कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 12 Jun 2019 - Page 30

This show is well made with all commercial elements but it is lacking soul that was found in several Balaji serials like YHM, Abhimaan, even IPK

They are just showing teenage type love between Anupre not soulful matured love that these shows are able to portray. That impact is missing. Anu shud have felt more pathos for hurting Pre with all those words he said and also for marrying another woman and not being ale to stick to the promises. It is only Erica Parth's charm and chemistry that is working.

The show is being taken with mind for TRP commercially. They shud have taken it with heart and soul like other directors.

Ekta was lying when she said KZK means alot to her. It is only for promotional purpose. She just used it for drama for TRP seeing how still Anupre, Komo, Bajaj are talked. The soul is missing.

There is no needed talk nothing about all that happened. It was well pushed under the blanket. It is only again teenage love talk nothing serious analysis of what happened. It's like whole mistake is of Komo.

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

mily if anybody moveon in their life then they r not soulmate

then they r ordinary couple

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

nailah radha krishna livestory is actually a thornbird lovestory where radha took that sharp pain in her heart & sacrificed her love for greatergood.die silently krishna never moved on his life he just marry after one to another but he always loved radha

radha krishna showed us selfless love is above everything

& anupre showed same selfless love

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Nailah, What Moni means is that if one is married to someone but you recognize someone else as your soulmate, then your mind and heart is with your soulmate only.. And you are only doing your duties in marriage and being physically present with that person but without any love or feelings for that person.. You are only attending to your duties as a wife or husband but truly never belonging to him/her both mind and heartwise.. And living your life in mind and heart, with your soulmate..

Lucky are those who has found a soulmate in their life partners or never recognize anyone as your soulmate with whom you are unable to join for whatever reasons.. Else their life will be never peaceful.. And if you make peace with the life that you have got then the other person has never been your soulmate but only someone you fell in love with at one point in time and moved on with the life that you have got into.. Because you can never be able to move on if you have recognized your soulmate outside your marriage and that marriage is only a compromise..

Moni - Sorry I expanded it too much.. Hope this is right.. 😉

Love can be other physical parameter when it comes to soul mate.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Moni, just asking coz I don't know, krishna would have fulfilled his duties as a husband with his wife.

yes he did

Radha’s love for Krishna was selfless. Krishna acknowledge that. She just loved Krishna without expectations of him.

Krishna told Radha your love is unconditional and pure but Rukmini is my destiny.

One could say it’s better to set the man or woman free if their heart is with someone else. If the couple has young children together then it is a challenge. Once the children are grown up some couples opt to go their separate ways. That’s modern society as it is.

Many people label their physical chemistry/attraction to someone as love. Love is accepting and trusting the other just the way they are, not the way we want them to be.

When someone says “I love you” what they mean to say is I like myself when I’m with you. Often times the very person they claim to love does or says something that hurts their feelings. Rather than deal with the underlying pain and emotions they avoid it later gives way to feelings of indifference/hatred/resentment etc.

Trust is the foundation of a marriage. One doesn’t need proof to trust, either they do or they don’t. Once cracked they can try to glue it together but it’s never the same. One little incident will crack it open again.

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

This show is well made with all commercial elements but it is lacking soul that was found in several Balaji serials like YHM, Parichay, even Gul shows IPK or QH s1 that wish to make a good product with heart.

They are just showing teenage type love between Anupre not soulful matured love that these shows are able to portray. That impact is missing. Anu shud have felt more pathos for hurting Pre with all those words he said and also for marrying another woman and not being ale to stick to the promises. It is only Erica Parth's charm and chemistry that is working.

The show is being taken with mind for TRP commercially. They shud have taken it with heart and soul like other directors.

Ekta was lying when she said KZK means alot to her. It is only for promotional purpose. She just used it for drama for TRP seeing how still Anupre, Komo, Bajaj are talked. The soul is missing.

its ur thinking

but for me anupre lovestory is going beter day by day yes i agree there are some repitive & cheesy scene.

but u know what when soulmate with eachother they really dont care about anything .there is only love btwn them

pls see them as soulmate lovestory not some husband wife or college lovestory

anupre love is based on sacrifice always thats why it is painfull

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

k, so just coz u love your husband in a mild manner, like you love ur family and have physical intimacy with him, like most couples do, u can still have someone else in ur heart right.

Love can be other physical parameter when it comes to soul mate.

yes pp u right so beautifully

soulmate love is beyond everything

its very hard to find soulmate

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

I don't know yaar.. that's why I am asking.. I don't know their story.. All I know is Radha-Krishna were soulmates but he was Rukhmani's husband.. So I take it he always fulfilled all his duties but his heart beat for Radha only..

Is that right? so it happened before where you are married to one but your soulmate is someone else.

? were raised earlier on how can AnuPre be soulmate if one of them moves on with someone else!

After repeated requests to not bring in mythological characters in the discussion and insult them like this, nothing is gonna change ..😳

Now we analyze gods actions also as "moving on " and what not . Radha and krishnas love is like prakriti and purush ..aatma and parmatma milan which is beyond human comprehension. For the purpose of storytelling also if we see , and analyze ..which never comes in a normal persons understanding , all the gopis prayed to get krishna as their husband and krishna fulfilled their wish during maharaas. Radha was always jealous because krishna gave attention to all gopis ..then krishna explained her that all of them and every kann in prakriti is radhas roop only ..radha let him go as he had to fulfill his duties towards his parents , his kingdom and the shrishti..i hardly get angry over fictitious characters but if radha or meera or sita is compared with prerna , its freakin insulting 😡

So. Krishna had 8 patranis , rukmani was laxmi incarnate..he married 16100 women as he saved them from a demon ..he did it to gave respect to them in the society as all were abducted by the demon and all threatened to commit suicide. He treated all of them equally , loved all his wives equally and gave them equal rights ..these women were not ordinary either . They got lord krishna as their husband after thousands of years of tapasya. He was always there with all his wives as he was able to expand his form. God is everywhere ? That way. After he left vrindavan , he was mocked by one of the yadavs for radhas love . He was sent back to vrindavan by krishna with a message for radha. He went mad seeing radha and gopikas devotion to krishna . Radha then showed him that krishna is omnipresent with her always . As she and krishna are one . They are no separate beings. Like aatma and paramatma .

Now can you fit anu pre here ?

#2. There is nothing like soulmate which exists . This is a concept made by romanticists or novelists to sell their stories. Love as an emotion is overhyped bec we normally dont experience any other emotion as intensely as love...every damn thing including human emotions , and their moods and their thinking and their expectations change every second . In such a dynamic environment where do these emotions fit ? Any kind of emotion , we feel today and we feel differently tomorrow . .... . For example. Hritik married his soulmate who he claimed to be dating since childhood or college i dunno..the soulmates r now divorced so what was that ? I am not saying that all couples end up like that . But why raise an emotion to the skies like that ? Look around ..our parents and us , couples are doing an abs fine job as loving couples , better than anu pre.

It '"is'" possible to love and fall in love many times in a lifetimes and dont feel guilty about it..its human nature. Its just about loving and "being loved " which can change the soulmate theory multiple times ...you can love the person who loves you dearly even if you have loved someone in the pAst , it can overpower that love ..also that doesnt mean wo pyar nai tha or this is not love ..its human beings "need" to be loved. And we do anything to fulfill our needs along with greeds too..

@nailah plz dont take this post otherwise ..i am not replying to u but everyone collectively as i was pissed off with radha krishna comparison.

@charu

It’s totally cool.. Honestly I didnt know their story and all I know is that there were 3 names associated.. thats why I asked..

but thanks clarifications.. I guess, like everything else, everyone know a different version of soulmates..

We will get to know EK’s definition by the end of Kasautii 😂🤣

That if we all of us survives the ups and downs and dont give up half way if the story isnt going the way they wanted it to...

I just hope the makers stick to their story and dont listen to fandoms.. If half want AnuPre and the other want PRB, then they wouldnt know which way to go.. All of them might take different routes..