What a fab performance by Ram!! - Page 450

Originally posted by: Piscean

U know I feel deep down they both know each other very well...and they both have each other figured out quite well too. E.g. JW knows wat is going on in her mind...and she knows the same for JW but yet because of their prior experiences they are not willing to go w/their instincts. They are not willing to tell themselves that they know...they understand the needs of the other.

Remember the Anu pregnancy time...after the initial drama JW had it clearly figured out and so did Bani. She knew wat the situation meant to JW for his family...and he understood her values and where she came from. And that is why at the end of it all...he asked her to be there by Anu's side when they all talked to her...

Originally posted by: nsb416

JKG is jhoru ka ghulam...wat most Kkekta heroes eventually come to signify during the course of the show...

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

So does this at any level signify her old flame for Puskar still alive in there? I know it's an eww thought but nonetheless. Sometimes I cannot stand women in this matter...so flip-floppy. Men on the other hand...so one-directional...so ek baar ek zid pakdi toh chodne ki baat hi nahi karte...and esp arrogant self-centered ones like JW...

How true AD! I mean a very anti-femnistic approach but seriously some women are so fickle-minded and can never make up their mind unlike men whose mind is usually unidirectional! Not much going on there....it's the women who think a million things but when a man says "No you don't look fat in that" it MEANS "NO YOU DON"T LOOK FAT IN THAT!" 😛
As for Bani having feelings for Pushky....Nah! I don't think that's what that was! In fact I doubt if Bani would've even gone up to Pushky if he hadn't found her! And I don't think that Jai would care about Bani's old feelings for him either! It's all a matter of the past now! There's more important issues to deal with! 😛

This goes back to wat JW summed up in one dialogue to Bani abt how when a woman leaves a man it hurts his ego...and he would never forget the vengeful feelings he will develop for that woman...but even upon that for Bani's sake he will let go of all ill-feelings toward Pia. Now apparently it didn't make any sense to Bani then and it still doesn't...but I guess to any half-sensible person it shows what JW is all abt. He was willing to let go of a man's most precious valuable (his EGO) for Bani's sake...I think when a woman finds a man who is willing to do that...if she had an ounce of intelligence she would see he loves her more then the Lord Almighty himself.

How aptly reminded AD!!! Very very good point! 👏 He was willing to give up his most precious valuable....EGO for this woman and yet this woman doesn't have half the sense to recognise that!
I mean I must say at one point I was sick of all those posts about how JW is a duffer who doesn't understand or see Bani's love (after which I just ignored them all! 😛) but now I'd like to ask them all the same thing! WHY DOESN'T BANI SEE/UNDERSTAND JW'S FEELINGS FOR HER????😕 I mean having had the privelege to be born the greater of the 2 sexes why doesn't Bani see that JW threw his ego out the door, went down many notches for her to show her that he cares for her deeply? Why doesn't she understand his love for her and make him realise it if he really is so confused? Why doesn't she take the initiative and say the three damned words if she knows for sure that he loves her too? Yeah he's said that 6/19 was a mistake but at least he never said he hates her!!! 😛 He never said anything to the contrary that he loves her! So how is it that we expect JW to understand that Bani loves him despite her clearly blurting out that she HATES him while we find it hard to ask Bani to acknowledge JW's love for her! 😕 Double stds? 😛 Maybe!

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

U know I feel deep down they both know each other very well...and they both have each other figured out quite well too. E.g. JW knows wat is going on in her mind...and she knows the same for JW but yet because of their prior experiences they are not willing to go w/their instincts. They are not willing to tell themselves that they know...they understand the needs of the other.

Remember the Anu pregnancy time...after the initial drama JW had it clearly figured out and so did Bani. She knew wat the situation meant to JW for his family...and he understood her values and where she came from. And that is why at the end of it all...he asked her to be there by Anu's side when they all talked to her...

Originally posted by: soapaddict

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Not sure MM. They may surprise us, you know. Ektaa did last week. I, for one, would sure as hell be happy if they went down the more sophisticated, unexpected route. Seriously. We viewers do watch all sorts of crap.. but for a change, it'd be nice to address OUR intelligence na? Fine, we like saas, bahu stuff.. but a bit more ingenuity.

So, to draw out your point (sorry!)...I don't know!

And prachi.. well, in one way I can understand her hesitancy. If Indian soap watchers get so attached as to stop "dabbas,"😆.. I suppose the stars are allowed to wonder as to the moral and personal pot shots. But, in this instance her characters married yaar! .... go with it!!! 😉

Originally posted by: armaandeewani

Ya Soap...don't think Prachi will have a problem w/it this time around. Waise bhi after 06/19 this should be a piece of cake...no one is 'violating' her in this instance. But that makes sense...w/this junoon JW is displaying it makes sense for the miscarriage to happen...I am thinking then JW will have the upperhand...because losing the child may be blamed on Bani's stubborness...