WHAT'S YOUR OPINION ON LOVE?

Just want to know everyones' opinion about having a male friend.In the serial we have seen Prerna and Anurag were friends before falling in love and in real life as Shweta says,they were only friends but Cezanne thought she had more than friendship for him.Is it always like when u are around a GOOD LOOKING male friend,love is meant to come between friendship?In most of the films and serials,thats exactly what happens right?Boy meets girls,hate each other first,then become friends and finally fall in love.So is it like love really has to interfere all the time or two people can just be friends,irrespective of gender differences and not fall in love?

Two people from the opposite gender can be friends without falling in love.There is a term called platonic relationship

But it's romanticised in movies and serials and there are rare exceptions in real life where friends become lovers.

But friendship is the basis of love and so is love the basis of friendship..I'm not making much sense am I?

love is the relationship between two hearts.and they can never be apart.

cant say yaar...i got guy friends...n trust me they r JUST FRIENDS nothing else!

so i think yes! a guy and gal can just be friends and not fall in LOVE!
ANILA 😃

well I have got a lot of Guy frndz and also a bf 😳 i dun think love comes in between friendship 😃

well not in all serials for example in Astitav ek prem khani they showed Dr. Simaran and Manas as good friends for ever and no romance developing between them or any jealosy. they always just remained good friends. Therefore I think that that love and friendship between people of different gender depends on the people in that friendship. A boy and a girl do not really always fall in love if in friendship. I hope I made myself clear 😊

Hmmm I think a girl and guy can be just friends ahah i got loads of guy friends too..I dont agree with people who say that a girl and guy can never be JUST friends

i don't have a fair opinion about love

well sometimes frienship gets confused with love for there to be love present friendship does need to occur so there is a mesh bwtn the two all it takes is the ability to differentiate bwtn the two (lol aint i the wise one now) for me i have loads of guy friends that cause we are like mindeed and have things in common i love them because they care about me there is a difference bwtn loving someone and being in love with someone being in love concerns with devotion and matters of the heart whereas lovong somone is more to do with feelings and priorities, attitudes, and predisposed ideas like loving ur parents

well it depends upon situations...somehow i dont know why, most girls nowadays feel more free to talk and discuss problems with guys than other girls (maybe because of the practical aspect of guys or maybe b'cos girls are known to gossip too much that ur secrets cant actually be safe with them)...well in my experience, most of the girl friends i have in my college are not the kind with whom u can discuss matters or issues, ok if u want to enjoy and have a good time, etc., its fine...but serious things that cannot be shared with everyone cannot be told as how much ever u tell them not to tell it to anyone, somehow i have seen that it has reachd many other ears...and most girls have this tendency to keep things in mind if they dont like anything and act very normal outside and maybe then one day all of a sudden when u have a fight or somehting, everything comes out...i hate such ppl...i never used to be like this but now out of experience i realise that this is the best way to behave as i used to be the kind who used to speak out anything that i dont like, but now i realise u shouldnt be like that as at the end of the day ppl just misunderstand u instead of appreciating ur frankness and the fact that u are open cos u are close to that person...

anyways...but i dont feel that if a guy is a good friend of urs, it has to be love...ok initially when we become a teenager these feelings might be there and any guy u meet because of the hormonal changes and age, we may tend to feel that way for the person of the other sex who is very sweet and understanding with us...however as we grow up, some of such love developed during such age turns into marriage and a commitment of life time, but seldom does this happen...once u go through a real relationship, break ups etc, then all this stops and we become mature enough to udnerstand the difference between love and friendship...then we really know which guy to see as a freind and which person may also be a friend but maybe he may be a good husband material too 😉 ...

so wat i suggest is, sometimes we do get confused between whether the wya we feel for a person is love or is it just love because of friendship...so wat is to be done is to just give time to urself and that particular relationship, try to understand the preson and inspte of all this if u still feel u can actually marry the person and spend ur entire life with him, then go on...or else step back in ur feelings before it is too late and respect ur relationship of freindship with him!!