JAI'S CONCERN FOR PIA IS NOT LOVE!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: sns23

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It is not so strange that Pia thinks that still something of that attraction for her, should be left with him. Especially as she does not understand others' emotions very well.
Of course, I'm also completely fed up with her, yet I understand her confusion.
But to threaten with suicide to the man married with your sister, is a very low act. To blackmail him into something (adultery) that is against all morals....

As far as Jai is concerned, I agree with Cordelia.
And I feel that Jai has some responsability towards Pia, even when she dragged him into the bed, with so much force. Because it was his drinking, which made him give in to Pia. And he is himself responsible for finding solace in booze.
Eventually Jai might explode and throw Pia out, but that might still take some time.

I honestly think that he's done being nice with her. He was unmoved by her during the card game, and was pretty firm even the day before. I think that he's only bothered about Bani. When she told him that she ws sure that he would never cheat on her he was terrified. Along with that and guilt, i think i saw determination written on his face. Whatever plans he had of confessing, if he had any, went right out of the window after her monologue. Her coming to know of the truth is not even an option according to him.

I've got no words for Pia, i can't even sympathise wth her. She also told yesterday, she doesn't know what is bothering her more, the fact that she is the other woman or her jealousy. Yes she can't see beyond herself, but even that doesn't excuse the fact that she's lusting after her sister's husband.

very well said sns23...even i felt when bani is talking about jealousy then jai is guilty but when she says that you are my ram...i saw determination that no way is he going to let bani come to know about ons...and the way he behaves with pia after that is his way of saying back off...i know bani doesn't know how to fight you for what is hers but i will fight you and you can't win...

Originally posted by: IFaddictinUS

even i felt when bani is talking about jealousy then jai is guilty but when she says that you are my ram...i saw determination that no way is he going to let bani come to know about ons...and the way he behaves with pia after that is his way of saying back off...i know bani doesn't know how to fight you for what is hers but i will fight you and you can't win...

well said yaar! i do agree, let's see what monday brings... 😉

thanks to everyone for their thoughts, hopefully today's episode will prove these points further!! 😃

Originally posted by: mahimn

Cordy(can I call you that)

See I too agree that Jai does not love Pia but he is not being strict enough with her in clarifying the fact that he is not interested in her at all and now she is just Bani's sister to him ,nothing more.See his sensitve side is creating more problems for him than Bani. In todays episode when he mistakingly hugged Pia assuming her to be Bani,he clearly called out Bani's name and apologised to her but still when Pia walked out of their room she said to herself that she knows he will always give her place in his heart but not his life or room

does Pia not stop!!!!😡doesnt she get the message...how can she ever conclude that he will have a place for he rin his heart but not in his life...yes Jai might have a place for her in his heart but onlu becos she is Bani's sister. Gosh that woman has no principals....i think she has split personality....she loves her sister and wants her happy but she also wants to be in her brother-in-laws bed😡

cordelia i totally agree with u that jai is concerned about pia and he is not in love with her and now its bani who is pushing him towards pia by her acts, but that is due to the trust he is having in her husband and sister, but u know simple solution to this problem was that when she was jumping from roof instead of saving her he may have applied some more force to throw her down and problem may have solved. because i think pain of death of pia must be much lesser than the pain which bani will be experiencing when her trust will be broken by none other than her own beloved husband and sister.

Manish,

(Why has he not asked Pia to leave Walia House?)

Actually, it would be difficult for him to throw her out of WM. Now that Bani is firmly entrenched as the malkin of WM and as Mrs. Walia, the house really is Pia's maika now. So really it is Bani who has to make the decision.

(I think Jai is soft on her and hard on bani. I cannot understand how can Jai forget what Pia did to him? How can he even think of even clarifying everything to her? )

Bani's sainthood is rubbing off on him. Besides, he is a gentleman and too chivalrous to attribute any blame for that night on her. Besides, it is politic too, if he is too harsh she may blow the whistle on him in anger. In any case as Pia is becoming more hysterical he too is gradually getting tough with her.

(I am sorry Cordy, but I do not even like his concern for Pia. Either he is with Bani whole-heartedly or with Pia. He cannot have his cake and eat it too. )

There is no contradiction here. he is with Bani 200% as a husband, with Pia it is pure concern for the girl who is Bani's sis and a girl he thinks he has wronged.

(How can Jai forget what he put Bani through and how Bani changed him forever? How can Jai compare Bani and Pia they are not even from the same planet. )

JW knows and sees everything. There is no question of JW comparing B and P.

(Why cannot Jai see Pia as nothing but a user a parasite waiting to inhale the next man and destroy his life. She is hell bent on destroying Bani's life and says she loves her sister and is still doing this. )

Well, he knows very well that Pia is hardly the only parasite in WM- that honour is shared with Jigs and her good for nothing family. JW has no reason to believe that Pia would consciously destroy B's life.

(If this is love that she feels for her sister then I do not even want to know what her hate is going to be like. )

You will find out soon enough.

(The most disturbing part is that this time the betrayal will come from her own family and how Bani will handle only time will tell. But what Jai is doing to her is not acceptable to me. )

She has handled her ( and even worse JW's )betrayal by her own parents very gracefully.

Rgds,

Priyanka

Originally posted by: Cordelia

sorry guys, quick point before i'm back to work!! 😭 😉

Hi Cordy, sorry, couldn't reply to you earlier, v.v. busy with Diwali and stuff!😃

Have been reading all the posts post-update and i don't understand how so many people are mistaking Jai's sensitivity for any real feeling for Pia!!!

Agree with you on this! I might bash Jai left, right and centre for a lot of things, but would give him benefit of doubt on the fact that whatever he might be portraying on the outside to Pia and to the viewers, he doesn't have any real feelings for Pia, apart from feeling sorry for her!

Jai has told her loud and clear that she means nothing to him!! She's just deaf!! He got close to her twice - but he thought she was Bani!! Does Pia not get the hint?!!

We should open a KS Fund to donate some money which should enable Pia to buy a really good pair of Earplugs which will prolly make her understand Jai better next time😆 On a serious note, our Ears only hear, what our Heart wants to hear...Pia wants to hear that Jai loves her and hence even if he goes and shouts from the rooftop that she doesn't mean one thing to him, she will choose not to hear that and keep getting delusional! That is Pia for you!

He hugged her yesterday but c'mon guys, she threatened to commit suicide, he was just trying to be a little sensitive when she (again) was being a psycho chipku!!! 😆

Jai did not hug her...She hugged him, he gave her support! The fact that Jai is comfortable around her despite what happened proves the fact that he doesn't really care for what happened between them and the only time, he gets awkward and guilty is when Bani is around. That shows, its Bani who makes him react to his mistake and not Pia, with whom he had actually committed the mistake!

Of course he's remembering the dubai night - it's giving him hell!! look at his face when he thinks of it though, does he look like it's a pleasant memory??!!! 😆😆😆 bechaara looks sick with fear more than anything!!!

Its human to always remember your mistakes over your acheivements...You always remember what you dread and fear will ruin your life till that thing tides over. And remember, whenever Jai remembers the Dubai ONS, he always does that when Bani is around...Its reminds him of his betrayal and not of a cosy night spent with a young girl! Compare this to the flashbacks of 19/6, Jai always remembered them when he missed Bani and wanted her presence back in his life!

His flashbacks are not the same as his flashbacks of 19/6 - there is nowhere near the same depth of feeling involved!! in fact the look on his face in flashbacks of dubai night are the same as the look on his face when he Park Road Raaz flashbacks!!! 😆

Jai looks as if he is going to have a severe Heart-seizure the moment he remembers the Dubai ONS!😆

plus, how can he stay away from the ONS when his clueless wife keeps shoving her in his face!!! "oh mr walia how does this dress look on pia? here take my diamond necklace!! Mr Walia aap samjhaaye na Pia ko!! aww pia it's ok, stay at walia mansion instead of going home to your husband!!!" 😡

Won't blame Bani. It only shows the kind of blind trust she has, not only on Jai, but also on Pia, despite knowing what her husband felt for her till a few months back! This shows not only Bani's faith in her marriage but also the essential innoncence of her character, someone who refuse to see bad in any individual, even if it is glaring on her face!

come on bani!!! stop thinking about the as-yet-non-existent krishna and get rid of the way-too-existent-for-my-liking Pia!!!!! 😃 having said that, i LOVED her "i can't share you with anyone" speech after Pia Madam leaves! perfect!! 😉 and the look on his face was priceless i'm sure!

More than this line, I loved when she tells Jai that he is her God, her Ram.....Jai had a million dollor expression! He better live up to her expectations now!

all said and done (ie. after my incessant ramblings have stopped!) this is not a situation where he can cut himself off from his mistake and carry on with his life. She is at work, she is at his house, she is at his parties and pooja's, the besharam is in his bedroom for god's sake!!! and she is also the cherished sister of the woman he loves most in the world (unfortunate as that is!).

We might leave our past, but our past never leaves us! Jai has made a mistake and even if Pia goes out of his House, his Office and his Life, she has unfortunately become a part of his Past and will continue haunting him for the rest of his Life!

Now i'm getting back to my work before my boss throws joote - and before the Jai-bashers do too!!! 😆

Cordy xxx

(just an opinion, no offence meant as usual!)

Cheers,

MT

wht z luv? wht z concrn? all n the same

Originally posted by: lavi7

does Pia not stop!!!!😡doesnt she get the message...how can she ever conclude that he will have a place for he rin his heart but not in his life...yes Jai might have a place for her in his heart but onlu becos she is Bani's sister. Gosh that woman has no principals....i think she has split personality....she loves her sister and wants her happy but she also wants to be in her brother-in-laws bed😡

it must be a split personality because her every word is contradictory!! i dont understand the she can truly believe she loves her sister and love her brother-in-law at the same time?!! 😕

Originally posted by: swatinarang

cordelia i totally agree with u that jai is concerned about pia and he is not in love with her and now its bani who is pushing him towards pia by her acts, but that is due to the trust he is having in her husband and sister, but u know simple solution to this problem was that when she was jumping from roof instead of saving her he may have applied some more force to throw her down and problem may have solved. because i think pain of death of pia must be much lesser than the pain which bani will be experiencing when her trust will be broken by none other than her own beloved husband and sister.

as MT has pointed out Bani is just being her usual sweet self i guess!! she fails to see the bas in anyone, i feel very sad for her that she got a sister like Pia!

and about throwing her off the roof - i totally agree, i would have helped push had he asked!!! 😆