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does anu deserve 2 cum 2 his daughter, Sneha’s marriage?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I don't know what to say....once I feel that Anurag should come bcoz he is her father( 😡 )....but then when I remember how Prerna kept on taunting Bajaj abt Anurag being her father & his 'right' over Sneha...I feel that Anurag should go to hell (sryy guys...but my frustration with Prerna is coming out on poor anu 😉 )

Then again when I get my senses back I feel that these ppl might make life miserable for Sneha & Bajaj after marriage....they are imosing a lot of conditions....they don;t want Basus around, they are compelling Bajaj to join politics...shaadi ke pehle ye haal hai to baad mein kya hoga?

But then later I feel...what's wrong??? Wh shouldn't they protect their image? In india, ppl in the social limelight have to be very careful....public can be very harsh. Why should Shailendraji try to understand the complicated relations of Prerna-Anurag-Bajaj...its not possible to decipher them anyway!

So, my conclusion is.......I'M CONFUSED 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: indogirl

i find it very amusing that even in such a debatable issues, you guys manage to stay away from opinions. I don't know. May be it's just me. I cannot help but form an opinion of any major issue. May be it is my weakness. So tell me the secret. How do you guys manage to be so care-free? 😉

Its very simple suchi....just look at every thing from Bajaj's pt of view & close ur eyes to everyone else (as it is they are not worth it!). Main thing is that don't try to apply values that u hold in ur life, to these characters...evelaute them strictly on ur personal likes & dislikes.....bas that's it!!!!!

Try doing it....😆

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Posted: 19 years ago
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yyes he desrves that bcuz he is her real dad he only cares for other he never show his right on sneha 20 years he waited for this movement and now they said that he cant attend the marriage why?????????????
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Posted: 19 years ago
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say yes u people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 😡 😡 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I don't know what to say....once I feel that Anurag should come bcoz he is her father( 😡 )....but then when I remember how Prerna kept on taunting Bajaj abt Anurag being her father & his 'right' over Sneha...I feel that Anurag should go to hell (sryy guys...but my frustration with Prerna is coming out on poor anu 😉 )

Right Manasi. Although I am very happy that Prerna has realized Anurag's love for Sneha and how he has lived for this many years. But it was wrong of her to taunt Bajaj like that. As far as I remember Bajaj has never tried to keep Anu from Sneha. Besides, Sneha is Bajaj's daughter and there is no two ways about it. Sneha respects Anurag now and that is all can be expected from her. And Anurag knows that very well. As for Anu staying away from Sneha for all those years, it was Anurag's fault initially. He didn't accept her. Although he repents now, there are some things in life that you just cannot undo. Besides it was Prerna who kept Sneha away from Anurag during those 20 years, not Bajaj. Bajaj's step in Sneha's situation is totally commendable.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Its very simple suchi....just look at every thing from Bajaj's pt of view & close ur eyes to everyone else (as it is they are not worth it!). Main thing is that don't try to apply values that u hold in ur life, to these characters...evelaute them strictly on ur personal likes & dislikes.....bas that's it!!!!!

Try doing it....😆

Sounds good. It is pointless to apply real-life values to these characters. Sometimes I feel i am wasting my time even discussing anything. Afterall, only purpose of these serials is entertainment and time-pass. And time is something i really don't have anyways. 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Manasi and Indogirl...you are so right! But it is fun too...Ekta does raise debatable issues (in the most stupidest ways) but nonetheless debatable...it is fun to argue and comment and just waste time :)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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agree with both what indogirl and manasi has stated.

Your love for bajaj or anu doesn't decrease when you point out their flaws...noone is perfect except perhaps, my baby toberlone. (yes, indogirl u r right)

and yes, this is a show, so we should keep that in mind (yes, manasi you are right

to add to your debate, i do think that its worthwhile debating dramas, as they give more insight to life itself, but always, keeping in mind that its art, and can not be a substitute for reality.

good discussion and to answer the poll, i think anurag should attend if Sneha wants him there, its her wedding.

Bajaj or prerna cannot deny a father's right to be there, except the daughter, so its up to Sneha.
As for Sharad's parents, they fall in the trap of being what is expected of them to be, constructs of society, and they try to conform to the norms, personally, i've never been such a person, though i respect what others have to say, there is something called dignity and self-respect.

Sneha shouldn't have to call off the wedding, she's getting married to sharad, for better or for worse, indian women marry a family.

neways, good discussion.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: indogirl

I have question to Bajaj/ronit fans. Just out of curiosity. Don't take this personally. I want to know why are you always afraid that your love for Bajaj will decrease if you support Anu in something that is totally right. I mean saying that it is unfair for Anu if he is not allowed to attend Sneha's wedding, doesn't mean you are deserting Bajaj. It just means you are supporting the truth. See I not a Bajaj fan, but i admire ronit roy. I also support Bajaj when he is right. And I wouldn't be even afraid to criticize Anurag for his mistakes. Because I think there cannot be a black and white answer for each situation. One cannot say that Anu is right always because he is Anu. I know you guys always say that you don't care about kzk story or other characters. All you care about is Ronit's character. But i find it very amusing that even in such a debatable issues, you guys manage to stay away from opinions. I don't know. May be it's just me. I cannot help but form an opinion of any major issue. May be it is my weakness. So tell me the secret. How do you guys manage to be so care-free? 😉



A VERY interesting question Indogirl :-)

I started liking Bajaj even before I knew that the name of the actor is Ronit Bose Roy , and he is the same guy from Jaan Tere Naam..who was my first crush. I loved Bajaj first, and then Ronit.
The man..Rishabh Bajaj....he is just so damn perfect..anurag always looked so petty n basically so 'un-manly' in front of bajaj..no question of supporting the weak irritating anu- not becoz of bajaj, but in general, he doesnt fit in my idea of a 'man'.
Still, just before the leap, I had started liking n supporting anurag-that was the time when the Basus n the Bajajs had become good friends..I felt nice that he helped to reunite my lovebirds (rishu n prerna). and the way he was looking after shravan, it was also very sweet.

After the leap, the story has lost its meaning really.. even bajaj's character is different..he is more of a family man now.. than a selfish businessman..
Post-leap, ALL characters AND the story- everything is hopeless n dumb.
I just watch 4 RR, n keep the 'mute' button on when he isn't around :-)

Abt this sneha-anu thing, I dont really care whether he gets to attend or not.. mujhe kya karna hai !
Today, I am supporting Bajaj because Ronit Sir is playing Bajaj, if CK and Ronit exchange roles, u'll see me supporting anurag totally ;-) Then u'll see me saying "He must attend the wedding it's his RIGHT' blah blah blah LOLzzz

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Oh gawdddddddd Arti!! You said it all dear!! Mere kehne sun-ne ko kuch baaki hi nahi hain!! Lolzzz...okies tell me na Arti..should I post my second fan-fic here?? Or do u think it's not suitable??:(

Anyways..your reply ROCKED..same applies for me I guess 😆

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