Originally posted by: dee150
Paro will snap out of it. Hopefully. Maybe Shruti can drag her round. Shruti knows all about going for whatever you want regaudless of consequence 😉 Paro, I think is more worried for about what she should do (morally) and what she wants to do. I noticed for all her whining about not telling Om anything, the minute he called she went running. She could not stay away, knowing it was something she didn't consider "right".
I think it was the TCC interview where she said that. I loved it, because she highlighted exactly why I love Shruti (and the others) so much. With Shruti, she could screw up big time because I think essentially she was a normal person, somewhat self involved and determined to go for what she wanted to the point where she sometimes couldn't see the damage she did. She could get blinded but she also could amdit her mistakes and learn from them, which was actual charactergrowth (such a rarity),
I think UD was quite different form Shruti in the aspect that sometimes Shruti knew what she was doing was wrong in some people's eyes, but would do it anyway, but UD never really had that concept of right/wrong as such. He seemed to start to feel it more when Mukti came on the scene (ah the clasic love story of a bad boy/good girl).
Yes, I agree - re: the distinction between UD & Shruti. Shruti knew the concept of right and wrong, after all, she's Paro & Om's daughter. But I seem to think that, having seen everything that her parents have been through because of their unwillingness to "take" as opposed to "give", she grew up realising that in a dog-eat-dog world, you've just got to fight for yourself; she knows, from watching her family turn their backs on Paro more often than not, that for all their talk of family values etc, in the end you only have yourself to rely on. And that's not to say that she doesn't have any family values, or that she hasn't sacrificed for her family, but it is interesting that the daughter of the two most self-sacrificial characters in Kahaani turned out to have such different thoughts.
With UD - his concept of right & wrong was basically (what I tentatively call) the Faith & Buffy model😳: Want, Take, Have. He grew up learning that if you want something bad enough, you just have to reach out and pick it up and then reap the benefits. His moral system was skewed from the very beginning, but that's not necessarily a bad thing - he's just a product of the self-serving generation; he 'lived' in the era of instant gratification, and as we all do, he took advantage of that. His sense of morality came only, and ONLY, from Mukti. I think that while he might have 'respected' Prerna for her strength of character, he never truly aspired to learn from her. Mukti was his moral mirror, and she, without trying, was the model that he so desperately wanted to live up to, eventually. You're right Dee, it is the classic case of bad boy + good girl, and as we all love, the bad boy learnt a few lessons from the only good girl who would ever get through to him😳 Why Mukti is the only person he could ever love is something that we haven't really analysed - or have we? Could there be another person, another woman, who Prem could love like he loved Mukti? (And I don't mean in terms of, loving her after loving Mukti, but rather - what is it specifically about M that drew him to her in the 1st place?)
Edited by psawyer - 17 years ago