Hey guys,
Do u think it was right on anurag's part to behave this way to sam when she was on the hospital bed! She just recovered from the accident and instead of trying to be more understanding to her, he again made her cry!! God couldnt he have spared her atleast when she was sick! And wat sense did that dialogue of anu make - main tumhare bina jee nahin sakta, mujhe lagta hain ke maine tumhe isse bhi bade dukh diye hain? Just after these dialogues he fought with her and anything and everything sam says, or whenever she tries to say her mind, the only thing that will come from anurag's mouth is 'tumhare shaq ka koi ilaaj nahin hain', or any dialogue referring to her feelings to a mere 'shaq'!! Even a person with common sense will understand that wat she was saying dint have anything to do with 'shaq'...All she was saying was that she was feeling very lonely in life!
And immediately after all this, so easily he made a stupid excuse and got up and went to prerna, when even without saying it goes that he should have been with sam in the hospital next to her! Even if the entire family was there next to her, if anu is not there, that would make her totally sad, cant anu realise this!! Arre just now she was talking about how lonely she is, and there he left her and went as soon as prerna's phone came!! And after saying 'haan prerna, mein abhi aata hoon', he did change and say he is with sam and from his face itself like sam even we could make out that he was just staying there to be nice to her, and not cos he genuinely wanted to be with her and not with prerna!
Hey tell me one thing, is sam's feelings that complicated that how much ever she is trying to explain it to anu, he is not understanding?! I DONT THINK SO!! Its just that anu doesnt have the common sense to understand such simple feelings, all he understands is only his feelings! Thats y 3 wives left him and went (including prerna)!! Cant sam understand that wat a loser he might be as a hubby, if he couldnt even keep prerna, whom he claimed to love all his life?!
All i have to say about this is, if i was in sam's place and if my hubby behaved this way to me and made me lonely at every stage when i needed him, i would have just left him and went! Once if u just make ur self understand that he will just not understand ur feelings or he will need his ex-lover to make him understand of ur feelings, the best thing is to just leave him and go! Ok i wil be hurt to an extent to leave him, but atleast that will end my crying and expectation that one day he will understand my feelings, and wat if that day never comes?! Cos anyways, being with him i am no longer happy, and after he told me that 'i have only loved one woman in my life, and that is my ex-lover', even if the current probs are solved, i can just imagine that in the future also at every point in my life i will be faced with a similar kasautti where i will be left lonely, and my hubby will be with his ex-lover who is his 'friend'!! If he can give his friend so much of imp, and treat his wife as if she or her tears never mattered, then i think my decision to leave him would be a perfect one !!
I am soo sorry anurag fans, its just that i really got bugged with anu the way he behaved with sam in the hospital! Just couldnt take it, so wanted to just vent out my feelings!! Couldnt he have spared her atleast in the hospital!? God when i am in the hospital, i make such a fuss and expect everyone around me to sit with me and pamper me till the time i am discharged, as i am sick na 😳 !! So i was just imagining wat my reaction would be if my hubby did wat anurag did to sam, and thats y i really got angry 😡 !!