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serial main bar bar prerna aur bajaj kai beech main misunderstanding pada hote hai aik week dono aik dosre sai alagh rahte hai aur phir aik dosre ko maaf kar kai HUG karte hai.

what is this ? tanisha kii wajah sai prerna us budhe bajaj(plz don't mind i don't like him) ko chorne hi wali thi kai vineet aur madhvi kii pyaar bhare baatain sun kar abh woh apna faisla badal dai ggi kyun? jabh anurag sai divorce hone wala tha tabh kyun nahin kise kii pyar bhare baatein sun kar apna irada badla?

anu kai saath hi hamesha aasa kyun hota hai?

The main reason for Bajaj & Pre clearing all their repetedly formed misunderstandings is 20years of marriage & 5 kids. Whether or not u like ur spouse, its not easy to break a lifetime of togetherness.

I personally feel that Bajaj & Pre's marriage is more sucessful than Anu-Pre bcoz the expetations they have from each other are less as compared to expectation Anu & Pre had from each other. Its a more mature, more compromised, more kids-centric relationship than Anu-Pre which was based purely on love

but anu aur prerna kai 2 kids hai aur prerna aur bajaj kai 1. aur successful banana director aur producer ka kamm hai unhon nahi khudh aur aur prerna kii marriage ko successful nahin banaya
aur mostly viewers yahi chahte hain kai anu aur prerna mil jayrr

agree mansi!!

Anu and Prerna loved each other to the height of madness and were very Immature!! I think atleast one person in the relationship has to be mature and stable,which in a&p's case was none!!

Here with Bajaj and Prerna B is very patient and understanding, so P reciprocates it back at times, besides like u said they have been married for more than 20 years have brought up 5 kids and have been there for each other more than 30+ years!!!

Whereas a&p probably were together for around 6+ years and that too it was filled with jealousy, misunderstanding and too much lovethat blinded them both

I guess had they been more mature,like Bajaj is probably they would be together now!!

u think that most viewers want that

But the fact tha B&P are together proves most audience wants bajaj and prerna together!!! Ekta that is why did this, and the ratings prove it!!

Besides no one is talking abt director and producer here, we are talking about the story and base of characters!! I wonder what you are trying to discuss?

If most viewers wanyed Anu-Pre back together, Ekta is not mad to keep them apart....Ekta caters to whatever audience wants & TRPs are highest when Rishu-Pre are happily together

Originally posted by: snow white

but anu aur prerna kai 2 kids hai aur prerna aur bajaj kai 1.

When I said kids, I didn't mean biological kids...I meant that Bajaj & Prerna have raised 5 kids together...its like yours, mine & ours😆

Agree with you Manasi completely! That is why Bajaj and Prerna always make up.

A relationship based on purely love is a more difficult one to nurture as there is nothing but love that keeps it going. Two people have to be very matured and responsible to make it work. It is a hard thing to do since expectations are so much higher. Prerna and Anurag failed to show that maturity in their relationship.

Also, Prerna and Bajaj had 8 years when they were not married to get to know each other. Bajaj also had the experience of being married to Menaka and had 3 children. He was a matured person in that sense (excluding all the other things he did at that time). Anurag and Prerna did not have that chance of getting to know each other. It broke before it was mature. When they did get together, they were both very young and acted stupidly which a lot of young couples tend to do. Their love was not developed, it has developed over time. Right now, that love has matured and is in its completeness but Prerna is no more Anurag's.

Ok now that I have analyzed this so well, I better apply it to myself, coz sometimes I am quite an ass!!

Yeah Aditi, in any relationship, marriage, love or platonic...the relatioship fares better if 1 is mature. That's the reason why there are more divorces in love marriage coz in love marriages u mostly marry a person of ur age.

Normally love marriage are between classmates or colleagues. So the mturity level of both the partners is at the same level. Also, when u know the person, love him for a long time, u tend to have greater expectations from him. We forget that a person cannot behave the same way after marriage like he did during courtship. Then the discontentment starts...tum shadi ke pehle aaise nahi the...ab tum mujhse pyaar nahi karte...all that stuff.

While if its an arranged marriage, u don't know ur spouse so well so u have less expectations &are more open to adjustments & compromise

Originally posted by: admail_bd

A relationship based on purely love is a more difficult one to nurture as there is nothing but love that keeps it going. Two people have to be very matured and responsible to make it work. It is a hard thing to do since expectations are so much higher. Prerna and Anurag failed to show that maturity in their relationship.


Ok now that I have analyzed this so well, I better apply it to myself, coz sometimes I am quite an ass!!

Lolzzz Adity! Wish you all the best in your "spplication" then!! Just kidding! I agree with what you have said..maturity according to me is a pre-requisite to any relationship...even if the other person is idiotic and immature to the core, the responsible one will always turn to his maturity and take it upon himself/herself to see that the relationship is a success and such a thing does not occur again:)