कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 27 Aug 2019 - Page 8

Originally posted by: _charu_

Arre nai hai bhai stalking. This is plain harassment . Kabir singh also left his preeti alone after marriage 🤣 phir tameez se he went to her and asked clarifications. That girl was crazy and somehow the movie had to have a happy ending ..whatever.

If prerna loves her he doesn't have to declare it every minute. She will automatically come to him . He doesn't have to mouth that shit everyday to remind her that they are soulmates. Instead support her , maker her feel guilty , taunt her , force her to come out with the truth . What he is doing is creepiness specially when her husband is not around. Love doesnt know boundaries but one has to respect some if the other party insists. He will still be known as the mahan lover who did not give up on his love 🤢

She too crossed all bondaries when komo was there, she reminded him i am asli biwi komo nakli

Originally posted by: _charu_

How is this same as prerna coming to him ? She could do it because of dhaga shadi and anurag said he married her before he married komo . Moreover she kept on insisting that she is there to take revenge from anurag. Not bore him with the soulmates theory and beg him to take her back .

ab mai kya bolu look thats the difference btwn pre & anu .deep down he trust prerna that she is not done this willingly .his soul is saying this to him. deep down he knows she is not happy.

thats the difference btwn anu & pre love .thats why he want her because he thinks she is not happy

when he find pre is happy with bajaj he will let her go

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Reg closure. Breakups never have full closure.

I haven't heard of any break up where two parties indulge in some kind of group therapy sessions to see how they will move on . Iska koi process nahi hota hai.

Most of the cases its random and out of the blue

Sometimes breakups happen on phone, sometimes on face. Closure nahi mila . Closure nahi mila. Prerna has given him quite a good closure. She has said she dumped him 4 money.

Implying to him she is a gold digger. There are many boys who have been dumped like that.

Anurag shld thank himself that aise gold digger se wo Bach gaya . Find urself a better girl man .

Lekin nahi, mujhe prerna chahiye. Mujhe prerna chahiye rota rehta hai.

Jaise prerna ladki nahi koi toffee hai

Like in this case, Prerna had clearly given him a enough reason. Lack of his understanding or his own ego to see anything beyond that and accept it. IMO his maturity level. Like a kid not ready to understand.

Also I think he wanted to be convinced that she can love someone else ie her husband. Issue for him seems to be not that she is married, its actually his acceptance of the reason been presented to him. Had it been a very matured guy (which he was once upon a time, long long ago) by now would have not even waited for her to give further clarification.

Once he witnesses or learns or anyone makes him learn like Nivi/Anupam/Veena, anyone, that she is no more the same Prerna who loved him once madly, is in love with her husband.

That day reality will hit him and he should be able to move on.

Originally posted by: manj

nivi potrayed a frustation of a parent when a loved child is on the way of self destruction in the name of love.

They are trying to show anurag as a cross btw kabir singh and devdas , but failing miserably as the scrpt does not do justice.

He is refusing to let go and move ahead, not a way to,project a lead for sure.

Sujal was also shown obsessive but he never lost focus and said things like i want her.

Please do not discuss here about characters not in this show ..

Originally posted by: shin-chan

Depends from couple to couple, age group, maturity level, understanding etc I feel.

Like in this case, Prerna had clearly given him a enough reason. Lack of his understanding or his own ego to see anything beyond that and accept it. IMO his maturity level. Like a kid not ready to understand.

Also I think he wanted to be convinced that she can love someone else ie her husband. Issue for him seems to be not that she is married, its actually his acceptance of the reason been presented to him. Had it been a very matured guy (which he was once upon a time, long long ago) by now would have not even waited for her to give further clarification.

Once he witnesses or learns or anyone makes him learn like Nivi/Anupam/Veena, anyone, that she is no more the same Prerna who loved him once madly, is in love with her husband.

That day reality will hit him and he should be able to move on.

That's what it is..Prerna has not given him enough reasons. Just minutes before their marriage she was chatting merrily with him "Baarat car mein laana " and all that. .He cannot believe her reasons only because somewhere he knows it's not possible that she cares for money more than people she loves . If she cared for money abd status alone why did she reject anurags proposal that day ? He was richer than bajaj right ? So why would he believe that she is behind money ? The day reality will hit him he will definetly back off but therr is a long way to go before that ..And his behaviour is showing him in the worse light..worse than prerna

He can be given better dialogues like I know prerna is lying i know she cannot do this , that she is hiding something , she loves me and me alone and our destiny will bring us closer..Instead of "leave your husband come to me because we are soulmates"🤢 my only problem with him is these contradictory stands ..he is not giving up on her, fine , just work towards it , be a man of action and not just words

Originally posted by: manj

no closure ever happens in broken relationships.

Time is the best closure.

Who get closure immediately when relationship breaks?

Anu is potaryed as immature and spoilt and impulsive and weak.

The season 1 anu was also cruel to add to the list.

There is a sticky thread for season 1 discussions .. pl discuss S1 there

Originally posted by: anupre123

Kudos to Nivi, Shivani and Suman.. They make more sense and are practical compared to leads...

As for the track, the cvs are trying KTH but they are bad in execution with script....

Do not discuss other shows in KZK 2 EDT

Originally posted by: _charu_

That's what it is..Prerna has not given him enough reasons. Just minutes before their marriage she was chatting merrily with him "Baarat car mein laana " and all that. .He cannot believe her reasons only because somewhere he knows it's not possible that she cares for money more than people she loves . The day reality will hit him he will definetly back off but therr is a long way to go before that ..And his behaviour is showing him in the worse light..worse than prerna

He can be given better dialogues like I know prerna is lying i know she cannot do this , that she is hiding something , she loves me and me alone and our destiny will bring us closer..Instead of "leave your husband come to me because we are soulmates"🤢

Like she cannot love anyone else. He cant decide for her. This is what is pushing her more towards her husband and that she cant now stand Anurag even for few minutes. More he tries to thopofy his opinion on her, more she already finds comfort in her husband's company. (Today itself she did one comparison!). More such comparison in coming days I think.

She cant be blamed for his behavioural issue. She loved him, not owed him anything. There is a difference.

His behavioural issue is something Anurag had to deal with it personally. This much grown up adult he is.

Originally posted by: Swatij20

I disagree wid u...it is not like he just want prerna but does not love her...or he will.throw away after he gets her....no....he is always dere for helping her out....

Bas he is not ready to accept ki ab pre married bajaj so he is speaking all those lines but dat does not mean he just cribs for her lyk a child does for a toy...

He even said "not anybody can take that place even mishka n komo"

There is a hell diff loving a toy n a person...

Anurag does not love prerna the way he would love his toy..rather he loves her beyond everything n nobody can replace her in his heart...Except Ekta Mata...lol

Fine..But just about anything , any kind of irrational behaviour cannot be justified by saying that he loves her. Previously when they were trying to be together, they kept on repeating the same i love you chant like a parrot but not understand the depth of it. If anurag loved prerna so much He would have tried to find out why she didnt marry him . He would have trusted her that she only loves him and if she took a step, therr must be a huge reason behind it. And if he loves her , he would trust her when the breaking news of pregnancy will be known to all..that's why i mentioned the toy logic.....if prerna loved anurag she wouldnt be chanting revenge revenge to him and herself. Not once did she think that anurag cant do this. There must be a reason.he did the same.

Originally posted by: shin-chan

But his understanding level/male ego are surely to be blamed.

Like she cannot love anyone else. He cant decide for her. This is what is pushing her more towards her husband and that she cant now stand Anurag even for few minutes. More he tries to thopofy his opinion on her, more she already finds comfort in her husband's company. (Today itself she did one comparison!). More such comparison in coming days I think.

She cant be blamed for his behavioural issue. She loved him, not owed him anything. There is a difference.

His behavioural issue is something Anurag had to deal with it personally. This much grown up adult he is.

That's what I said.. his behaviour is unacceptable.

The rest of your post , bajaj and prerna have to reach that level ,and right now , prerna is only pretending to hate anurag ..or whatever..it's not clear whats on her mind. The same day she was talking to him through moon.