Personality differences.

Not much addicted to the show anyways, but still got a reality check today. The entire Mumbai is flooding, trains r stuck at a place, people r not able to reach their workplaces, some are losing out on their income for the day and when been through all this, I realise there r such grave problems around n we r stuck in petty fights here (including me). So let's take a chill pill guys n give our opinions nicely n let's not fight

Coming to the point, the story of this show has forever been regressive, hence never had great expectations from it. The disappointment is the same story is being recycled. But I seem to find one difference though.

Anurag agreed to marry komolika to save his business, their houses etc etc. He was totally wrong to give up so easily n not trying to find a way out after marriage as well. He was bashed left right n centre for humiliating prerna n her love, publicly. The viewers have not forgiven the writers for letting him go without a loud n clear apology, some have understood their way have of understanding though. At that time, komo was a vamp n was definitely wrong with her obsession and destructive personality. Anurag too was wrong in giving up and humiliating Prerna. What created a difference among Anu n komo was komo had bad intentions whereas Anu didn't. That made komo a vamp n Anu a hero. However, a fact remains that Anurag was wrong!

In Naveen babu track, prerna was blackmailed into marrying due to the mortgaged house. She agreed to that to save the property in which her parents were emotionally invested. She should have taken other ways to arrange the funds, she should have shared this with her family or her friend anurag, she didn't. She was wrong n was bashed left right n centre. Again, what made a difference was intentions. Naveen had intentions to sell her to the richies abroad which were wrong and prerna had intentions to protect her family's emotions n a roof on their heads which was good. Hence Naveen was a villain n prerna a heroine. Fact still remains undenied that prerna was wrong!

Now comes bajaj track. Bajaj has intentions to destroy Basu's. We don't know yet whether the agenda is personal or professional. Whatever it is, it is wrong. Destruction can never ever be justified, unless they show us a strong motive in future. Till then bajaj is a villain for me. Though he might not be intending to have a romantic marriage with prerna as of now, but doing anything in the name of destroying someone is vile. Coming to blackmailing part, it is wrong, no doubt n no arguments on that hopefully. About age, I guess any age gap is ok till both r in love. If an old man or woman forces a younger woman or man to marry using their power, it is cringy. Being blackmailed by a person ur age is bad too. But imagine being teased or molested by a person ur age n a person ur father's age or double Ur age. Who will give u more creeps? Obviously the uncle! I know bajaj has no lusty intentions as of now, this was just an example to explain y age difference is making the whole issue more worse for some. I'll wait to see what prerna thinks n does. If she easily gives up, she'll be wrong too. However one thing that differs here from previous tracks is that no sacrifice is being done for money or property or emotions. Prerna will bend down to bajaj to save Anu from the jail. She'll realise that bajaj is too powerful to be defeated, that this is the only way she can save her Anurag from being jailed n ensure his safety. It is about his life and death. It's quite realistic that there r such powerful personalities in front of whom u really can do nothing apart from bending down to them n choosing their ways. Naveen was not as powerful as bajaj and saving Anurag from fake murder charges is a more serious issue than saving Sharma nivas...this is the difference. My only hope is, writes leave no loopholes n show prerna trying every other way before giving in to bajaj. Or else, she will have her share of bashing.

PS-

1. A woman is not being humiliated for the first time, the post against it is not being written for the first time too. Like everytime such post was created, it is being created now too n hence should be taken in the same spirit.

2. A worse thing doesn't make a bad thing good. Just because bajaj isn't lusty, it doesn't make his destructive n blackmailing actions any great

3. Anurag n prerna have been as much wrong in their places too but what makes them better than komo n bajaj r their intentions, theirs r to save something n komo-bajaj's r to destroy something

4. Old age charm might appeal some people, boyish charm might appeal the others. Ruthless personality might be attractive for some, honest innocene might be for others. Let's all agree to disagree on that without mocking the choices of others.

Originally posted by: IFLove

3. Anurag n prerna have been as much wrong in their places too but what makes them better than komo n bajaj r their intentions, theirs r to save something n komo-bajaj's r to destroy something

save something which belongs to them but not others which means self‐interest but not public interest.

I dont know about Komo. but from Baja's perspective, destroy something to take revenge on someone/family who ruined your personal/professional life. again self interest but not public interest.

in this case, both are equal for me.

Since this revenge is personal as well as professional as per Bajaj, that means Basus have some dirt on them from the past. That secret will change everything. That secret is what has not made Bajaj a villain as of now but a grey-shaded dark character. That's the only intrigue about him right now. Komo & Naveen were a villain because we all knew the reasons which were nothing but evil & obsessive.

If that secret is stupid, then Bajaj is doomed like other villains of the show. But if Basus had clearly done something shady in the past, that gives some legitimacy to Bajaj's revenge on them. Prerna is suffering at Bajaj's hands only because of her association with Basus.

Komo & Naveen were after Anu & Prerna with their obsessive behavior, for them it was all about getting AnuPre for themselves by hook or by crook. Bajaj is after Basus (which is headed by Anu whose weak nerve is Prerna) with a revenge for something they did in the past. That makes Bajaj a different character as of now.

One will have to wait for a month for Bajaj's character to reveal that secret. It all boils down to secret for Bajaj.

Very nicely put all the points. 👏

U said u found a difference then u proved there is no diff between naveen , komo and bajaj. Whats there to reply? 😆 nothing . Take a bow..

My cousin was also stuck in the rains in mumbai..stay safe !

Originally posted by: _charu_

Very nicely put all the points. 👏

U said u found a difference then u proved there is no diff between naveen , komo and bajaj. Whats there to reply? 😆 nothing . Take a bow..

My cousin was also stuck in the rains in mumbai..stay safe !

There's no difference in Naveen komo n bajaj

Difference is in Prerna's sacrifice. Earlier she sacrificed for Sharma niwas to a not so powerful man which was stupid n deserved all the bashing. Now if she sacrifices, it will be to save Anurag from murder charges, it will be a little understandable for me. Because when the case is formed on fake allegations with hidden motives n other party to a case is as powerful as bajaj, it is possible for them to manipulate the case their way n it is almost impossible for the common man to prove themselves right n they tend to accept the terms of such powerful party to save themselves. So I won't bash prerna for accepting bajaj's deal only if she tries enough before accepting his deal. Later I'll see how it goes ahead

Originally posted by: hasini009

save something which belongs to them but not others which means self‐interest but not public interest.

I dont know about Komo. but from Baja's perspective, destroy something to take revenge on someone/family who ruined your personal/professional life. again self interest but not public interest.

in this case, both are equal for me.

We don't know yet why is bajaj behind the Basu's. As of now, it looks like he has that nasha of winning and defeating others. He did the same to the other company as well with which he had no dushmani. So until I know he has any reason to take revenge, I'll not support his actions. Also, that has to be something really strong to justify his actions of putting fake allegations of murder on someone n breaking a marriage etc etc. Not some fuski revenge. Also, if say moloy has done something to him, he should take revenge from moloy, not others. I support a revenge with principles. If anupre r innocent n he is extracting his own revenge on them, it's not justifiable

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Since this revenge is personal as well as professional as per Bajaj, that means Basus have some dirt on them from the past. That secret will change everything. That secret is what has not made Bajaj a villain as of now but a grey-shaded dark character. That's the only intrigue about him right now. Komo & Naveen were a villain because we all knew the reasons which were nothing but evil & obsessive.

If that secret is stupid, then Bajaj is doomed like other villains of the show. But if Basus had clearly done something shady in the past, that gives some legitimacy to Bajaj's revenge on them. Prerna is suffering at Bajaj's hands only because of her association with Basus.

Komo & Naveen were after Anu & Prerna with their obsessive behavior, for them it was all about getting AnuPre for themselves by hook or by crook. Bajaj is after Basus (which is headed by Anu whose weak nerve is Prerna) with a revenge for something they did in the past. That makes Bajaj a different character as of now.

One will have to wait for a month for Bajaj's character to reveal that secret. It all boils down to secret for Bajaj.

Good one👏

Originally posted by: IFLove

There's no difference in Naveen komo n bajaj

Difference is in Prerna's sacrifice. Earlier she sacrificed for Sharma niwas to a not so powerful man which was stupid n deserved all the bashing. Now if she sacrifices, it will be to save Anurag from murder charges, it will be a little understandable for me. Because when the case is formed on fake allegations with hidden motives n other party to a case is as powerful as bajaj, it is possible for them to manipulate the case their way n it is almost impossible for the common man to prove themselves right n they tend to accept the terms of such powerful party to save themselves. So I won't bash prerna for accepting bajaj's deal only if she tries enough before accepting his deal. Later I'll see how it goes ahead

Prerna was.not aware that naveen was a human trafficker isnt it ? So her sacrifice was limited to getting married to a man for saving her sharma nivas. With anurag also it was ok, the reason he sacrificed ,the intentions all good , execution was horrible . He cud have easily taken prerna in confidence.

As of now.we dont know whether bajaj framed anurag or not . Or ronit took advantage of bajaj and anurags rivalry and laid a trap for anurag . Bajaj might be having the proofs which can prove anurag innocent and hence the deal. Why the deal is not yet known . He is not a womanizer definetly otherwise he had women who were ready to throw themselves at him .

Now comes the difference..there is a huge difference in naveen and bajaj and coming epis will tell us what..yes ..till then he is a villain... I am not justifying mr bajaj here.

Bajaj already said his dushamani is not professional its personal..

So its revenge.. You know how revenge drama prgresses in future.. So let cvs unfold story first.. Then declare him villain..✋

Originally posted by: _charu_

Prerna was.not aware that naveen was a human trafficker isnt it ? So her sacrifice was limited to getting married to a man for saving her sharma nivas. With anurag also it was ok, the reason he sacrificed ,the intentions all good , execution was horrible . He cud have easily taken prerna in confidence.

As of now.we dont know whether bajaj framed anurag or not . Or ronit took advantage of bajaj and anurags rivalry and laid a trap for anurag . Bajaj might be having the proofs which can prove anurag innocent and hence the deal. Why the deal is not yet known . He is not a womanizer definetly otherwise he had women who were ready to throw themselves at him .

Now comes the difference..there is a huge difference in naveen and bajaj and coming epis will tell us what..yes ..till then he is a villain... I am not justifying mr bajaj here.

I don't think it's Ronit's trap alone. B & R are together in this. How would Ronit get free entry in bajaj's house or factory otherwise? When anurag broke into his house, his security guys chased him, that didn't happen with Ronit. The way Ronit was behaving in last 2 episodes was like a pawn of Bajaj.