JAI'S CONCERN FOR PIA IS NOT LOVE!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: majumdar

Manish,

(Why has he not asked Pia to leave Walia House?)

Actually, it would be difficult for him to throw her out of WM. Now that Bani is firmly entrenched as the malkin of WM and as Mrs. Walia, the house really is Pia's maika now. So really it is Bani who has to make the decision.

(I think Jai is soft on her and hard on bani. I cannot understand how can Jai forget what Pia did to him? How can he even think of even clarifying everything to her? )

Bani's sainthood is rubbing off on him. Besides, he is a gentleman and too chivalrous to attribute any blame for that night on her. Besides, it is politic too, if he is too harsh she may blow the whistle on him in anger. In any case as Pia is becoming more hysterical he too is gradually getting tough with her.

(I am sorry Cordy, but I do not even like his concern for Pia. Either he is with Bani whole-heartedly or with Pia. He cannot have his cake and eat it too. )

There is no contradiction here. he is with Bani 200% as a husband, with Pia it is pure concern for the girl who is Bani's sis and a girl he thinks he has wronged.

(How can Jai forget what he put Bani through and how Bani changed him forever? How can Jai compare Bani and Pia they are not even from the same planet. )

JW knows and sees everything. There is no question of JW comparing B and P.

(Why cannot Jai see Pia as nothing but a user a parasite waiting to inhale the next man and destroy his life. She is hell bent on destroying Bani's life and says she loves her sister and is still doing this. )

Well, he knows very well that Pia is hardly the only parasite in WM- that honour is shared with Jigs and her good for nothing family. JW has no reason to believe that Pia would consciously destroy B's life.

(If this is love that she feels for her sister then I do not even want to know what her hate is going to be like. )

You will find out soon enough.

(The most disturbing part is that this time the betrayal will come from her own family and how Bani will handle only time will tell. But what Jai is doing to her is not acceptable to me. )

She has handled her ( and even worse JW's )betrayal by her own parents very gracefully.

Rgds,

Priyanka

thanks both you guys, you both make excellent points!!

Pri, esp about Bani's grace - she does seem to handle each situation with courage - maybe not in the most sensible way, but definitely admirably!!

Manish - i dont like his concern for Pia either, but it's a good quality in him so I let it pass!! 😉

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Cheers,

MT

thanks for your comments MT, as usual you make perfect sense!! hopefully your update today will give us all more to smile about - i await more "jiya dhadak" moments eagerly!!! 😃

Cord,

((She has handled her ( and even worse JW's )betrayal by her own parents very gracefully.))

((Pri, esp about Bani's grace - she does seem to handle each situation with courage) )

Bani does handle most situations very gracefully and courageously but when I was referring to her handling the situation created by her parents, I did not intend to be charitable. She has forgiven her parents without a 2nd thought while any trespasses by JW have/are going to be severely punished.

Rgds,

Priyanka

Guys if your man had shown such concern for a girl, wt wud u do, seriously tell me. Jai has some attraction girls for Pia, we are trying to save him 😆 coz we love him 😉

Originally posted by: bharti_hi

Guys if your man had shown such concern for a girl, wt wud u do, seriously tell me. Jai has some attraction girls for Pia, we are trying to save him 😆 coz we love him 😉

i really dont see how it can be called attraction at all!! i think he feels sympathy for her because he has felt the pain of rejection too!

its besides the point that if my man was JW i would have locked him into my room (with me of course) and swallowed the key long ago!!! 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: majumdar

Cord,

((She has handled her ( and even worse JW's )betrayal by her own parents very gracefully.))

((Pri, esp about Bani's grace - she does seem to handle each situation with courage) )

Bani does handle most situations very gracefully and courageously but when I was referring to her handling the situation created by her parents, I did not intend to be charitable. She has forgiven her parents without a 2nd thought while any trespasses by JW have/are going to be severely punished.

Rgds,

Priyanka

though to be fair your parents are very different to any other relationship aren't they...?

Cord,

((She has handled her ( and even worse JW's )betrayal by her own parents very gracefully.))

((Pri, esp about Bani's grace - she does seem to handle each situation with courage) )

Bani does handle most situations very gracefully and courageously but when I was referring to her handling the situation created by her parents, I did not intend to be charitable. She has forgiven her parents without a 2nd thought while any trespasses by JW have/are going to be severely punished.

Rgds,

Priyanka

***Yes I m sure Bani will handle this carefully, after Bani sees Jai hugging Pia, she tells him that it happened because of "her mistake"! This dialogues were related with ONS (he thought she was Bani in the room and in Dubai he was upset because of what Bani did), but it shouldnt happen like PR raaz, when Bani thought it was Ranvijay's wife, it was only an accident committed by Jai, but when it was her mom, it was a crime, the same way, when it was a hug, it was her mistake, if its a ONS, even because of what she did to him, it will be a huge crime and Jai becomes criminal once again in front of Bani!

Originally posted by: aashyagh

***Yes I m sure Bani will handle this carefully, after Bani sees Jai hugging Pia, she tells him that it happened because of "her mistake"! This dialogues were related with ONS (he thought she was Bani in the room and in Dubai he was upset because of what Bani did), but it shouldnt happen like PR raaz, when Bani thought it was Ranvijay's wife, it was only an accident committed by Jai, but when it was her mom, it was a crime, the same way, when it was a hug, it was her mistake, if its a ONS, even because of what she did to him, it will be a huge crime and Jai becomes criminal once again in front of Bani!

excellent point!! it never quite sat well with me that in one situation it was an accident, yet as soon as she found out it was her mom it was an unforgiveable crime!! i know that if i was in that situation and it was my mom I would be devastated and i would need time to get over it - but i wouldn't have labelled him a murderer!!

the thing is the ONS hasn't been explained properly yet - i find it hard to believe anything happened that night, but if it did one can hardly refute that a hug and sex are two very different things! i can understand she would be hurt and angry, but with time i hope she would forgive him and not fail to accept her part in all of this...

I saw 20th oct epi again, focussing on Bani's monologue this time. There is one line which bani says which is something like when i saw you with pia, meri jaan nikal gayi, but then i realised ki "Galthi meri thi". I hope she remembers this line and not judge Jai on face value. Cheating is wrong, but i hope that somewhere down the line, she stops and analyses the circumstances which pushed him there.

Cordelia wrote:

excellent point!! it never quite sat well with me that in one situation it was an accident, yet as soon as she found out it was her mom it was an unforgiveable crime!! i know that if i was in that situation and it was my mom I would be devastated and i would need time to get over it - but i wouldn't have labelled him a murderer!!

the thing is the ONS hasn't been explained properly yet - i find it hard to believe anything happened that night, but if it did one can hardly refute that a hug and sex are two very different things! i can understand she would be hurt and angry, but with time i hope she would forgive him and not fail to accept her part in all of this...

***Tks! But u know what I feel is, let it be a hug or a ONS, it was a mistake, I mean if u had something in yr heart (any kind of feelings for another women, then it would hv been called cheating), but u know what even with a thought of liking someone other than yr wife would be a sin, but a mistake done unknowingly (I know lot of u dont agree and would be ready to bash me for this), is not a crime, it can always be forgiven! If Jai was emotinally attached to Pia then Bani should never forgive! If she can forgive him for a hug, she can forgive him for this too, because it was her galathi! I m sorry if its offensive!