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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: majumdar

Mahim,

There are strong arguments for both sides- In favour of confessing- truth, justice and that it would be better for Bani to know the truth as early as possible and from JW, not someone else.

Against confession- "What you don't know can't hurt you" principle. The knowledge that her husband betrayed her with her own sister would probably scar Bani for life- a terrible blow to someone who has anyway dealt a rough hand by life, particularly her own parents.

By own judgement would be Option-2 Don't confess. But the problem is that Pia isn't going to keep silent for long- she will definitely want JW and if she can't get him destroy him (and B) in the process. Plus, given Kektaa track record, it is quite possible that third parties (Jigs & Co., Barnali & Co., someone else) may know all about it. So maybe JW should take his life into his hands and confess everything.

Rgds,

Priyanka

Agree with Pri on this! Practically, Jai should keep his mouth shut and not ruin his Marriage, which is finally back where it should be. But on the other hand, the guilt is killing him more than anyone else and before it destorys the very fabric of his existence, he should tell the truth to Bani and accept her decision!

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MT

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think jai shld tell truth to bani and let her decide what she wants to do with them. because when later she will come to know about truth either from jigs or pia then she will remember moments which they r showing now a days b/w pia and jai together and she will be more hurt and will not be able to forgive jai for his sin and will not take it as ONS but as a love affair b/w them.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Swati,

( think jai shld tell truth to bani and let her decide what she wants to do with them. )

Correct. Am sure that JW would quietly accept any punishment that B would hand out.

Rgds,

Priyanka

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: varun261969

jai should confess.A relationship should be based on truth however bitter it might be or else its just a farce.Bani deserves to know the truth so that she might not repeat what she did to jai.hiding truth on her part led jai to that disastrous ONS!
TRUTH EVENTUALLY COMES OUT!



Yes varun261969, but will this truth be worth all the harm it would cause to the people involved especially Bani
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: majumdar

Mahim,

There are strong arguments for both sides- In favour of confessing- truth, justice and that it would be better for Bani to know the truth as early as possible and from JW, not someone else.

Against confession- "What you don't know can't hurt you" principle. The knowledge that her husband betrayed her with her own sister would probably scar Bani for life- a terrible blow to someone who has anyway dealt a rough hand by life, particularly her own parents.

By own judgement would be Option-2 Don't confess. But the problem is that Pia isn't going to keep silent for long- she will definitely want JW and if she can't get him destroy him (and B) in the process. Plus, given Kektaa track record, it is quite possible that third parties (Jigs & Co., Barnali & Co., someone else) may know all about it. So maybe JW should take his life into his hands and confess everything.

Rgds,

Priyanka



Agreed ,the truth should come out in the open and it is my doubt too,that Pia might turn out to be the one who will spill the beans but my view is from Jai's angle.He should not confess.I am totally against hiding the truth but the damage it will cause,is just not worth it.Someone else will definitely do the honours of revealing the secret to Bani but for the time being Jai should keep his mouth shut and he assumes that Pia will not say anything to hurt her Di
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mk727272

She will be shattered when the truth comes out whether it is now or later. The longer it remains buried the more guilt Jai will be carrying and either ways Bani will be devastated to no end.
This is the betrayal of the worst order and the longer it remains buried the more lethal would be the effect.

This is my opnion.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

This sums it up entirely. Best bit is, it applies equally to Jia and/or Pia - theresponsibilty is equal on both their shoulders.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: nibbles

True.........but won't she be more hurt if she finds it out from someone else?!😕

She'll come to know.........look at the PR Raaz.........no matter how hard Jai tried to hide it.........the truth came out..........I still feel Jai should tell her..........and clarify everything!!

If she understands him and is still with him by the end of it, then it just proves how strong their relationship is!😛

yup !! truu say hun !!! andd i do hopee tht she forgivess him instantlyy !!!! cant afford to see them seperate from eacjh other !! 😭

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