How ethical is this consummation?

I've been reading and reading all the superb analysis and posts which members of this forum have put up particluarly about the consummation scene between Bani and Jai. And likewise guys, I would also want the needful to happen. However persoanlly I think this scene is tantamount to Jai taking advantage of Bani. Its been shown that Jai is not very sure about Bani's feelings for him. hence he's been acting like an ass, shouting at her, breaking her heart etc etc.....Where hence now is he sure of her feelings??

Isn't that some kind of imposing his will on her....Just because he wants it, he assumes she wants it too?

Agreed he doesn't know that she's been drugged but he's not a fool that he doesnt realize she's not in her right senses? He's treated her like a punch bag, never trusted her, belittles her and her position as his wife at every other instance and yet he expects her to acquiese now???

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I don't think Jai is someone who would take advantage of Bani. I think their compromised mental state will allow both of them to be a little uninhibited but not completely unaware of what is happening.
Their inebriated state will allow for both of them to act on their feelings, so I don't think Jai will be taking advantage of the situation but rather both will be finally acting on their feelings, both Bani and Jai.

Agreed, it will be mutual.......... parr jo hota hai hone do na yaar.......... have waited so long for this. Celebration time, I will be celebrating tonight, thinking of Jai and Bani........... 😆 😆 😉

Originally posted by: cheeze

Agreed, it will be mutual.......... parr jo hota hai hone do na yaar.......... have waited so long for this. Celebration time, I will be celebrating tonight, thinking of Jai and Bani........... 😆 😆 😉

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When you watch Ekta's serial, there are so many questiones about ethics , unethnics. Just forget that .watch the serial. Go with the flow yaar and enjoy the serial. Why to think, why this is happening and is this ethical.

Originally posted by: anut

I've been reading and reading all the superb analysis and posts which members of this forum have put up particluarly about the consummation scene between Bani and Jai. And likewise guys, I would also want the needful to happen. However persoanlly I think this scene is tantamount to Jai taking advantage of Bani. Its been shown that Jai is not very sure about Bani's feelings for him. hence he's been acting like an ass, shouting at her, breaking her heart etc etc.....Where hence now is he sure of her feelings??

Isn't that some kind of imposing his will on her....Just because he wants it, he assumes she wants it too?

Agreed he doesn't know that she's been drugged but he's not a fool that he doesnt realize she's not in her right senses? He's treated her like a punch bag, never trusted her, belittles her and her position as his wife at every other instance and yet he expects her to acquiese now???

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agreed that he isnt sure about his feelings for bani but right then at that moment they both will be following their hearts which says aloud that they feel for each other strongly............

I completely beg to differ....Jai has always known what Bani has felt for him...Her fears, her apprhensions, her awkwardness, her pain...and now her love...It is Bani who has never been sure of Jai's feelings for her~!

Also, as everyone has mentioned, Jai has no clue that Bani has been drugged and hence is not fully in her senses...Whatever he does will be on good faith and rightly assuming that even Bani wants to take their relationship to the next level....And he is not wrong, really!

Also, if Bani is still in her senses to assess her feelings for Jai and come back home alone, she cannot be that drugged...but yes, the relaxant or whatever crap that Roshni mixed in the drink is surely affecting Bani's thinking...I am not sure if Bani was in her senses, she would been quite inhibited, the way she always is with Jai!

But whatever the case, Jai's ethics are not wrong...He is not forcing himself on Bani...But yes, the next day, there could be a few misunderstandings, considering that the after effects of the drug might leave a hangover in Bani and she won't remember exactly how it all started...while Jai would be fully aware.....

Dunno actually, let us wait and watch!

Cheers,

MT

i agree Mt and Jai is too much of a man to take advantage of his wife. If he wanted, he could ahve done that long ago 😕

i think both of them want to cement their relation. its just that the drug will make Bani more relaxed 😉

Originally posted by: mistletoe

I completely beg to differ....Jai has always known what Bani has felt for him...Her fears, her apprhensions, her awkwardness, her pain...and now her love...It is Bani who has never been sure of Jai's feelings for her~!

Also, as everyone has mentioned, Jai has no clue that Bani has been drugged and hence is not fully in her senses...Whatever he does will be on good faith and rightly assuming that even Bani wants to take their relationship to the next level....And he is not wrong, really!

Also, if Bani is still in her senses to assess her feelings for Jai and come back home alone, she cannot be that drugged...but yes, the relaxant or whatever crap that Roshni mixed in the drink is surely affecting Bani's thinking...I am not sure if Bani was in her senses, she would been quite inhibited, the way she always is with Jai!

But whatever the case, Jai's ethics are not wrong...He is not forcing himself on Bani...But yes, the next day, there could be a few misunderstandings, considering that the after effects of the drug might leave a hangover in Bani and she won't remember exactly how it all started...while Jai would be fully aware.....

Dunno actually, let us wait and watch!

Cheers,

MT

You did it MT, finally u did it. I was wondering which one will be in a awkward condition the next morning. We can't blame Bani if she feel shocked, because with only a life which gave her humilitations and pain she doesn't in full sense expect something so good for her even from Jai, even though she knows he has changed a bit. But she won't have a full free will to expect him to be so close to her heart, at least so soon. Now as you said there is no ethical crossing. for, Jai he already silently learned her feeling or assumed that by the day one firing from her (bucket...water..rosh...😉) and especially after hearing her crying out her heart... he doesn't need any proof that it is the real hurt and it is love for him... i only wish EK keep her twisting around them not between them....

same here yaar... i dont want roshniJE to tapke there... i soooo want them to b on their own..