Personality differences. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Zaalima_5

Bajaj already said his dushamani is not professional its personal..

So its revenge.. You know how revenge drama prgresses in future.. So let cvs unfold story first.. Then declare him villain..✋

Not necessary if his dushmani is personal, he shall not be a villain. It might just be his misconception or something that he might have blown out of proportion or something that was more about his ego. Or he really can be a victim too. We never know. As of now, he looks like a villain to me who goes on destroying every successful business without any dushmani as well, just to fulfill his badnaami Ka nasha!

Originally posted by: IFLove

Not much addicted to the show anyways, but still got a reality check today. The entire Mumbai is flooding, trains r stuck at a place, people r not able to reach their workplaces, some are losing out on their income for the day and when been through all this, I realise there r such grave problems around n we r stuck in petty fights here (including me). So let's take a chill pill guys n give our opinions nicely n let's not fight

Coming to the point, the story of this show has forever been regressive, hence never had great expectations from it. The disappointment is the same story is being recycled. But I seem to find one difference though.

Anurag agreed to marry komolika to save his business, their houses etc etc. He was totally wrong to give up so easily n not trying to find a way out after marriage as well. He was bashed left right n centre for humiliating prerna n her love, publicly. The viewers have not forgiven the writers for letting him go without a loud n clear apology, some have understood their way have of understanding though. At that time, komo was a vamp n was definitely wrong with her obsession and destructive personality. Anurag too was wrong in giving up and humiliating Prerna. What created a difference among Anu n komo was komo had bad intentions whereas Anu didn't. That made komo a vamp n Anu a hero. However, a fact remains that Anurag was wrong!

In Naveen babu track, prerna was blackmailed into marrying due to the mortgaged house. She agreed to that to save the property in which her parents were emotionally invested. She should have taken other ways to arrange the funds, she should have shared this with her family or her friend anurag, she didn't. She was wrong n was bashed left right n centre. Again, what made a difference was intentions. Naveen had intentions to sell her to the richies abroad which were wrong and prerna had intentions to protect her family's emotions n a roof on their heads which was good. Hence Naveen was a villain n prerna a heroine. Fact still remains undenied that prerna was wrong!

Now comes bajaj track. Bajaj has intentions to destroy Basu's. We don't know yet whether the agenda is personal or professional. Whatever it is, it is wrong. Destruction can never ever be justified, unless they show us a strong motive in future. Till then bajaj is a villain for me. Though he might not be intending to have a romantic marriage with prerna as of now, but doing anything in the name of destroying someone is vile. Coming to blackmailing part, it is wrong, no doubt n no arguments on that hopefully. About age, I guess any age gap is ok till both r in love. If an old man or woman forces a younger woman or man to marry using their power, it is cringy. Being blackmailed by a person ur age is bad too. But imagine being teased or molested by a person ur age n a person ur father's age or double Ur age. Who will give u more creeps? Obviously the uncle! I know bajaj has no lusty intentions as of now, this was just an example to explain y age difference is making the whole issue more worse for some. I'll wait to see what prerna thinks n does. If she easily gives up, she'll be wrong too. However one thing that differs here from previous tracks is that no sacrifice is being done for money or property or emotions. Prerna will bend down to bajaj to save Anu from the jail. She'll realise that bajaj is too powerful to be defeated, that this is the only way she can save her Anurag from being jailed n ensure his safety. It is about his life and death. It's quite realistic that there r such powerful personalities in front of whom u really can do nothing apart from bending down to them n choosing their ways. Naveen was not as powerful as bajaj and saving Anurag from fake murder charges is a more serious issue than saving Sharma nivas...this is the difference. My only hope is, writes leave no loopholes n show prerna trying every other way before giving in to bajaj. Or else, she will have her share of bashing.

PS-

1. A woman is not being humiliated for the first time, the post against it is not being written for the first time too. Like everytime such post was created, it is being created now too n hence should be taken in the same spirit.

2. A worse thing doesn't make a bad thing good. Just because bajaj isn't lusty, it doesn't make his destructive n blackmailing actions any great

3. Anurag n prerna have been as much wrong in their places too but what makes them better than komo n bajaj r their intentions, theirs r to save something n komo-bajaj's r to destroy something

4. Old age charm might appeal some people, boyish charm might appeal the others. Ruthless personality might be attractive for some, honest innocene might be for others. Let's all agree to disagree on that without mocking the choices of others.

Appreciate this unbiased post from your end....You have put everything in words and this is way better than opening new threads to just bash the new character.

I always enjoy reading your posts. Very nicely put in!

Prerna and Anurag destroyed Naveen and Komolika, which was justified because we know about their kala Kandi.

Bajaj wants to destroy Anurag, We don't know the reason, but we know that there is a reason.

Naveen and Komolika had no reason other than their lust.

We can say that maybe Bajaj has misconstrued whole situation, he is taking wrong steps so did Anurag and Prerna in their fight/revenge against Komolika and Naveen. For AnuPre Naveen and Komolika were wrong, for Bajaj Anurag is wrong.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I always enjoy reading your posts. Very nicely put in!

Thanks a lot

N so good to have u back🤗

I had read in AT that u had left for a while...hope all's well now

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Prerna and Anurag destroyed Naveen and Komolika, which was justified because we know about their kala Kandi.

Bajaj wants to destroy Anurag, We don't know the reason, but we know that there is a reason.

Naveen and Komolika had no reason other than their lust.

We can say that maybe Bajaj has misconstrued whole situation, he is taking wrong steps so did Anurag and Prerna in their fight/revenge against Komolika and Naveen. For AnuPre Naveen and Komolika were wrong, for Bajaj Anurag is wrong.

I think there's a difference in the wrong steps. Anupre destroyed themselves in their revenge, bajaj is destroying others. Prerna destroyed only herself fighting against Naveen. Yes anurag destroyed prerna in his revenge against komolika, but weren't they one unit already? They were in love n had confessed it. I don't support the way Anurag openly humiliated her, he should have very informed her in private. But prerna's trust was unshakable too. She doubted him at times when he forced her to, but she always knew there's something more than that meets her eyes, she found it out n helped Anurag. So unintentionally they were together in this, they were a team against komolika, they only destroyed eachother, not anybody else. Here, bajaj has destroyed Basu publications, he has destroyed Anurag by fake allegations, he has destroyed prerna by proposing her to marry him, he has destroyed the most egoistic mohini by putting her son in danger, he'll destroy both the families by destroying these two n their business.

So the wrong steps taken in the revenge are not at all similar.

Great Post IFL ....

This forum has welcomed criticism/bashing for Naveen/Kom/Anurag/Prerna , so ya why not Bajaj ...

I really hope this Marriage condition is just Bajaj testing Prerna thing and no real ....because this just so unfit and so ermm creepy ...

I don't get why Marriage is needed

1) If He want to settle scores with Anurag ( for the kaand that not Anurag but his Father did ) , so he is using Anurag's weak spot , that means he is just A SORE LOOSEERRR ... who cant fight his battle directly with Anurag and using his family that too asking her to marry him who is almost double her age .

2) If he is doing this for his daughter , then He can simply ask Prerna to be her care taker , but make a young girl go against her wish and marry her ?

This just makes Bajaj look like , he wants a young girl as wife ....

This is again part of seaosn 1 main script , I was young back then so really did no ponder upon Bajaj's condition to Pre ...but as I got old , I realize how disgusting this set up was . Too bad audience lapped it back then , may be they did not pay heed , or too busy ..or no medium to put forth the thought.

Prerna and Anurag are idots and unfortunately the show concept is such that They would shown such and we will be voicing their dumbness everyone .... but that doesn't mean person like Bajaj get a freeway ...He got in season 1 , I really hope Audience this time around atleast voice out how wrong he is.

Tell me one thing IFL .... how does Revenge reason gives him a justification to take advantage of someone's helplessness and make a young (half of your age) girl marry you ? I'm sorry for bringing in the age gap , because this is legit creepy .

Too bad such person will be glorified later, such ITV MCP's get freepass in name of the sob back story .

This very thing annoyed me in season 1 and too bad this is being repeated again in Season 2 .

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Thanks for this topic , I hope this survives ......

Originally posted by: IFLove

Not much addicted to the show anyways, but still got a reality check today. The entire Mumbai is flooding, trains r stuck at a place, people r not able to reach their workplaces, some are losing out on their income for the day and when been through all this, I realise there r such grave problems around n we r stuck in petty fights here (including me). So let's take a chill pill guys n give our opinions nicely n let's not fight

Coming to the point, the story of this show has forever been regressive, hence never had great expectations from it. The disappointment is the same story is being recycled. But I seem to find one difference though.

Anurag agreed to marry komolika to save his business, their houses etc etc. He was totally wrong to give up so easily n not trying to find a way out after marriage as well. He was bashed left right n centre for humiliating prerna n her love, publicly. The viewers have not forgiven the writers for letting him go without a loud n clear apology, some have understood their way have of understanding though. At that time, komo was a vamp n was definitely wrong with her obsession and destructive personality. Anurag too was wrong in giving up and humiliating Prerna. What created a difference among Anu n komo was komo had bad intentions whereas Anu didn't. That made komo a vamp n Anu a hero. However, a fact remains that Anurag was wrong!

In Naveen babu track, prerna was blackmailed into marrying due to the mortgaged house. She agreed to that to save the property in which her parents were emotionally invested. She should have taken other ways to arrange the funds, she should have shared this with her family or her friend anurag, she didn't. She was wrong n was bashed left right n centre. Again, what made a difference was intentions. Naveen had intentions to sell her to the richies abroad which were wrong and prerna had intentions to protect her family's emotions n a roof on their heads which was good. Hence Naveen was a villain n prerna a heroine. Fact still remains undenied that prerna was wrong!

Now comes bajaj track. Bajaj has intentions to destroy Basu's. We don't know yet whether the agenda is personal or professional. Whatever it is, it is wrong. Destruction can never ever be justified, unless they show us a strong motive in future. Till then bajaj is a villain for me. Though he might not be intending to have a romantic marriage with prerna as of now, but doing anything in the name of destroying someone is vile. Coming to blackmailing part, it is wrong, no doubt n no arguments on that hopefully. About age, I guess any age gap is ok till both r in love. If an old man or woman forces a younger woman or man to marry using their power, it is cringy. Being blackmailed by a person ur age is bad too. But imagine being teased or molested by a person ur age n a person ur father's age or double Ur age. Who will give u more creeps? Obviously the uncle! I know bajaj has no lusty intentions as of now, this was just an example to explain y age difference is making the whole issue more worse for some. I'll wait to see what prerna thinks n does. If she easily gives up, she'll be wrong too. However one thing that differs here from previous tracks is that no sacrifice is being done for money or property or emotions. Prerna will bend down to bajaj to save Anu from the jail. She'll realise that bajaj is too powerful to be defeated, that this is the only way she can save her Anurag from being jailed n ensure his safety. It is about his life and death. It's quite realistic that there r such powerful personalities in front of whom u really can do nothing apart from bending down to them n choosing their ways. Naveen was not as powerful as bajaj and saving Anurag from fake murder charges is a more serious issue than saving Sharma nivas...this is the difference. My only hope is, writes leave no loopholes n show prerna trying every other way before giving in to bajaj. Or else, she will have her share of bashing.

PS-

1. A woman is not being humiliated for the first time, the post against it is not being written for the first time too. Like everytime such post was created, it is being created now too n hence should be taken in the same spirit.

2. A worse thing doesn't make a bad thing good. Just because bajaj isn't lusty, it doesn't make his destructive n blackmailing actions any great

3. Anurag n prerna have been as much wrong in their places too but what makes them better than komo n bajaj r their intentions, theirs r to save something n komo-bajaj's r to destroy something

4. Old age charm might appeal some people, boyish charm might appeal the others. Ruthless personality might be attractive for some, honest innocene might be for others. Let's all agree to disagree on that without mocking the choices of others.

Well said! 👏Excellent post.

Every character has flaws and their intentions matter, it’s what defines their character. What determines an action as right or wrong is the intention behind it.

There is a huge diff between accidentally hitting someone with a stick and picking up a stick to beat them to a pulp.

Case in point, Ronit and Komo intentionally set to hurt Anu and Pre. They couldn’t digest that Anu and Pre were in love. There was a sense of entitlement that whatever Komo demands she gets. Ronit supported that his sister get what she wanted.

Originally posted by: RollingStones

Great Post IFL ....

This forum has welcomed criticism/bashing for Naveen/Kom/Anurag/Prerna , so ya why not Bajaj ...

I really hope this Marriage condition is just Bajaj testing Prerna thing and no real ....because this just so unfit and so ermm creepy ...

I don't get why Marriage is needed

1) If He want to settle scores with Anurag ( for the kaand that not Anurag but his Father did ) , so he is using Anurag's weak spot , that means he is just A SORE LOOSEERRR ... who cant fight his battle directly with Anurag and using his family that too asking her to marry him who is almost double her age .

2) If he is doing this for his daughter , then He can simply ask Prerna to be her care taker , but make a young girl go against her wish and marry her ?

This just makes Bajaj look like , he wants a young girl as wife ....

This is again part of seaosn 1 main script , I was young back then so really did no ponder upon Bajaj's condition to Pre ...but as I got old , I realize how disgusting this set up was . Too bad audience lapped it back then , may be they did not pay heed , or too busy ..or no medium to put forth the thought.

Prerna and Anurag are idots and unfortunately the show concept is such that They would shown such and we will be voicing their dumbness everyone .... but that doesn't mean person like Bajaj get a freeway ...He got in season 1 , I really hope Audience this time around atleast voice out how wrong he is.

Tell me one thing IFL .... how does Revenge reason gives him a justification to take advantage of someone's helplessness and make a young (half of your age) girl marry you ? I'm sorry for bringing in the age gap , because this is legit creepy .

Too bad such person will be glorified later, such ITV MCP's get freepass in name of the sob back story .

This very thing annoyed me in season 1 and too bad this is being repeated again in Season 2 .

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Thanks for this topic , I hope this survives ......

I agree with ur 1st point...that's what I said in one of my comments too. I love the characters who have principles even when they take revenge. That's what differs them from plain black villains n makes them the so called grey shaded characters. Usoolo wala banda kabhi masoom logo ko apni jung mein nahi ghaseetata! Moloy has wronged you? Be a man enough to face him n defeat him, y using his family? BP is Moloy's business, so I m ok if he destroys it, but y trapping anupre unless he has something personal about them?

I hope people have grown over the years and understand that the leads not be mahaan n most perfect individuals like bhagwan Ka roop n they don't disown them just because they make some mistakes n rather accept a worse personality to supposedly teach them a lesson. Anurag, prerna and bajaj...all three being right or wrong are completely unrelated.

Any motive of revenge doesn't justify any destruction or blackmailing or using a helpless person. But if the motive is really strong, like similar thing was done to bajaj in the past, then it might be logical. Like in Ek Bhram...the villain had humiliated n burned FL's father alive in her childhood. So she was doing the same things to the villain n his family, she made them face the humiliations n finally tried to burn him alive. So if something like that is the case, I might understand him. Maybe if moloy had forced his wife to leave him or something like that😂 still, using Anupre is cowardly, as we said. He should have made mohini leave moloy n taken her along with him😂 anyways, it still makes some sense. Otherwise it doesn't.

If bajaj is supposed to be an iconic character, make him strong enough, not such a looser

Originally posted by: IFLove

I think there's a difference in the wrong steps. Anupre destroyed themselves in their revenge, bajaj is destroying others. Prerna destroyed only herself fighting against Naveen. Yes anurag destroyed prerna in his revenge against komolika, but weren't they one unit already? They were in love n had confessed it. I don't support the way Anurag openly humiliated her, he should have very informed her in private. But prerna's trust was unshakable too. She doubted him at times when he forced her to, but she always knew there's something more than that meets her eyes, she found it out n helped Anurag. So unintentionally they were together in this, they were a team against komolika, they only destroyed eachother, not anybody else. Here, bajaj has destroyed Basu publications, he has destroyed Anurag by fake allegations, he has destroyed prerna by proposing her to marry him, he has destroyed the most egoistic mohini by putting her son in danger, he'll destroy both the families by destroying these two n their business.

So the wrong steps taken in the revenge are not at all similar.

You missed my point. Anurag and Prerna destroyed Naveen and Komolika, because we know their reasons behind it, we can say that they were not wrong. We do not know the reason why Bajaj is against Anurag but we know that there is a reason.

That reason is key difference between Naveen-Komolika and Bajaj.

AnuPre are safedi ki chamkar characters, black marks of their lives are scratched labeled on back of black characters like Naveen/Komolika. Mr. Bajaj is a grey character, black and white is a part of his life, this is key difference between Bajaj and AnuPre.

Edit : AnuPre being one because they have proclaimed their love for each other therefore it doesn't count, is too romantic for my sanity.