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What prerna is doing is in the heat of the moment, if she thinks rationally (perhaps, i'm asking for too much), she would realize 20 years of her life were not a lie, and that this man truly loves her, bajaj that is....here's a lesson i take in life, its called forgive and forget, but i don't believe it works that way, i believe u should forgive, because that's the only way you acknowledge the problem, and that u can move forwards, i do not think u should forget because forgetting is not acknowledging the problem but ignoring it, and forgetting does not mean u have forgiven, and nor does forgiven mean u've forgotten.
i find it interesting, though, we are mostly women on this forum, yet, we all scrutinize prerna for all her faults, yet, in many circumstances, she is justified, two men in her life, have fallen short on promises, though she has at many times, but her character ought not to be questioned...its phych or something probably why we find so many faults in a woman rather than a man, and justify a man's actions, but for an indian woman she needs to virtuous.
i don't think she should get a divorce, unless she thinks it through, and lets just suppose for the sake of this argument, that she divorces bajaj, her children are adults, except tushar, he needs both his parents right now, and kasak and the whole lot need their parents but not necessarily together, sneha has to question if her in-laws cannot take that a man made a mistake, i wonder why she would want to marry in such a family, or i guess if her future husbby thinks that way.
prerna cares for anurag, her love is not any less than it is for bajaj, but there are so many forms of love, and the romantic love is only for bajaj at this moment of time, prerna would not be mad at anu today, had she no feelings or care for him, and why should she not care for him? cause he's not her husband, there are more than one relationships we can have with a man, and if bajaj questioned her, that was his insecurities not her character.
i find it interesting, though, we are mostly women on this forum, yet, we all scrutinize prerna for all her faults, yet, in many circumstances, she is justified, two men in her life, have fallen short on promises, though she has at many times, but her character ought not to be questioned...its phych or something probably why we find so many faults in a woman rather than a man, and justify a man's actions, but for an indian woman she needs to virtuous.
i don't think she should get a divorce, unless she thinks it through, and lets just suppose for the sake of this argument, that she divorces bajaj, her children are adults, except tushar, he needs both his parents right now, and kasak and the whole lot need their parents but not necessarily together, sneha has to question if her in-laws cannot take that a man made a mistake, i wonder why she would want to marry in such a family, or i guess if her future husbby thinks that way.
prerna cares for anurag, her love is not any less than it is for bajaj, but there are so many forms of love, and the romantic love is only for bajaj at this moment of time, prerna would not be mad at anu today, had she no feelings or care for him, and why should she not care for him? cause he's not her husband, there are more than one relationships we can have with a man, and if bajaj questioned her, that was his insecurities not her character.
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