Is Prerna's desperation a weakness?

I don't know why everyone is so upset by or irritated by the fact that prerna has been bechara over the last few episodes. Are we a society that is so unaccepting of grief? Is she not allowed to be heartbroken or desperate or confused? Do we all need to bounce back in minutes after each horrible incident?

I find her grief natural and apt for what she has gone through. It's obvious from her lines to anurag that she hated him make her beg and mocking her love. The fact that it hit her to the core shows how deep her love for anurag was and is. And I'm glad they showed this phase if prerna.

I really want anurag to stand up for himself. What do you want in life anurag? Is it prerna? If so, go for it. If it's Komolika then go for that. If it's neither then that. Or maybe it's your mom who is the most important person in your life... that's fine too. But this inability to commit to anything with full force and conviction and stand by it. Maybe it is just me... but I can't stand this dilly dallying. I don't know if that makes me too demanding if anurag or seeing faults where none exist. Or as someone said - making him a damned if he does and damned if he doesn't. I would find it so confusing to date a guy like anurag - I wouldn't know where I stand on any given day. If you promise someone something, then keep your promise. Call your sister to help your mom and help her girl who is in that state because of you. YOU.

Now coming back to prerna. Unlike I think everyone else I DONT want her to go to Basu mansion. I loved the grief, I loved the desperation- because it's natural. But then I want her to just try to get on with her life. I would have preferred her to call anurag while he is on his reception to say I am pregnant. I want nothing to do with you but I am informing you as it's the right thing to do. And for anurag to then coming running behind her. I know it's the boring options ... but I am going to hate every moment of this Basu drama where everyone will insult prerna.

The last para - just perfect.

What is getting on with life though? Isn't she getting on with her life by choosing to go into Basu house as her next steps? She is trying to resolve a conflictual feeling inside her by doing what she feels will do that.

Originally posted by: memad

The last para - just perfect.

More than desperation, I think its determination to take away his money, name, status n avenge her humiliation...

lets wait tomo or day after ... its still unclear for what motive she is in bb

I don't want her to go for Anurag,but for destroying him.

Good point to raise the concept of conflicted feelings. And I'm sure her feelings are conflicted.

But what can she gain in that house? Does she really think she is anurag's first wife?

I find the whole - I'm here to prove a point unrealistic I guess. Also because we are in for a world of insult coming her way. I for one don't enjoy the insults Mohini throws her way. And Indian serial love their insults.

Originally posted by: memad

The last para - just perfect.

More than desperation, I think its determination to take away his money, name, status n avenge her humiliation...

lets wait tomo or day after ... its still unclear for what motive she is in bb

End of the whole siyappa, she's gonna fall in love with him. Again. Aab bolo kyaa faydaa? 🤣

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I don't want her to go for Anurag,but for destroying him.

I don't know Mily. Hate is such a wasteful emotion.

I didn't want the pregnancy. But now that we have it I wish they would handle the pregnancy in a more mature way. The very act of not being able to be with prerna during her pregnancy would kill anurag.

Or let them show her say - ok you cna be be dad but nothing to me. And show them go for appointments and stuff.

Why does everything have to be so dramatic and unreal.

Originally posted by: memad

The last para - just perfect.

More than desperation, I think its determination to take away his money, name, status n avenge her humiliation...

lets wait tomo or day after ... its still unclear for what motive she is in bb

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I don't know Mily. Hate is such a wasteful emotion.

I didn't want the pregnancy. But now that we have it I wish they would handle the pregnancy in a more mature way. The very act of not being able to be with prerna during her pregnancy would kill anurag.

Or let them show her say - ok you cna be be dad but nothing to me. And show them go for appointments and stuff.

Why does everything have to be so dramatic and unreal.

Yes,well dats Indian TV,well personally ,I would never go back to claim my rights to a man who rejected me,I would move on ,be broken,yet cope and make something of my life,but that's real life.Romantic dramas need the leads together on screen,heck the viewers demand it,this is how they achieve it.I still don't understand Prernas pov,if she hates him,why claim right. Is claiming right so imporyant that she wants Anurag in a loveless marriage.To think so much is wrong for Indian TV.I don't think they think this way,for them drama matters.Hate is sometimes a given, especially when ur betrayed by someone whom u lived so deeply as Pre did .

Hmm, I agree and disagree. Yes, grief is natural and more than anything its a process that will take a long time. I think my problem is not with the desperation because that's exactly how I would feel in her situation. She hasn't moved on, hasn't even tried moving on yet so of course she'd be desperate in front of Anurag. I think with her coming to the Basu house, it'll be a little more refreshing than what we've been getting. In terms of Basu women insulting her, I am hoping that she'd be able to retort back and not show weakness in front of them. I would like it if we still see the desperation alone and gradually have Anurag understand what she's going through.