Trust and understanding

Was looking through the first KS avi and siggy shop! Very nice creations y the way.. 👏👏 Brought back some real good memories.. The dori scenes, Jai talking to the unborn child, C-night etc..

But getting back to the point, I saw this sig by Navs there.. With the text: Our love supposed to be based on trust (or faith) and understanding.. And at the bottom it was written The only two things we lack in our relationship!

And that got me thinking, that even if there used to be understanding without them even speakng to eachother before, it's for sure gone now!

They're into all this mess just cause they don't have faith in eachother (I know it's too easy to say just that.. Cause the circumastances were created so that anyone would not trust the other..) Everything cause of misunderstandings! 😡

* PR Raaz: Jai didn't tell the thruth to Bani, fearing she would leave him (?)

* ONS: Jai thought Bani wanted to leave him.. 😕 And he didn't tell Bani again..

* Bani thought JW wanted a divorce, and marry Pia (after she got to know about Pia's baby.. When JW tried to bring her back to normal.. She was in shock rememer.. Pia acted like she and JW were living happily..🤢

* Bani or DDG is back taking revenge thinking JW betrayed her!

So, when will they actually start trusting eachother? 😕

they will NEVA trust each other..!! 😭

deep that,s true,but now all mis understandings will soon finish.and we can see jai bani ,s cute scenes.

trust and understanding greately depend on communication... the nature created the languages and communication system for every kind of biengs in apropriate way... it is the basic life emergency for us human... whether it is between a couple, between family members or friends no matter... unless the communication system is not established properly and not only established they should use it too.. these kids of misunderstanding will happen easily... a third person can easily break the bridge or damage it... this is what happened.

they were together but they silently understood... then they broke that communication when she chose to leave WM after PR raaz... hiding things are more serious when it is hidden from life partners... even if one has to do it for a while it will always bring back the transparency as soon as he says it himself rather than he is forced to front to say it openly... and many cases created between JB is because of this lack of communication... they prefer to talk to someone else, to share with someone else, to work with someone else... the reason says is "not to hurt the other",,, the biggest mistake... the hurt will be for a while, but the mistake of hiding will be for ever... that black mark will never go. it is always better to share and stay together to face the problems coming towards them.. one element need in human being just as air to breathe is patience... patience helps us to try to understand... understanding will lead to the creation of trust... trust is not pre-defined or created by automatically by realtionships... just because she is a sister bani doesn't have to trust her... just because jai said something bani doesn't had to trust it... trust is formed by time and understanding...

(and ekta never felt this need to make it aware to the workd thru her serials... she want kind of stand out.. her characters are like comets roaming in the universe without a proper track or route... what was it when it started and what is it now and what will be it... there is no thought given... the whole theme should be a preplanned... like landscape... green grass should be there... walking place should be provided... shade should be provided to those plants it needed... etc... it needs in a show and its scripts too... each plants hold its own properties.. nurture it while keeping a balance in the garden... not letting any thing to harm the other... its own properties will decide the future... here they don't have any idea in store.. it is curry made by many cook... someone brought the materials.. someone collected the utencils... someone cut... some one put spices part by part and after cooking is over what wll be it and whose curry wll be it... it never going to be the one intented... )

cheers

they will NEVA trust each other..!!

how soon is soon yaar,, 😭

Originally posted by: ag06

they will NEVA trust each other..!! 😭

😭 They never seem to learn from their 'mistakes'.. They do know that if JW had belived in Bani (that she wouldn't want to divorse him, the ONS would probably never happen!)

And if Bani believed that Jai would never betray her and go to Pia (of all women..), she wouldn't be back for revenge..

Originally posted by: bani&jai

deep that,s true,but now all mis understandings will soon finish.and we can see jai bani ,s cute scenes.

After they're 'united' on Tuesday? I'm guessing that would be like when they met at the play school or something.. Just them meeting, and talking, not uniting in the way I think of it..

Originally posted by: rose467

trust and understanding greately depend on communication... the nature created the languages and communication system for every kind of biengs in apropriate way... it is the basic life emergency for us human... whether it is between a couple, between family members or friends no matter... unless the communication system is not established properly and not only established they should use it too.. these kids of misunderstanding will happen easily... a third person can easily break the bridge or damage it... this is what happened. Very well said.. 👏 Communication is definitely a thing they lack.. They allways want to solve the matter on their own before telling the other one.. Just once did they communicate and solved the problem toghether (Tarun - OCD), and how quickly wasn't that solved? Jai just threw him out of the house, and we haven't seen him till today! 😉😆

they were together but they silently understood... then they broke that communication when she chose to leave WM after PR raaz... hiding things are more serious when it is hidden from life partners...True.. A lifepartner is there to support you when you're facing troubles.. even if one has to do it for a while it will always bring back the transparency as soon as he says it himself rather than he is forced to front to say it openly... and many cases created between JB is because of this lack of communication... they prefer to talk to someone else, to share with someone else, to work with someone else... Yep! Like Bani involved Raashi.. And Rano knew about ONS.. the reason says is "not to hurt the other",,, the biggest mistake... the hurt will be for a while, but the mistake of hiding will be for ever... that black mark will never go. it is always better to share and stay together to face the problems coming towards them.. If they stand together the problems will be easier to solve, and the problems would eventually be less too.. Cause right now more problems develop cause they 'have to' keep things secret.. one element need in human being just as air to breathe is patience... patience helps us to try to understand... understanding will lead to the creation of trust... trust is not pre-defined or created by automatically by realtionships... just because she is a sister bani doesn't have to trust her... Excactly! And especially not after that she know what Pia did to create misunderstandings between them the first time! I agree she was very hurt, and confused when she let the MA and saw Jai-Pia's 'wedding'.. So she didn't thought about it then.. But in 5 years, how about consudering it now?! just because jai said something bani doesn't had to trust it... trust is formed by time and understanding...

(and ekta never felt this need to make it aware to the workd thru her serials... she want kind of stand out.. her characters are like comets roaming in the universe without a proper track or route... what was it when it started and what is it now and what will be it... there is no thought given... the whole theme should be a preplanned... KS started with the 3 sisters, went on to Jai and Bani, and now it's just confusing.. like landscape... green grass should be there... walking place should be provided... shade should be provided to those plants it needed... etc... it needs in a show and its scripts too... each plants hold its own properties.. nurture it while keeping a balance in the garden... 👏 Not ruining the qualities that allready excist in people, and between them.. not letting any thing to harm the other... its own properties will decide the future... here they don't have any idea in store.. it is curry made by many cook... someone brought the materials.. someone collected the utencils... someone cut... some one put spices part by part and after cooking is over what wll be it and whose curry wll be it... it never going to be the one intented...True again.. Just several pieces glued together to fill in the 30 mins.. No preplanned stuff.. )

cheers