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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


True . Like smoking and drinking is taken as freedom.and equality issue with girls but do they know that it can harm them more than the men ? It can create more problems healthwise..our emotional side is wired differently than men, keeping unnecessary expectations is useless..

Smoking and Drinking has its own bad effects on any human be it male or female.. Just because it's less in men I won't encourage it for my son and it's more in women I won't discourage it for my daughter.. Both are precious to me and the advice stands the same to both.. 😉

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


True . Like smoking and drinking is taken as freedom.and equality issue with girls but do they know that it can harm them more than the men ? It can create more problems healthwise..our emotional side is wired differently than men, keeping unnecessary expectations is useless..


Anyhow..prerna should have shown some anger on komo as well but i feel its anurag here who acted like a jerk n let her go ..didnt use.his brain..it was his responsibility ..and he didnt think about the property papers n contracts n all?he should have blackmailed her n got it all from her . How could he let her go? Dumbo.

I think smoking and drinking is a matter of personal choice, if u wanna do it you do, else if you dont want to do it, don't do it. But if someone does not smoke he or she IS not Conservative and if someone does, they are not modern. I don't think these should be used as parameters for measuring ones ouook towards life.


Coming back to the show, the writers had very less dates of hina, so they expedited the revelation without proper build up to it, which is OK, because even if they showed a build track, it would have been executed badly. They have good, talented cast, but they are utilising it at a superficial level.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Every 'ism' has it's reason for the form.. It's only some misunderstood that and drive them as per their convenience...That doesn't mean that the intention behind the original movement itself is wrong.. Whatever rights in equality the women are experiencing now hasn't come that easy.. There were really good people who worked for it and the freedom of mind that we have today is the hardwork of many put together..

Yes, of course totally agree with u, but can u be completely sure that the new age feminism, which is so expressive on social media, is not being misused by atleast some.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Smoking and Drinking has its own bad effects on any human be it male or female.. Just because it's less in men I won't encourage it for my son and it's more in women I won't discourage it for my daughter.. Both are precious to me and the advice stands the same to both.. 😉

True, right and wrong should be same for both.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Yes, of course totally agree with u, but can u be completely sure that the new age feminism, which is so expressive on social media, is not being misused by atleast some.

I won't generalize and stereotype based on some groups.. They may be only a representation of something that is minimal of what they've understood or use it for their convenience.. It's gotta be taken case by case without ill-treating the genuine intention behind it.. There can be many misusing it and that's there in every case.. Aren't there people misusing power of responsibility but aren't we still hoping to get something good out of the system without discarding the system itself?! So it depends upon the individuals and again generalizing it isn't gonna help.. Are all south indians madrasi?😆

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I think smoking and drinking is a matter of personal choice, if u wanna do it you do, else if you dont want to do it, don't do it. But if someone does not smoke he or she IS not Conservative and if someone does, they are not modern. I don't think these should be used as parameters for measuring ones ouook towards life.


Coming back to the show, the writers had very less dates of hina, so they expedited the revelation without proper build up to it, which is OK, because even if they showed a build track, it would have been executed badly. They have good, talented cast, but they are utilising it at a superficial level.


Everything is a matter of individual choice and its not gender specific but physically, smoking is bad for men but they are only harming themselves but if a girl smokes , and drink, it may harm the next gen too coz she has to carry a child . Sorry i dunno your age but for pregnant mothers , the first precaution is "no caffeine" . Their bodies are different. So basic sense is important ..normally girls take it bec they wanna prove that they are equal . Yes they are .


I know why the story is f***ed up. That was my first post today . 😊

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


Everything is a matter of individual choice and its not gender specific but physically, smoking is bad for men but they are only harming themselves but if a girl smokes , and drink, it may harm the next gen too coz she has to carry a child . Sorry i dunno your age but for pregnant mothers , the first precaution is "no caffeine" . Their bodies are different. So basic sense is important ..normally girls take it bec they wanna prove that they are equal . Yes they are .


I know why the story is f***ed up. That was my first post today . 😊

And passive smoking is still dangerous to everyone around the girl or boy..

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Posted: 6 years ago

chillax beheno

its ek show no need to bring all these thing

ek dont know all these things

enjoy the show chemistry & whatever but dont relate this with real world

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I won't generalize and stereotype based on some groups.. They may be only a representation of something that is minimal of what they've understood or use it for their convenience.. It's gotta be taken case by case without ill-treating the genuine intention behind it.. There can be many misusing it and that's there in every case.. Aren't there people misusing power of responsibility but aren't we still hoping to get something good out of the system without discarding the system itself?! So it depends upon the individuals and again generalizing it isn't gonna help.. Are all south indians madrasi?😆

of course, the intention behind the movement, and the pioneers, who have achieved the so called freedom that we enjoy today, deserve veritable appreciation, I come from kerala, which is a liberal state, but there was a time when women in kerala had to pay tax proportional to the size of their breast and lower caste women were not allowed to cover the upper half of their body, so yes, not generalising, the intention behind any movement that fights for the benefits of the ones that society sidelines is amazing. But over time, there can be instances of people misusing it, which in itself should not undermines the intentions of its inception.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


Everything is a matter of individual choice and its not gender specific but physically, smoking is bad for men but they are only harming themselves but if a girl smokes , and drink, it may harm the next gen too coz she has to carry a child . Sorry i dunno your age but for pregnant mothers , the first precaution is "no caffeine" . Their bodies are different. So basic sense is important ..normally girls take it bec they wanna prove that they are equal . Yes they are .


I know why the story is f***ed up. That was my first post today . 😊

OK dear, somehow all my posts today is not getting conveyed properly. So, I think sometimes silence is best.

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