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Well reading Rivs point on the heart and then me getting a warning and people twisting other's words(its not one person in particular, its general) had me thinking and well here i am to unite once again...and complain at some point...
this is not for the Mods its more towards the members of KS: New and Old!

OK before you all go and assume let me clarify this is a neutral and peace making post: i don't want that this person went that way and that person went that way...just give me your views of how we can be peaceful and live together...

Now i have been seeing somethings in the past month and i have been very upset with the ways members have been treating their fellow members: first things first some members take a heated discussion by heart way too much and go to the personal attacks(be it AD fans or JB fans, me included) i think that some of you have been taking a conversational posts and threads to your heart and been making personal attacks or simply just because someone doesn't agree with you and you just go haywire...
secondly some people twist words or approach a topic in a different way and it just ends up as an attack...the reason im saying that coz it happened to me and a fellow friend...

So my request to the members is that instead of twisting words or just taking something to your heart ask a fellow member about the motives of their post...be it public or be it through pm but do ask before making your view on it...this one is for those who get confuse a lot about what other wrote or just think of it too personally...
this is just a drama and like any discussion it is a discussion...
but plz spare the Mods and don't complain to them...first sort out the matter among themselves on post or through pm then take it to the higher court...coz if people keep doing things like that then this is def. going to be war zone till the end of time...
i know im being a hypocrite at some extent and i don't deny that fact but that doesn't mean that if someone called me a hypocrite i would take it to my heart and would stop posting and attack them with equal force or take it higher power and complain...
i would sort it like a good citizen to IF and would just solve it out....i have done that before and i can do it again...
and Mods sorry if i offended you but plz dont raise my warning levels😛😆 but this is a friendly post to unite people...

rooj

PS: and plz give others chance to discuss...discuss but think of it as just a discussion instead of personal attacks or something...