Pre is creating a mess with her choices.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Whether they are making him villian or not, but definitely they are butchering anurag.

U may not agree and that's ok, we all have different perspectives.

But again and again telling her to come back to him despite her having moved on and married, doesn't show him in good light.

I do not know what love is according to you. But for me, when someone comes behind you without your consent, and doesn't respect your No is NOT love. This is only my POV, not asking you to agree.

That's not love. That's attachment, selfishness and obsession. I am not saying Anurag is selfish, am saying the love he feels for prerna is only all about wanting her back.

Love is unconditional. Whether that person wants you or does not want to be with you, you still love him but you don't try to get her back especially when she is married and is clearly not interested in being with you

Bold: 👏👏

Completely agree with you. Even being a bajaj fan, I want Anurag to fight back but he is busy in stalking and harassing prerna🤢

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Anu always said he could see it in Pre’s eyes when she was lying. He knows in his heart she still loves him. The ball is in Pre’s court. If she truly moved on in her heart and doesn’t love him like she once did, then it should be easy to tell him of her sacrifice and move on and let Anu deal with his guilt or whatever it is....it’s not her problem anymore. Does she have the courage to speak the truth?

As she often claims she now belongs to Baj and his family. Great! But is she really over Anu? Or is she secretly getting some solace knowing he still loves her? Simply bec she has resigned to her life as Mrs.Baj and she tells Anu he should move on doesn’t mean he can, not if his heart is telling him she still loves him and she’s not being truthful about things. Anu is not ready to give up like a dog with a bone until he gets the truth. From his perspective he’s not wrong to want the truth ....it may hurt but will help him move on.

Pre’s unwillingness to speak truth is making Anu look to some like a stalker, harasser, etc. She has the power to set herself and Anu free of the past. But in spite of telling herself she doesn’t love Anu and resigned to being Baj’s wife she still can’t tell Anu the truth. Why? But then she holds a second secret in her belly that would bring Anu right back into her world IF the truth were to come out. Pre is creating a mess with her choices.

Yes. This is the exact problem

Originally posted by: prb4eva

I'm not following this show since beginning,I'm even now only reading updates. Yet to watch a single episode.

But I'm regularly following this kzk thread because I'm mostly active in the s1 thread.

I'm frankly very surprised as well as shocked that ab even after so many days has yet to Crack the real reason behind her marraige to bajaj. What I came across in the thread is between the two (ap), he is more smart and uses his brain much more regularly than her. She was even ready to marry naveen. It seems if any problem arises the solution is marriage in this season.

First prerna and naveen came close to getting married

Anurag married komo

Now

Prerna married bajaj.

Instead of finding a proper solution they are taking the route of getting married and hurt the other one.

Sorry but this is not what soul mates do. They talk to each other they trust each other, find the solution to it, take consent of the other n take the required step.

Sorry if I hurt ap or prerna fans and as I. Mentioned I'm not watching the show, just reading updates. I just pointed what my thought of this show so far in this one year.

(this is the overall summary of this one year of the show if I'm not wrong)

Naveen blackmailed prerna.she was ready to marry him. Then komo blackmailed ab n he got married to her and now bajaj blackmailed prerna and she got married to him.

This is 2019,when will prerna plan to start her career? Why she needs some male characters help always to get out of a mess(I don't care it's ab or bajaj) but in this times you should be intependent enough to do that.

Sorry for the long post/lecture.

Btw Bajaj was looking hawt today, crisp white shirt, rolled up sleeves, tattoos peaking out. Plz plz put this man in shirt more often, and next time preferably a black one. Prerna already aadhi kisak gayi hai, poori kisak jaayegi.

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

look sneha i agree what u r saying is true trust me the day anu find pre loves bajaj he will leave her forever

point is he is seeing behind her face because he did the same thing with kom i will accuse him if he buy this crap that pre moved on because he is her soulmate

anus love is always different he saw pre behind her face thats anus love thats why he is fighting because he knows pre is not happy .but slowly he will find that bajaj is for her not him & he will leave her

pls listen his conversation with nivi pyar ka kya pyar nahi marta blah blah .its a battale of love love is the thing u should fight till the end

& sneha he is not behind some random girl who saying no .he is fighting for prerna so see the difference .

suppose in real life a girl get marry against her will & she is trying to move on but its a fact he is not happy at all so if her bf try to fight for her whats wrong but log nahi ladte hai aur lovestory wahi end ho jati hai

anurag showing if u have guts fight for that love .love bever die

Agree with some parts Moni 👍🏼 it was just my POV

Originally posted by: Bhagya65

Agreed he need to move on. But like my stand is always going to be with him.. reading your comment it's always going to be in Pre favour mostly. Respect your honesty there.

I dont believe in epic love saga anymore but main theme has always been their soul connection on love.. but throughout the start..I feel in my perspective I repeat on my opinion emotions has been shown more by him then her.

With her it has and will always be confuse expression and feeling from her..which is y someday both fandom will bash her equally.

He is focous in business too..he only came cause he thought he could be there to help her family. But trust me if you love someone from your heart it takes ages to forgive and move on. It has only been 1 and half month in the story I guess.. and he loved her whole heartedly so he is going to be like that for whole..confuse, angry, annoyed and even irritated at time. I know she loved him once too but the way her face, expression and actions are right now by jaaping her husband, daughter and family..its like hell hurtful for Anupre fan..where there is no clouser yet.

In some way I think she is enjoying his attention too. But I do feel pregnancy thing will be the ultimate reason for him to move on and hate her. Any misunderstanding created by Bua and Bajaj will only bring them close.. and her nature of trusting other is well demonstrated in the show then understanding him. Promo is just to make HEr misunderstood her friends with benefits. At the end.. she has brain capacity of 3 year old.

My issue with him is only when he keeps requesting her again and again to come back.

That obsession is what I find borderline creepy.

As I always say, His frustration is something I can empathize as Prerna dumped him like hot potato. But stalking is something I cannot support.

Originally posted by: Swatij20

Sneha if u want to give ur pov on my comment then please try to understand what i m really saying before u write anything in response

I nowhere mentioned what is harassment...n u couldn't understand wht I said...doing again it for u

She is not some random gal from whom he is expecting ans...i think this line does not mean that asking questions to random people is harassment...

It meant dat anurag is entitled to get ans from prerna...he clearly needs justified ans to move on....

Rahi baat stalk Karne ki toh he only stalked her in swiss where he needed his ans...he did not put some dera in front of bajaj house..

She came to a anurag n den shifting happened

N if this is stalking acc to u then what about pre coming BB...

Slap was in heat of the moment plus pre also did d same..if we talk about equality then pre also should be called dat...

N yes one thing is diff pre never said u will come back..that anurag is chanting..only diff

Then why dint u raise ur point then that pre should b booked under IPC coz pre was also doing d same...

But then everyone was happy about sassy pre...

Yes I do agree what anurag is doing may irritate lot many people...

A woman's no needs to be respected but what about man..anurag also told pre to move on in komo track n he also told jo tum.soch ri ho wo ni ho sakta

He even humilated her publicly n said no to her

But she dint take his no either...

I did read your comment before answering :) so making assumption that I didn't does make much sense here.

When did I say asking questions to random ppl is HARASSMENT?

I said running behind a woman asking her to come back in his life, whether the woman is someone random or his EX-gf is WRONG and comes under HARASSMENT especially if there is no consent

Regarding why people didn't have issues with Sassy Prerna, I cannot speak for other ppl , only myself. I think I was the only person in this forum who hated that track . And found nothing sassy about it

There is nothing sassy to go back to your ex-bf's home after he impregnates and jilts you. If Prerna had been sassy, she would have gone to the police and booked him for causing mental trauma and impregnating her. That would have been sassy.

Originally posted by: Swatij20

Sneha it's not about being anurag fan or bajaj fan..

It's just dat..wht is wrong or right. .

Nobody is defending anurag blindly...its their pov...

When anurag humilated publicly or busy babying komo but none defended him..

It's about what is ur pov...

N refrain from attacking wid personal comments on anu fans or any other fans...

Swati, I was just telling Charu that Anu fans should be more pissed with Anurag's actions and the way CVS are butchering him purposely to make Bajaj the hero but instead they have no issues

I didn't intend to Personal attack any fandom. I was just stating my opinion. I am sorry if you felt that. I will be more careful with my words 🤗

Originally posted by: _charu_

He is not asking for any answers.

Anurag left his meeting in overseas and came back for her,what he got nothing..only bad name..

What ever bajaj and prerna do is right,but anurag is wrong? I am not paarth fan,love Erica alone..but this show is driving me nuts.