THE WAY ANU BEHAVED WITH SAM IN HOSPITAL! - Page 3

Originally posted by: BAUTY&BRAINS

I think it's all juz a huge misunderstanding!! I mean yeah it wasnt vry good of Anu bt even Sam shud hav understood & spoken 2 him nicely. He was all happy & spoke 2 her in a nice way bt Sam instead of being happy juz started bitterly. Yes I knw Sam cnt bear their relationship bt she shud find d right time 2 tel it 2 Any, nt wen evrythin's goin wrong & Sam's juz addin on another one. I dnt blame any of dem,Sam needs 2 trust her own love 4 Anu so she's comfortable, Prerna needs 2 find Mr Bajaj & Anu...i juz dunno wat 2 say, he's been tied in btwn.....bt instead of doin dat...i think it wud b better if KEKTA JUZ SIMPLIFIED THINGS & CLEARED OUT ALL THE MISUNDERSTANDINGS...INSTEAD OF CREATING MORE!!

Wat else do u expect sam to do!! She has always tried to be sweet and understanding to anu, but how can he take her for granted!! Whenever anurag wants, he can be bitter with sam, but sam should talk back sweetly to him when he talks nicely to her, is it? Sam has always been understanding and she never retaliated immediately! She kept seeing anurag's behaviour towards her and everything was piling up, and after a long time she finally told anurag that she is hurt!!

And wat about anurag's dialogue that 'i have only loved one woman in my life, and that is prerna!!' For gods' sake sam is in hospital!! And she is going through physical and emotinal pain! Just cos anurag spoke to her nicely, that doesnt mean she can forget all her pain and start talking back sweetly to him! Maybe if anurag would have given her some more time and sat with her for more time and made her happy, that would have been more than enough for her and she would have started smiling again! But wat did he do...He just spoke to her for like 5 mins, and got up and went!!

I dont think u can blame sam in this cos she is a human and she is a wife and there is a limit to tolerate ur husbands rude behaviour towards u, and abnormal closeness to his ex-lover!!

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Wat else do u expect sam to do!! She has always tried to be sweet and understanding to anu, but how can he take her for granted!! Whenever anurag wants, he can be bitter with sam, but sam should talk back sweetly to him when he talks nicely to her, is it? Sam has always been understanding and she never retaliated immediately! She kept seeing anurag's behaviour towards her and everything was piling up, and after a long time she finally told anurag that she is hurt!!

And wat about anurag's dialogue that 'i have only loved one woman in my life, and that is prerna!!' For gods' sake sam is in hospital!! And she is going through physical and emotinal pain! Just cos anurag spoke to her nicely, that doesnt mean she can forget all her pain and start talking back sweetly to him! Maybe if anurag would have given her some more time and sat with her for more time and made her happy, that would have been more than enough for her and she would have started smiling again! But wat did he do...He just spoke to her for like 5 mins, and got up and went!!

I dont think u can blame sam in this cos she is a human and she is a wife and there is a limit to tolerate ur husbands rude behaviour towards u, and abnormal closeness to his ex-lover!!

Im nt sayin Sam's wrong. All I knw is dat bcoz of jealousy she's nt bein abl2 think d right time 2 talk abt hw she feels 2 Anu. I mean there's the ego problem goin on again, Y is she getting mad at Anu? Well, bcoz she thinks dat Prerna understands Anu well & can make him understand well. Bt the thing here is dat bein surrounded by jealousy & insecurity she's lost the main point, she shud realise dat Prem no matter wat the world says is their son & Anu has been gettin dis involved ever since he km 2 knw dat Prem was changing & he juz wanted him back. B4 dat dey were so against, I mean Prerna dint want Prem bk whereas Anu did & so were constantly arguing. No matter wat u do, Sam cnt giv the same attention & love 2 Prem & the pain dat has been caused only AP knw. It's nt fair on anyone.

& hey wat was dat all abt in y'days episode? She's his wife, she's supposed 2 listen 2 him if she really loves him & cares abt him & nt the stupid media. If u r trusting the world & juz wat u c den there's always a problem. If she cud hav asked him wat had happened he cud hav actually explained. Coz anyway Anu slapped dat jerk only wen he started talkin crap abt PREM.

If I wud b in Sam's shoes den I wud feel hurt bcoz of the lack of attention bt I wud think it through & wonder y it was happening. I wud consider my husband's pain as my own & do as much as I cud until it was all sorted out. Sam has a reason 2 b insecure bt nt jealous. Dats nt love, it's nt love where the ego is dominant over ur heart.

LOVE KNWS NO JEALOUSY,IT KNWS HW 2 UNDERSTAND. LOVE KNWS NO EGO BT 2 THINK ABT THE PERSON U LOVE B4 URSELF. Sam juz needs 2 b a bit patient & giv Anu some time 2 get over the pain. Im rly feelin sorry 4 Prerna nw coz Anu has decided 2 go away frm her, Mr Bajaj is nt cming back according 2 Sneha, she behaved vry inappropriately & Prem well juz cnt say abt him......😭😭 Sam shudnt expect Anu 2 hav an affair at dis age. Ok mayb him bein a guy she might hav thought, bt Prerna? Sam knws Prerna & shud atleast think abt her.

One more thing: All the girls here remember in a relationship girls always hav2 b strong coz U hav2 accept guys are very weak. If u knw a guy really well ul b surprised 2 knw his weaknessess. I believe dats wat us girls love dem 4, BE PROUD OF IT WOMAN! If u consider urself a real woman ul knw hw proud u shud be. V r stronger & cn b more patient, guys never grow up, dey keep arguing,messing abt bt dey love u wen u rly understand dem. I m nt sayin letting dem get away wit everything bt if U really love someone U knw the limits & U knw wen 2 let go.

Originally posted by: BAUTY&BRAINS

Im nt sayin Sam's wrong. All I knw is dat bcoz of jealousy she's nt bein abl2 think d right time 2 talk abt hw she feels 2 Anu. I mean there's the ego problem goin on again, Y is she getting mad at Anu? Well, bcoz she thinks dat Prerna understands Anu well & can make him understand well. Bt the thing here is dat bein surrounded by jealousy & insecurity she's lost the main point, she shud realise dat Prem no matter wat the world says is their son & Anu has been gettin dis involved ever since he km 2 knw dat Prem was changing & he juz wanted him back. B4 dat dey were so against, I mean Prerna dint want Prem bk whereas Anu did & so were constantly arguing. No matter wat u do, Sam cnt giv the same attention & love 2 Prem & the pain dat has been caused only AP knw. It's nt fair on anyone.

& hey wat was dat all abt in y'days episode? She's his wife, she's supposed 2 listen 2 him if she really loves him & cares abt him & nt the stupid media. If u r trusting the world & juz wat u c den there's always a problem. If she cud hav asked him wat had happened he cud hav actually explained. Coz anyway Anu slapped dat jerk only wen he started talkin crap abt PREM.

If I wud b in Sam's shoes den I wud feel hurt bcoz of the lack of attention bt I wud think it through & wonder y it was happening. I wud consider my husband's pain as my own & do as much as I cud until it was all sorted out. Sam has a reason 2 b insecure bt nt jealous. Dats nt love, it's nt love where the ego is dominant over ur heart.

LOVE KNWS NO JEALOUSY,IT KNWS HW 2 UNDERSTAND. LOVE KNWS NO EGO BT 2 THINK ABT THE PERSON U LOVE B4 URSELF. Sam juz needs 2 b a bit patient & giv Anu some time 2 get over the pain. Im rly feelin sorry 4 Prerna nw coz Anu has decided 2 go away frm her, Mr Bajaj is nt cming back according 2 Sneha, she behaved vry inappropriately & Prem well juz cnt say abt him......😭😭 Sam shudnt expect Anu 2 hav an affair at dis age. Ok mayb him bein a guy she might hav thought, bt Prerna? Sam knws Prerna & shud atleast think abt her.

One more thing: All the girls here remember in a relationship girls always hav2 b strong coz U hav2 accept guys are very weak. If u knw a guy really well ul b surprised 2 knw his weaknessess. I believe dats wat us girls love dem 4, BE PROUD OF IT WOMAN! If u consider urself a real woman ul knw hw proud u shud be. V r stronger & cn b more patient, guys never grow up, dey keep arguing,messing abt bt dey love u wen u rly understand dem. I m nt sayin letting dem get away wit everything bt if U really love someone U knw the limits & U knw wen 2 let go.

Hey beauty & brains!! Though ur opinion is against mine, i somehow loved ur post 👏 !! Especially the last paragraph !!

I still dont agree with u completely, as over a period of time, seeing a person's behaviour towards u, even though u keep quite, things keep piling up inside u and one day it is bound to come out!! Y should sam halt her life till prerna's probs are over?! She is a human and when she really couldnt take things, and anurag was being unreasonable, things that were piling in her mind came out! Thats it! At that time she couldnt realise whether the time was right or not! Dont u think u should really appreciate her that inspite of anurag telling her that he has only loved one woman in this world, and taht is prerna, she is still sticking with him?! Hey dont take everything the way it should have been...just try imagining urself in sam's place and each and every situation, try living in that situation! Then u will realise any woman in her place would have reacted that way or worse!!

I agree woman are supposed to be more stronger than guys, but that is no excuse for guys to behave the way they please to! U sound like a strong girl, but i am not as strong as u! I am very sensitive and if my hubby behaves this way to me i dont care whether i am a woman and whether i should understand men are week, i will definitely give him a piece of mind and make sure he understands me if he loves me! Well if he doesnt, then i think i am better off staying without him than with him!

Was anurag married to prerna for atlest 5 years? NO! They got divorced before that also! So atleast at this age anurag should realise his previous mistakes and try not to repeat them agian and again and again! Arre common yaar, it is his 4th marriage, experience bhi koi cheez hain ya nahin 😆 !!

Anyways, somehow ur post was a unique one and i still love it 👏 !!

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Exactly!! That is one thing common about anurag and prerna!! If anything goes wrong because of their own mistake, just put it on somebody else head (especially if that somebody is a pushover like sam)!! BUT NEVER ADMIT UR MISTAKES 😡 !! Or else even better, a new method anurag has discovered...anything goes wrong, keep saying 'its my mistake', 'main na ek acha baap ban saka, na acha pati....', and all those crap for everyone's sympathy, and then go ahead and keep making new sets of mistakes after mistakes!! Now u see, if sam leaves him and goes and he becomes lonely again, his dialogues to sam will be 'maine kabhi bhi ek pati ka dharm nahin nibhaya, ye sab meri galti hain'...'anurag basu hamesha akela tha, akela hain, aur akela hi rahega...yeh anurag ka kismat hain', and all those crappy dialogues blaming his kismat 🤢!!

Originally posted by: reeha...k

its alright buddi clam down...it's ekta's drama...she never lets the perfect 'ment to be couples' be together...just look at prem and mukti...she did that to them tooo....she never lets a perfect couple survive!😡

agree👏

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Hey beauty & brains!! Though ur opinion is against mine, i somehow loved ur post 👏 !! Especially the last paragraph !! Is dat sarcasm? Kiddin...thanks...Im juz a PM fan bt cnt c relationships breakin so had 2 point out wher d mistake was!!

I still dont agree with u completely everybody has their own opinions, as over a period of time, seeing a person's behaviour towards u, even though u keep quite, things keep piling up inside u and one day it is bound to come out!! Y should sam halt her life till prerna's probs are over?! Yes bt there's a right time to it nt wen ur husband is already worried abt business, his son & jerks lik komo gettin away, nw o&y...too much. She is a human and when she really couldnt take things, and anurag was being unreasonable, things that were piling in her mind came out! If you r tryin 2 say Anu is wrong den I think it's time i shud say Sam is wrong too...hav u 4gotten hw she spoke out abt her dem staying in dat house & d bussiness 2day only coz of her dad? If it wud only b love den she wud hav known wat 2 talk bt jealousy was a part of it & so the xtra bit km out. Thats it! At that time she couldnt realise whether the time was right or not! Dats called the ego problem... coz she was bein provoked herself aft talkin 2 geeta kaki & the more kaki sed Prerna,Prerna,Prerna d more insecure she got....dats all!Dont u think u should really appreciate her that inspite of anurag telling her that he has only loved one woman in this world, and taht is prerna, she is still sticking with him?! If u notice the tenses he was usin...it actually meant dat whil splittin up wit Prerna he rly loved her bt bcoz he was wrong @ dat time he cudnt do nythin bt 2 get her married 2 Mr.B coz it was too late 2 get her back....Hey dont take everything the way it should have been...just try imagining urself in sam's place and each and every situation, try living in that situation! Then u will realise any woman in her place would have reacted that way or worse!! I knw frm my experience & dats y I told it...coz i knw wat a relationship is lik or hw a conversation is lik wen all it involves is trust,love & understanding & hw much difference it cn make if even a lil bit of jealousy or doubt get involved....mayb i cud tell u someday d whole story...

I agree woman are supposed to be more stronger than guys, but that is no excuse for guys to behave the way they please to! I nvr sed dat... & dats wat Im tryin 2 tell u, the more understanding a woman is in a relationship the more humble the guy is...I nvr sed Sam shud let Anu get away wit evrything bt if u trust some1 whole heartedly ul knw d difference & my words wil make sense 2 u...If Sam wud hav shown juz love instead of doubt Anu himself wud hav felt guilty 4 leaving her out bt aft y'day's epi i dunno...I thot she wud've asked him or talked 2 him 1st & den wud hav decided bt she believed in wat she saw....& nt everything is wat is seems 2 b y'knw...U sound like a strong girl, but i am not as strong as u! I am very sensitive and if my hubby behaves this way to me i dont care whether i am a woman and whether i should understand men are week, i will definitely give him a piece of mind and make sure he understands me if he loves me! Well if he doesnt, then i think i am better off staying without him than with him! It's nt a matter of strength dewdrops, hav u ever been in love? If u will love some1 truely & believe in ur heart dat the other person loves u truely as well den nothin cn cme in between..... & rem the more humble ul b the more the other person wil und...bcoz somewher deep down dey feel guilty & so the only way is 2 talk & nt argue....

Was anurag married to prerna for atlest 5 years? NO! They got divorced before that also! So atleast at this age anurag should realise his previous mistakes and try not to repeat them agian and again and again! Arre common yaar, it is his 4th marriage, experience bhi koi cheez hain ya nahin 😆 !! Yes bt I think dat Anu really loves Sam nw & dats y wen he knws dat Sam doubts him he gets hurt bt nw Sam shud b rly happy as Prerna wil hav no one she cn talk 2 😭😭

Anyways, somehow ur post was a unique one and i still love it 👏 !! & somehow Iv loved debating against u...dnt take it personally though... it's juz wat life has taught me.....take care & hope vl hav the same opinions some day 😉

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Hey beauty & brains!! Though ur opinion is against mine, i somehow loved ur post 👏 !! Especially the last paragraph !!

I still dont agree with u completely, as over a period of time, seeing a person's behaviour towards u, even though u keep quite, things keep piling up inside u and one day it is bound to come out!! Y should sam halt her life till prerna's probs are over?! She is a human and when she really couldnt take things, and anurag was being unreasonable, things that were piling in her mind came out! Thats it! At that time she couldnt realise whether the time was right or not! Dont u think u should really appreciate her that inspite of anurag telling her that he has only loved one woman in this world, and taht is prerna, she is still sticking with him?! Hey dont take everything the way it should have been...just try imagining urself in sam's place and each and every situation, try living in that situation! Then u will realise any woman in her place would have reacted that way or worse!!

I agree woman are supposed to be more stronger than guys, but that is no excuse for guys to behave the way they please to! U sound like a strong girl, but i am not as strong as u! I am very sensitive and if my hubby behaves this way to me i dont care whether i am a woman and whether i should understand men are week, i will definitely give him a piece of mind and make sure he understands me if he loves me! Well if he doesnt, then i think i am better off staying without him than with him!

Was anurag married to prerna for atlest 5 years? NO! They got divorced before that also! So atleast at this age anurag should realise his previous mistakes and try not to repeat them agian and again and again! Arre common yaar, it is his 4th marriage, experience bhi koi cheez hain ya nahin 😆 !!

Anyways, somehow ur post was a unique one and i still love it 👏 !!

I agree with you pearl, bb u do seem a strong girl & luved ur last para 👏