Do you know the worth of Jai Walia, Bani?

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Do u know the worth of Jai Walia, Bani? Do you😕? Well, may be even I don't know… but then I can vouch for the fact that it doesn't lie in his Millions, The worth Jai Walia is not what his Balance Sheet and Bank Balances state, it is beyond anything materialistic he owns. I know the entire world, so much so his own sister, his Ex-Girlfriends all value him on the basis of his money… but that never really mattered, what hurts is that You of all people are putting his property before everything, even before that man who you claim to Love! Bani, Don't reduce Jai to a Millionaire, He is probably one in a Million (that was too filmy😡😕😆… but point is that he is ONLY one of his kind😳!) What makes the man special… is surely not his money alone. He is Jai Walia, coz of the respect and repute he has earned for himself and conducted and maintained the Dignity and Honour of the Walia name.

You don't even know the worth of his Name… what will you value the man😡? You call yourself Mrs. Walia, right? What does that name mean to you, Bani? Just a Name? Just a proof of you being married? Do u have any idea about the Dignity, Stature and Reputation of the Name 'Jai Walia'? If u really did know what his name stood for… u wont be so irresponsible with it.

Do u even realize standing in front of that so called Interview panel… u made a mockery of Jai Walia? U made a mockery of him in front of the whole world…This isnt the first time it has happened, remember the Press conference… he stood their with head bent coz he didn't have an answer when questioned about You. And today you did it again… u crossed all limits!

A few days it was the same you who stood ur ground infront of those creeps… and it the same you who stood infront of the same jerks today for a job! I fail to understand… what was the dire need for you to do so? You continued to stand in front of them… when they repeatedly mocked you, mocked Mrs. Walia… they really don't care about you Bani… they were ridiculing Jai Walia's wife! And u still stood there… wanting the job… and u call this self respect… which actually is costing Jai's respect? And u tell me you love this man!!!!

I believe in dignity of labour.. I really don't mind if you are the CEO of a company, an Accounts Executive or a Banquet Manager or a waitress… but what was wrong was wanting that job when Jai's dignity was at stake. They weren't looking for a Banquet Manager… they had the cheap trill of making Jai Walia's wife work for them, it gave them a high when you asked them for 4 lakhs advance... which they said they would consider🤢. Does all ur ethics and morals come into play only when Jai is in front of you?How could u stand there when insult was being hurlded at u like that? Forgets Jai's respect… where has yours gone? I will never forgive you for this. NEVER😡 I am so wild with u... that from now i will think twice before i call u Bani Walia! till u learn to respect that name... i will try to refrain calling u that!

You wanted money right to help your sister… Jai would have given it to you… if not for anything, atleast for saving the grace of his own name. 'Bani Walia' might be your legal name Bani... but it comes with a lot of responsibility to keep up the honour of the surname...If u cant carry the weight age of the name.. then drop it… call yourself Bani Dixit! You are the weirdest of characters I have seen… who on the sonography registration form would call herself Mrs Bani Walia, but will leave the name of the husband blank! That itself proved that name 'Mrs Walia' doesn't mean as much to you as it should.

Btw Why couldn't u ask Pushkar to help? Whatever happened to ur previous job😕? Or for that matter even Pia could have approached her office for a loan… I am sure it could have been arranged. But u will not let go of an opportunity to be called 'Mahan'… which actually most of the time is not deserving, coz there is always a better way of solving it. Yes, But that really needs u to have a broader view than restricting urself and ur thoughts.

Even now u are making a joke of that man by deciding all for yourself that he cant handle his own life. I don't even want to get into how u r ripping apart his emotions… u really have destroyed him, I am just thankful he realized before it was too late, that he needs to take control.

You are busy taking care of the entire world, playing a guardian angel… but u urself are proving to be a threat to your own kid😡. God forbid if something happens to you or the kid, Jai is going to go on a rampage and you wont even know how to stop him.

U have convinced me that now whatever Jai does… you deserve it… you deserve everybit of it… for not only making a mockery of him, his emotions but also for deciding his life for him. U will know the real Jai Walia now… may be then u will understand how wrong u were to misinterpret him. The irony is that you are the only person who ever connected with him at a very basic human level and understood him(well, a few days back atleast)

The episode was … a total waste of time! I am not going into reviewing the episode coz I understood nothing! I don't understand why Jai decided to have a talk with Pushkar out of the blue? And the topic was even vague… I was trying to understand what it was that Jai wanted to say😕. And why did he find Push puppy of all people to discuss it…. now even Tarun cant be there to hear of Jai.. cant he do atleast that😡?

That scene was totally confusing... was Jai advising Pushkar, asking for advice, or plain discussing… or did he want both of to open an Anti-Dixit sister camp… since both their wives are such complicated being, making their lives even more complicated😡. I didn't understand a word of what Jai said. But what I liked in that scene… apart from the fact that the Jai in kurtas😳… was Jai's gestures. His hand did all the talking… they complimented every word that Jai was saying…infact even if I had muted my Tv… just looking at Jai's hand movements I would have understood the scene…. I don't know if I managed to put words to my thoughts😕… if u do intend watching the episode (for the 1st time or repeat… if I would recommend not to😆) observe his hand movements… u will know what I am saying. I wonder how Ram does it…. I guess that is why he is such a good actor👏.

Chalo one good thing is that it kind of resembled the old Guru-chela relationship and Pushkar called Jai 'Jai sir'

What did Jai mean he will erase all his memories? Jai, please dont tell this to Ekta... she just might have ur head bang somewhere and there all ur memories are wipped out... AMNESIA!😕

😃 Btw I do think Jai has hired Pushkar… his work is to keep an eye on Bani. Coz I don't otherwise understand how on earth push puppy follows Bani everywhere she goes and still manages to afford a car in such a short span of time. He actually went along with Bani even for her interview? Only if he had kept an eye on his wife and her interviews…. Yeh naubath aati hi nahi.

The best scene was watching Munna sleep like a child. Bani what is that u want to prove? U give the guy sleepless nights... he refuses to even sleep in his own room which I am guess haunts him with ur memories and u think putting a comforter is enough to ensure him a good night sleep😡. Don't get me started on ur 'Majboori' If any one of us had a chance we would solve it in an hour's time without u getting a divorce and without Jai losing his millions.

Ok, I am done Bani bashing for the day… Bani Brigade is going to hunt me down… or I think they would prefer to ignore it… cause it is nothing new coming from me😆.

There is nothing else worth commenting on the episode… oh one more thing I found surprising, Pushkar came to Walia Mansion and didn't meet Bani?😕 That must be the highlight of the day😆.

Acha enough of my sarcasm, I am getting carried away😡

Bye for now

Lots of luv😃

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Yes darling!! The BANI BRIGADE is here...well an important member is!! 😆

Worth of Mr.Walia? Did he even have anything WORTHY of his own before Bani came to his life? Did your MR.WALIA respect Bani when she married him? Did he not think once before throwing her out of his room on the wedding night?

Mr Walia...he is rich so his ego and dignity must be larger than a small town girl like Bani. We can say oh "He looked so sexy while shouting at Bani" but oh no Bani cannot do this to Mr.Walia!! A guy who had no-one to really live life for before BANI came in to his life. If Mr.Walia can disrespect and talk filth for Bani then why cannot she in order to SAVE his reputation be cynical for a while? Its double standards!!

I'd rather call Bani by her name than Mrs. Walia thank you very much! 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well, Anu...first of all what a wonderful analysis...and the Bani bashing... I don't think it was enough...u could've contiued and I would've kept reading... believe me..I know how u feel about Bani.. She thinks that money is everything for Jai... If she loved him and cared so much about him..wouldn't she know what matters to him the most.. He doesn't care about his property, he doesn't care about his money, he doesn't care about anything except for his child and for his wife.. His unborn child and his wife means the world to him.. and what is she doing..she is saving him and his property.. who told her that he wants those things and not his wife by his side... he would've been happier if he was pennyless and had his wife to support him and hold his hands and hug him tight.. that would've given him more happiness...
Bani...you say that u love him.. I don't believe you.. if you do love him so much, how could u not share things with him.. u always want to do things urself.. you never gave him a chance to be ur partner, you made pushkar ur partner... isn't Jai suppose to be more close than pushkar.. wouldn't u share ur happiness and sadness with the person that u love.. but what are u doing Bani.. u are just thinking about his property what about the pain that u are causing him.. what about those tears that u are giving him...would u be able to give those tears back with his property and his money....would u be able to repay his pain with those money...
alright... I can't believe I fall for this again.. I thought I won't discuss Bani and her logics anymore... but here I go again.....
it's all Anu's fault 😆
gotta go..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hmm hun, listen, i get where ur coming from..but what everyone does, is forget the past..and live the future..what about all the shit he put bani thru? all the pain and hurt he caused her at such a young age? all the drama she lived with...whoe the bloody hell was jai walia before bani? thanks to bani he can be called a good man now...he was an egotistical maniac b4 bani..and if he was so great, why couldnt he just downright say he loved her, instead of telling everyone adn himself that it was a lie and bani had to go? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm whyyyy?! if he was so upright, he wouldnt have pushed her into this state, where she has to finally compromise herself respect..FOR HIM!! she thinks this way, because of HIM!! HE DID THIS TO BANI! but, whatever, its just a show..right? we shud all start becoming less obsessed wiht it....(ya right)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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there was a reason for jai action pia had left him on the wedding day and bani was sitting in place of pia. Any one in jai place would behave the way jai did. Jai didnot know it was jig who made bani sit in place of pia.
but now bani loves him so what is the reason to make jai go through all this.
what ever jai did or told was with in the housse but this madam is insulting him in public. Now because of her, some stupid company people who can never stand in front of jai walia are dareing to insult him.
Today was the limit i always knew that this stupid lady doesnot care for jai reputation but what happened to her self respect she went to ask job with those stupid people and they talked all crap and even then she agreed to work for them,
Only one request for bani please dont run around in your new job serving water and tea for everyone. 😡 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hear hear Anu - sorry bani supporters -

but I think Mrs Walia is an stupid person (at least the character is so lame) - I have almost quit watcjing KS on a regular basis and i know several people back in India have alos moved on -

Now it is just a mtter of waiting for jai to get married to Pia, roshni, rano , or anyone who walks in to a role and yopu know what - I ythink bani deserves it

Pia is the smart one - she had loads of fun with a hunk , now is set to enjoy ;loads of moeny with an older man who will adore her and get her stupid sister to work and sacrifice for her - may be she is not a good sister - but she is one smart survivor !!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Yes darling!! The BANI BRIGADE is here...well an important member is!! 😆

Worth of Mr.Walia? Did he even have anything WORTHY of his own before Bani came to his life? Did your MR.WALIA respect Bani when she married him? Did he not think once before throwing her out of his room on the wedding night?

Mr Walia...he is rich so his ego and dignity must be larger than a small town girl like Bani. We can say oh "He looked so sexy while shouting at Bani" but oh no Bani cannot do this to Mr.Walia!! A guy who had no-one to really live life for before BANI came in to his life. If Mr.Walia can disrespect and talk filth for Bani then why cannot she in order to SAVE his reputation be cynical for a while? Its double standards!!

I'd rather call Bani by her name than Mrs. Walia thank you very much! 😃

hey thats a little unfair!! 😕

i have spent the last couple of days defending Bani and her actions too, but i don't really have much to say in answer to Anu because she is absolutely right!! Ekta is ruining her character - even if she wasn't up until now, she certainly has done so by making Bani take that job today. 😡

how can you defend her after she took that job from those lecherous arrogant old men today?? it completely flies in the face of everything she has done for him so far... or that she says she is doing for him til date... 😕 i think the double standards are in the comment that it is ok for Bani to talk filth etc about JW because she is doing it to save him - there will be nothing left to save if she behaves like this in public!!

there is absolutely no comparison between Jai Walia's arrogance - which by the way bit the dust loooong ago!! - and the way Bani behaved in today's episode - she has brains, she's just not using them - she should know what this will do to his reputation that she says she is so intent on saving!!!

as anu mentioned, there were many ways she could have got that money - ok, i dont think she should have asked jai or pia's office (ie. jai's company) for it, but bank loans, sale of jewellery, an advance from her own office were options too!!!

although i do disagree with anu's assertion that she does not know the worth of mr walia - i dont think she is weighing him against his property and assets etc, she is just smart enough to know that that is how the world weighs him, and almost how he values himself! and like i have said before, she is misunderstood - she is not fighting for his money, she is fighting to save his feelings that would be destroyed if he were to find out what his sister and nephew are doing to him. 😭

re: throwing her out of his room on their wedding night - ok not gentlemanly but DEFINITELY understandable!!! he is human for god's sake, it would be wholly unrealistic for him to say "aaiye... aap hi ka intezaar tha!!" 😆

and bani has done no less - she threw him out of his room when she moved back into his house - and i'm not saying that's wrong, she did it for a reason!! and she isnt some meek mild creature who everyone keeps beating down - she had the guts to get Pia and Pushkar married in Jai Walia's own house!!!! It doesn't get more insulting than that after they way they betrayed him!!!! 😡

yes, i love JW, i think he is one of the sexiest characters around etc etc etc... but i also believe bani is one of the strongest and most admirable female characters on television - they are both at fault in this situation but both just as helpless as each other - we can't interpret situations the way we please just because we favour one particular character over another!! 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu thanx, I totally agree with u ,sarcasm et al. And Bani brigade Banis heart is in the right place no doubt about it, but one cannot ,even with maximum latitude,call her actions rational. And hey JW is a "good " person and a "real" person .Though one does not forgive him (never) for all the verbal lashing he subjected B thru, it was in the private domain and not under public scrutiny.And she is being a irresponsible mother to be,that is unforgivable.

We cannot argue this out like a balance of trade b/w all past actions of J & B. Today, now, one cannot sympathise with anything (MAYBE her sentiments??) B does for love, JW, child, honor, self respect,sister anything..../CAT
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Posted: 19 years ago
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thanks anu for analysis..today is worse epi. especilly bani went for job for two 🤢 monkey man..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu thax, it was a great analysis n i agree with u .. i really don understand where KS is headin... wid bani's level of mentality its hopeless to make a very powerful or strong character .. well she is great i shouldnt say tht she is doin all this for jai but she is the main character in the show... she should atleast have enough sense that infront of love money is nothin ...

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