Jai should not confess

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Posted: 18 years ago
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For the past couple of days since the Jai and Pia fling in Dubai happened all of us bantered Jai one way or the other talked about morality, that he is not a man enough to come out clean with Bani and is cheating on her and so on and on and on………..Everyone want him to come out clean with Bani regarding his ONS with Pia. A while back I too was one among all but no more and I think the longer the secret remains buried, the better it would be. If he is labeled as a selfish being, so be it but I think it's for the best, not only for his relationship with Bani but Bani's relationship with Pia too. We all may hate Pia but to Bani she is more of a daughter than a younger sister. It does not matter what Pia did or how much Bani had to suffer because of her in the past, she always forgave her and hoped for the best ,and tried her level best to make sure she is always happy. Bani will not be able to face herself, for Pia's action once the truth is out in the open, the feeling of regret will be far more than anger for her. Jai knows she will have the option of walking out on him (something he is scared of) but what is she supposed to do with Pia? She cannot cut herself just like that. If the truth is not coming out in the open it is for the best for both the relationship. I am not justifying the mistake Jai made, but will the confession be worth the loss, everyone will suffer in the end.

And why nobody is questioning Pia stand on her relationship with Bani? She can also confess the truth to Bani can't she, as Pia is the one who is still wants to maintain a relationship with Jai even after his constant refusal and clarification that their ONS was just a mistake and it is Bani he wants in his life. Why no fingers are being pointed at her? We are just satisfying ourselves by just calling her brainless or whatever, but that does not justify her actions or stand. We all want her to leave J&B alone but she will be an escapist, she will not have to face Bani everyday and will never be able to overcome her infatuation with Jai

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Posted: 18 years ago
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hey i agree! its so true! i think its the right thing to do! or else bani will be shattered!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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She will be shattered when the truth comes out whether it is now or later. The longer it remains buried the more guilt Jai will be carrying and either ways Bani will be devastated to no end.
This is the betrayal of the worst order and the longer it remains buried the more lethal would be the effect.

This is my opnion.

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Happiness Always,
Manish
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Posted: 18 years ago
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True.........but won't she be more hurt if she finds it out from someone else?!😕

She'll come to know.........look at the PR Raaz.........no matter how hard Jai tried to hide it.........the truth came out..........I still feel Jai should tell her..........and clarify everything!!

If she understands him and is still with him by the end of it, then it just proves how strong their relationship is!😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i am totaly agree with u. In addition, pia is not divorced yet. How can sombody stoop so low. If she want to sleep around, why doesn't she get divorce? atleast Pushkar will be free.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree with you that Jai should not confess because we know in what circumstances this happened and somehow I dont blame Jai to that extent!! I feel Pia was more responsible for this!! She wasnt drunk + she knew what she was doing!!

If I put on Jai's shoes, I feel he should not tell Bani as he still loves Bani and can make his life worthwhile If Bani doesnt know about this!! Because If Bani comes to know about this, she will anyways leave him which would be too much for him!!! and Jai and Bani can be happy only together!!!

But when I think about Pia, I feel the truth should come out!!! Pia might have fallen for Jai but she should not have done this as she is still married!!! She should have maintained the sanity!!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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jai should confess.A relationship should be based on truth however bitter it might be or else its just a farce.Bani deserves to know the truth so that she might not repeat what she did to jai.hiding truth on her part led jai to that disastrous ONS!
TRUTH EVENTUALLY COMES OUT!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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if jai wants to see bani happy for this time being then he should shut up....

but the problems are rising at this moment so his news about the ONS is going from bad to worst..... so maybe telling her is better...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mk727272

She will be shattered when the truth comes out whether it is now or later. The longer it remains buried the more guilt Jai will be carrying and either ways Bani will be devastated to no end.
This is the betrayal of the worst order and the longer it remains buried the more lethal would be the effect.

This is my opnion.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Completely agree with you Manish.

In the whole ONS the main culprit was and is Pia more then Jai in my thinking, am in no way saying Jai is not at fault he is but Pia instead of understanding that Bani and Jai love each other she is still trying to force herself on Jai and hanging around them. Where is her sisterly love for her sis Bani who is more like a mother to her.???

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Mahim,

There are strong arguments for both sides- In favour of confessing- truth, justice and that it would be better for Bani to know the truth as early as possible and from JW, not someone else.

Against confession- "What you don't know can't hurt you" principle. The knowledge that her husband betrayed her with her own sister would probably scar Bani for life- a terrible blow to someone who has anyway dealt a rough hand by life, particularly her own parents.

By own judgement would be Option-2 Don't confess. But the problem is that Pia isn't going to keep silent for long- she will definitely want JW and if she can't get him destroy him (and B) in the process. Plus, given Kektaa track record, it is quite possible that third parties (Jigs & Co., Barnali & Co., someone else) may know all about it. So maybe JW should take his life into his hands and confess everything.

Rgds,

Priyanka

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