What was ur husband's reaction? - Page 3

I am only out of high school and not married but I have many dreams for my future possible kids. is having Kids as scary as it seems? 😊

Married only a little over a year.... no kids yet....but well i hope my husband reacts like Jai except the crying part and comes in the room and hugs me 😉

Married for only a little over a year.... no kids yet....but well i hope my husband reacts like Jai except the crying part and comes in the room and hugs me 😉

well my husband reaction was like ... we both were shy ..as it was our arranged marriage and i told him in night that i am expecting ..he had a big smile on his face ....... 😳 and then we had few beautiful moments together ...
i caanot forget that ....
beautiful memories
cheers

I can never forget my husband's reaction, because he was driving through a very busy road on that Saturday Morning, when my Pregnancy Test was confirmed positive....He was the first person I called up and informed...He almost banged his Car against a tree.....That shocked and thrilled.... 😃

No wonder, he spoils our kid rotten.....and my Kid worships the ground on which his Papa walks...Hmph, I am the Villain in their lives I guess, always shouting and giving orders.... 😆

Cheers,

MT

It very much the same as Jai's, yesterday whole night I kept on remembering my hubbys reaction when I gave him the news that we were going to have a baby after all. It was a testtube try. But unfortunately lost it. No baby as yet. That is why I wrote in my post that Jai's reaction was priceless. SOOOOOOO genuine.

And yes I had fainted. The funniest part was, when I regained my conciousness, my hubby was totally zapped, scared and atleast a mile away from me. My mother was there. He thought i was dead!!!!!!!!!

I especially remember our third child, as we didn't believe I could be pregnant(because I missed the signs, not because of lack of romance 😳 ) An X-ray had to be taken and the hospital refused to do so,as I was not 1oo% sure that there was no baby. So i was doing a home test and to my surprise was pregnant, than my husband and me were all excited with this surprise. But we had no idea about when it happened......
So an echo was done soon and, o shock, it was already 21 weeks! That was a short pregnancy!
But we were very happy and our son proved very lucky for us! (Of course our girls too!!! Im so happy and proud with my three!)

About fainting: I have seen 15 pregnancies of my sisters in law and myself and nobody ever fainted, just sometimes feeling "light in the head" or seeing black spots a little, especially in the first three months.

And about deliveries: these tv-
drama's drive me crazy - they show so much shouting and unbearable pain, but believe me: the pain is (just) bearable and i was very lucky to be present at the birth of eight children of three sisters in law (because of language problems they face in this country, I'm the only Dutch in the family)plus my own three and really: nobody ever shouted! Just grinding your teeth together, take the pain and use all your power.
Deliveries are wonderfull,so meaningfull and I always felt so proud of my sisters (and myself), very proud to be a woman and be able to do it!!
I'm afraid that how pregnancies/deliveries are being shown in the tv-drama's, it becomes very frightening for young women to think about the delivery 😭

So, don't be afraid girls, you can also do it, when your time comes!

I'm sorry for getting carried away, nobody asked for this lecture of me, but I'm a very emotional person, just can't contol myself. Sorry!

Originally posted by: maria-n

I especially remember our third child, as we didn't believe I could be pregnant(because I missed the signs, not because of lack of romance 😳 ) An X-ray had to be taken and the hospital refused to do so,as I was not 1oo% sure that there was no baby. So i was doing a home test and to my surprise was pregnant, than my husband and me were all excited with this surprise. But we had no idea about when it happened......
So an echo was done soon and, o shock, it was already 21 weeks! That was a short pregnancy!
But we were very happy and our son proved very lucky for us! (Of course our girls too!!! Im so happy and proud with my three!)

About fainting: I have seen 15 pregnancies of my sisters in law and myself and nobody ever fainted, just sometimes feeling "light in the head" or seeing black spots a little, especially in the first three months.

And about deliveries: these tv-
drama's drive me crazy - they show so much shouting and unbearable pain, but believe me: the pain is (just) bearable and i was very lucky to be present at the birth of eight children of three sisters in law (because of language problems they face in this country, I'm the only Dutch in the family)plus my own three and really: nobody ever shouted! Just grinding your teeth together, take the pain and use all your power.
Deliveries are wonderfull,so meaningfull and I always felt so proud of my sisters (and myself), very proud to be a woman and be able to do it!!
I'm afraid that how pregnancies/deliveries are being shown in the tv-drama's, it becomes very frightening for young women to think about the delivery 😭

So, don't be afraid girls, you can also do it, when your time comes!

I'm sorry for getting carried away, nobody asked for this lecture of me, but I'm a very emotional person, just can't contol myself. Sorry!

U are lucky not to get much pain.For me,it was just as bad as they show in TV,it was tooooooooo much for me to bear.I thought,I am going to die but when my son was born,I had forgotten all my pain.That was my best moment in life.

Nice to hear so many stories really good to know the feeling of motherhood is awesome specially for us young unmarried girls who havent experienced it yet but I hope n future my hubby reaction will be like Jai except crying part dont mind tears of joy and a nice hug😉 😆

Lovely topic !
My first pregnancy (have 2 kids) was kind of planned and when my Home test came positive hubby was at work (is a doctor) and was doing his ward round when I called to tell him. He just gave a curt "great news" reply see you later! and cut off ! I felt sad for a bit but later in a couple of hours got a bouquet of flowers delivered (express service!)home and he called to sorry for being abrupt - could not talk much at the time as was with a dying patient's relative !
We were very happy that day ! Such lovely memories