Love is not only about feelings but trust and respect as well - Page 7

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Posted: 6 years ago
#61

The Title is absolutely correct where there is No Trust or Respect Love cannot survive or exist

In terms of the three characters this is my take on all three attributes. I am only talking about characters not actors

Anurag absolutely loves Prerna he has on more than one occasion displayed that but does he trust her I don’t think so for if he did then he wouldn’t have taken the rash decision to marry Komo to save Basu and Sharma’s ,was his intentions wrong no but was there trust in their Relationship no. Respect in my book to some extent goes along with trust when we respect someone we will trust them to involve them in our decisions in this case there was no respect . So abundance of love no respect or trust .

Prerna has done the same thing now does she love Anurag yes but does she respect him enough to tell him about the baby no . We have to ask why is it she hid such an important news from Anurag is it trust issues because of how he behaved with Komo ? So Love in plenty but no respect or trust.

Bajaj put forth a proposition to a helpless young woman who was in no condition to refuse is he a shrewd businessman yes, does he respect woman no because if he did he wouldn’t have offered marriage to a young woman who has no choice. As far as trust he does not trust her because he gave her some tips of Rohit but held back the rest so she would not refuse his offer and as far as Love I don’t see that in him yet so cannot comment.

So in essence all Anurag and Prerna lack atleast 2 of the three so Love alone here cannot triumph since the other two are missing as far as Bajaj he needs all three atleast as far as Prerna is concerned if that is the way the story is being developed.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't even know where was blackmail? Did bajju ask pre to marry on gun point or knife point?

In fact Anurag's case was over before marriage drama, she could have dumped him and ditched him. He didn't go behind her to check loyality card, she was more desperate to give loyality proof to man who actually trapped her good for nothing lover.

She doesn't need to be loyal with him after marriage as well. If you don't believe in that marriage, nothing matters... sindoor, mangalsutra etc are materialistic things. Run away. Did bajaj appoint extra secutity to cage her in his dark and depressing palace?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

I like bajaj individually but what he did to pre is not done at all..anu pre did nothing to deserve this...he has been extremely selfish and manipulative , he cud have brought any girl he wished but forcing /blackmailing a woman who loves someone else and is pregnant with his child , n calling it " prized possession " is not giving respect to her. He is infact degrading her , hurting her and literally killed her soul , for his godforsaken reason , whatever it is..agreed pre is wrong to hide it all , she should have told someone n not complicate it to this level....but her one dialogue "at least you will be alive in front of me " says it all..she admitted what she did was wrong but her reason wasnt..that reason is hers , we cant judge it..she has accepted her fate too..i respect her for this..but bajaj is not her hero ..i know the character is yet to unfold , and go through diff transformations in future..but right now he is painted totally black ...

I agree! A lot of people are giving Bajaj a pass because of what MIGHT happen in the future or taking reference from season 1. But, as we're seeing, even Prerna is not the same Prerna as she used to be so why would they make Bajaj's character similar.

When you get to the bottom of it, Bajaj is objectifying Prerna through and through. He knows 0 things about her other than the fact that she is loyal. With one trait, he's running with it and running so far that he's willing to marry her? Bajaj is not as interesting as the writer's are trying to make him out to be. He is a man who wants to use a woman for his own pleasure and advantage. He doesn't respect her. I don't want to see a love story between them because I don't believe in their foundation. I don't believe in this modern version of beauty and the beast where Prerna has to crack Bajaj's hard shell and turn him into someone that can have real feelings or whatever bs they're trying to shove down our throat.

In contrast, Anurag and Prerna's start as a friendship really intrigued me. And the time before their engagement between them where we saw the love, bond, and admiration and respect for each other was great. Of course I'm damn pissed that Prerna took this step but that's what these two do for each other. They each go to the extremes to prove that they would die for each other.

And Bajaj honestly is a pretty great villain. He knows how to mess with people, use their weaknesses against each other, and use them as a pawn in his games. I think that's interesting, or as interesting as a villain gets in KZK2. Yeah, in the future, Bajaj may be redeemable, I would want to see his redemption arc but right now he's in the phase where he screws over people and wreaks havoc in their lives. And yes, you can very much like a character like that and appreciate how well an actor is portraying said character. However, you can't get upset for people analyzing a character based on the information that we have been provided and not give him benefit of the doubt due to future tracks that may or may not happen!

(Thanks for coming to my TED talk lmao)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Anurag claims to love Prerna but still could never stop his mother, Mohini Basu from taunting her and calling her a gold digger! Where’s the respect Mr Anurag Basu?

It’s still early days but I don’t think Bajaj would leave Prerna humiliated.

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