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Posted: 19 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: pippa

By the way Jai reacted to the doctor's news, I think he's going to stop Bani from working or even leaving the house (can't explain how she'd land up in Dubai though, if this is the case!!). Or at least he would try his best to stop her. But knowing Bani, she's going to insult Jai (poor soul) once again and get her way. If she does get the 4 lacs and Pia has that operation....OMG....Pia will probably get preggers and poor Bani will lose her kid. Paves the way for the panvati to enter Jai's life again.
I have this strong feeling that Jai cares more about a child and is not too choosy about who the mother is!
I think that inexplicable lecture scene yesterday is his way of telling Push to push off and leave his wife free for Jai to persue!
Jai-Bani fans...don't curse me for this.



Nothing to curse you abt Pippa, its the truth. i also have a feeling that Jai cares more abt the child than rthe mother.
anyway, i will write ltr. a meeting rigth now. till then adieu
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Posted: 19 years ago
#22
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Originally posted by: anushka_5

You don't even know the worth of his Name… what will you value the man😡? You call yourself Mrs. Walia, right? What does that name mean to you, Bani? Just a Name? Just a proof of you being married? Do u have any idea about the Dignity, Stature and Reputation of the Name 'Jai Walia'? If u really did know what his name stood for… u wont be so irresponsible with it.

Do u even realize standing in front of that so called Interview panel… u made a mockery of Jai Walia? U made a mockery of him in front of the whole world…This isnt the first time it has happened, remember the Press conference… he stood their with head bent coz he didn't have an answer when questioned about You. And today you did it again… u crossed all limits!

A few days it was the same you who stood ur ground infront of those creeps… and it the same you who stood infront of the same jerks today for a job! I fail to understand… what was the dire need for you to do so? You continued to stand in front of them… when they repeatedly mocked you, mocked Mrs. Walia… they really don't care about you Bani… they were ridiculing Jai Walia's wife! And u still stood there… wanting the job… and u call this self respect… which actually is costing Jai's respect? And u tell me you love this man!!!!

I believe in dignity of labour.. I really don't mind if you are the CEO of a company, an Accounts Executive or a Banquet Manager or a waitress… but what was wrong was wanting that job when Jai's dignity was at stake. They weren't looking for a Banquet Manager… they had the cheap trill of making Jai Walia's wife work for them, it gave them a high when you asked them for 4 lakhs advance... which they said they would consider🤢. Does all ur ethics and morals come into play only when Jai is in front of you?How could u stand there when insult was being hurlded at u like that? Forgets Jai's respect… where has yours gone? I will never forgive you for this. NEVER😡 I am so wild with u... that from now i will think twice before i call u Bani Walia! till u learn to respect that name... i will try to refrain calling u that!

You wanted money right to help your sister… Jai would have given it to you… if not for anything, atleast for saving the grace of his own name. 'Bani Walia' might be your legal name Bani... but it comes with a lot of responsibility to keep up the honour of the surname...If u cant carry the weight age of the name.. then drop it… call yourself Bani Dixit! You are the weirdest of characters I have seen… who on the sonography registration form would call herself Mrs Bani Walia, but will leave the name of the husband blank! That itself proved that name 'Mrs Walia' doesn't mean as much to you as it should.

Even now u are making a joke of that man by deciding all for yourself that he cant handle his own life. I don't even want to get into how u r ripping apart his emotions… u really have destroyed him, I am just thankful he realized before it was too late, that he needs to take control.

You are busy taking care of the entire world, playing a guardian angel… but u urself are proving to be a threat to your own kid😡. God forbid if something happens to you or the kid, Jai is going to go on a rampage and you wont even know how to stop him.

U have convinced me that now whatever Jai does… you deserve it… you deserve everybit of it… for not only making a mockery of him, his emotions but also for deciding his life for him. U will know the real Jai Walia now… may be then u will understand how wrong u were to misinterpret him. The irony is that you are the only person who ever connected with him at a very basic human level and understood him(well, a few days back atleast)

The episode was … a total waste of time! I am not going into reviewing the episode coz I understood nothing! I don't understand why Jai decided to have a talk with Pushkar out of the blue? And the topic was even vague… I was trying to understand what it was that Jai wanted to say😕. And why did he find Push puppy of all people to discuss it…. now even Tarun cant be there to hear of Jai.. cant he do atleast that😡?

That scene was totally confusing... was Jai advising Pushkar, asking for advice, or plain discussing… or did he want both of to open an Anti-Dixit sister camp… since both their wives are such complicated being, making their lives even more complicated😡.

Chalo one good thing is that it kind of resembled the old Guru-chela relationship and Pushkar called Jai 'Jai sir'

😃 Btw I do think Jai has hired Pushkar… his work is to keep an eye on Bani. Coz I don't otherwise understand how on earth push puppy follows Bani everywhere she goes and still manages to afford a car in such a short span of time. He actually went along with Bani even for her interview? Only if he had kept an eye on his wife and her interviews…. Yeh naubath aati hi nahi.

Anu, you drained my brain by saying whole things which I wanted to flush out... 👏👏 very good job.... in fact the writers de-moralised the womanhood here.... if Jai can earn the money and name in the world how on the earth he is not able to manage to retain by his experience and talents... what the writers think a lady need to save her man, that too in-experienced Bani... her only experience is what the opportunities she got by Jai's kindness... she think she is the mahan.. well for Anu or Pia I may differ a bit but here no way... no woman will surrender her and her husbands and her child's pride just for a 4 lakhs... what kind of sister-love is that.. if she don't mind her own child's pride then how her sister-love is true!!!!! here she does anything for her sisters... even at the cost her own family - well it seems she doesn't deserve it all... now I don't blame JIgs for calling her chotta towns ladki... he mind become more chotta than her own town... even a hard-core fan of Bani can't accept what she did in the last few episodes....

Jai-Pushkar , I think pushkar must have told him the truth... and they are discussing the way to keep Bani from troubles... Jai already knows his life is on gun point (Ekta forgot it for the time beings, anyone remember it😉)? none can answer Anu here since Bani herself decided and started her life with him without his consent... she decided to stand with him ... but this man, he is still not ready to surrender in front of the truth that his wife is destroying him in front of the world... he is still not ready to accept it... it is called love... it is such a blind love... I can't imagine... how he feel.. because it is the first time he feel the love and enjoy it only to know it is killing him inch by inch... if he join hands with pushkar then we have a little hope left...

love and thanks , Anu... you are a great writer

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Posted: 19 years ago
#23
Pippa/Sangs,

(I have this strong feeling that Jai cares more about a child and is not too choosy about who the mother is! )

(i also have a feeling that Jai cares more abt the child than rthe mother.)

Sorry to completely disagree with you on this. I think the child is precious only because it is his and Bani's. If a child would have been that important he could have easily got Rosh or Sonali to oblige him.

It is just that Jai is unable to say in so many words.

Rgds

Priyanka
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Posted: 19 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: majumdar

Pippa/Sangs,

(I have this strong feeling that Jai cares more about a child and is not too choosy about who the mother is! )

(i also have a feeling that Jai cares more abt the child than rthe mother.)

Sorry to completely disagree with you on this. I think the child is precious only because it is his and Bani's. If a child would have been that important he could have easily got Rosh or Sonali to oblige him.

It is just that Jai is unable to say in so many words.

Rgds

Priyanka



Priyanka, i would love to believe this the most at this juncture when Ekta and her creatives are hell-bent on destroying the characters. I gues thinking so much doesnt deserve so much attention even.
sangitadas thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
#25
BTW, I thank Bani for pepping up the Forum once again. 👏 👏 👏
majumdar thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
#26
What KS needs now is a really good programme on Star or Sony or SAB at 900 PM.

Rgds

Priyanka
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Posted: 19 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: sangitadas

BTW, I thank Bani for pepping up the Forum once again. 👏 👏 👏

totally agree - thanks to her everyone's back to debating again!! 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
#28

Bani this is what I am gonna finally say to u, I tried to be neutral, but can't anymore, so this is with love from Jai to you:

So I treated you badly out of anger
Cuz at the time it seemed so right
So why do I still cry over you
Everyday and every night

You've broken my heart in pieces
I never knew you could be so mean
And I still cant figure out how we ended so bad
When it all started out just like a dream

You were my one and only
I had my heart and you had the key
But now that you hold both
Theres almost nothing left of me

Now I feel like somethings missing
Something I know I cant replace
The spot where my heart used to beat so contently
Is left with nothing but an empty space

I don't really understand it
And I know it isn't fair
How you still manage to hurt me
All though you say you don't even care

But I think im starting to realize
How you can keep me so off track
The truth is I gave you my heart
And I never really got it back

Of late I have tried to be there for you, always loyal as a partner
And as much as you may control my heart
You will not get to control my life

So now I think im finally ready
To take back whats rightfully mine
Then let time heal my broken heart
And then you know ill be just fine

Cuz Im stronger than you give me credit for
And by no guy will I be defeated
You got me into thinking its you that I need
For my life to be completed

But now I can see better than ever
Your just another lesson learned
I should've known by now when you play with fire
Chances are good that youll get burned

Although at times it may get lonely
And I cant help but to think of times that weve been through
But I know I just need to remember one thing
That I deserve so much better than what you do

At least you've taught me a valuable lesson
About life as well as wifes
So for that I owe a thank you
And as for you…I better save a…GOOD-BYE!!!

Edited by sabsj - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#29
Ye ye Anu...THANK YOU...I loved it... 👏 👏...But it isnt enuf...U should have gone on...Dil ko aur thandak milti... 😕 😳

For the Bani supporters, guys...we all love her...But we prefer consistency and lggic...Is that so wrong to expect???...

There was a certain depth to her character...A certain rhythm...One expects to see sensitivity, sympathy and understanding from her...She's always loved with her whole heart...So when it comes the person she loves the most, one expects she will be extra careful in thnking about the whole consequences of her actions...About the effect that her decision will have on the life of not only her love, but also her child....One expects to see her retain her self-respect, her dignity in the midst of all odds...

The reason one feels more betrayed by her is because we expect better from her..Because of what she has been, its saddening and hurtful to see a different, incomprehensible side to her...one gets angry because she has reasonable options which if the essence of her character was retained, she might just as well choose...

Its self-defeating to compare Jai and Bani's actions...they are as diff as chalk and cheese...The essence of Jai is his volatility, his reactiveness, his impulsiveness, his passion and his inner vulnerability....Bani on the contrary is marked by her dignity, resilience, morality and strenght of character...No one wants to see a change in either of them, because together they make magic...And complement each other's lives...

If tomorrow Jai loses his basic character the bashing he'll get and the vengefulness he'll evoke will be even more...

I hope we get back the Bani one liked to like...Unfortunately it doesnt look like happening in the near future...So all we cn do is to mourn or fume alternatively....

love
Rupy
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Posted: 19 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: sabsj

Bani this is what I am gonna finally say to u, I tried to be neutral, but can't anymore, so this is with love from Jai to you:

So I treated you badly out of anger
Cuz at the time it seemed so right
So why do I still cry over you
Everyday and every night

You've broken my heart in pieces
I never knew you could be so mean
And I still cant figure out how we ended so bad
When it all started out just like a dream

You were my one and only
I had my heart and you had the key
But now that you hold both
Theres almost nothing left of me

Now I feel like somethings missing
Something I know I cant replace
The spot where my heart used to beat so contently
Is left with nothing but an empty space

I don't really understand it
And I know it isn't fair
How you still manage to hurt me
All though you say you don't even care

But I think im starting to realize
How you can keep me so off track
The truth is I gave you my heart
And I never really got it back

Of late I have tried to be there for you, always loyal as a partner
And as much as you may control my heart
You will not get to control my life

So now I think im finally ready
To take back whats rightfully mine
Then let time heal my broken heart
And then you know ill be just fine

Cuz Im stronger than you give me credit for
And by no guy will I be defeated
You got me into thinking its you that I need
For my life to be completed

But now I can see better than ever
Your just another lesson learned
I should've known by now when you play with fire
Chances are good that youll get burned

Although at times it may get lonely
And I cant help but to think of times that weve been through
But I know I just need to remember one thing
That I deserve so much better than what you do

At least you've taught me a valuable lesson
About life as well as wifes
So for that I owe a thank you
And as for you…I better save a…GOOD-BYE!!!

🤗 That was beautiful and so apt for the situation.... and so damn sad... kya din agaye, it is really sad to even think may they would be better off without eachother, and even more saddening is that Jai even if it was for a spur of the moment wanted to not only end the relationship, but erase its memories aswell😭 But I am so gald the inner strength of Jai is immense for him to fight this out for both of them... and i am damn sure he will... I just hope his wife takes a back seat now or even better Jai corners her in such a way that she has no options but to remain silent and out of his way till he sets it right for them.

Always a pleasure reading ur replies.

Lots of Luv

Anu.

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