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Posted: 19 years ago
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Why is that men are so confusing to understand.... 😳

Have u lot noticed when jai…gives bani a lecture …. And always tends to refer to the fact, that why can't she (bani) see his pain and grief and why is she always concerned for her sisters more than him….

Well …I find that coming out of jai's mouth rather annoying as he hardly cares for bani… he's always insulting and degrading her………doesn't he notice her pain and grief …. ((Thus he still expects bani to be loyal towards him)) Besides all that …. Poor bani still goes through the hassle of cooking for him…and preparing his bedtime clothes for him…. 😆

The other thing that annoys me is that…if jai doesn't treat bani as a wife…then why does he use this as an authority to insult her bani… 😭 e.g." I show u what a husband can do…" Lolz

I honestly think jai needs to sit down in relaxed mode and think about his damn life rationally and logically…because like that he won't get anywhere…

And then that ranveer… why is on bani case again…. When it was jai who insulted jigs…. I swear men are so weird… they always pick on the weak target… bani needs to play her game properly now ... her life seems to have to edge at the moment…poor thing is dependant on jai…who's doesn't give a toss about her…

I know everything will change ….

But I have noticed that is ekta's serials the main female Protagonist... life is like living in hell… and therefore they have a depressing life… so that makes me think that maybe bani is one of them characters who will always suffer and she will have no dazzling future…

lolz..p.s. people i don't know why... i am being so negative today i think ... its Because 2 other ekta shows really got to me this week…. E.g. KYPH…where me favourite character couldn't control his angry and he brutally and physically abused his wifes best mate…and then KA…in that drama me favourite character died leaving his wife all depressed…

Thus I came to a conclusion that ekta can not see her serial actors happy…

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Posted: 19 years ago
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it's in every ekta drama where the girl cries and the boys are in charge, i dont know why but it bothers me too

btw, ur not the only one mad abt the Sheetal thing
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Posted: 19 years ago
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oh love..i know exactly how u feel(ur depressed mood that is)i miss kavya too 😭 😭 .
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Posted: 19 years ago
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this is usual in ekta's serials
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well maybe her life is really depressing so she thought she will make everyone's life depressing in the drama 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Simz, I so agree with you! Men always tend to pick up the weakest target when they cannot vent out their frustration! 😡

Jai overall is a wonderful character, I absolutely adore him...but yes, his behaviour towards Bani borders on the boorish these days! He is making Bani a target of his ire simply because there is no one else in sight! Pia is out of his life and as of now he is not interested in settling scores with Pushkar....so, who is the easiest target...his young, pushed into a corner and submissive wife!

But somewhere it is Bani's mistake also...who has told her to keep quiet? Jai has only forced her to stay in the marriage, he hasn't forced her to "be" or "act" as his wife...he can never do that! So why does Bani cook for her husband's guests? Why does she prefer coming home and eating with her husband? Why does she wait for him to come back to the room and then go off to sleep? Why does she keep defending him in front of all and sundry? Jai can see Bani's concern and affection for him and that is why he is hurting her all the more! If Bani was indifferent and cold towards Jai, he would have failed in his attempt to make her miserable! But Jai succeeds in hurting Bani, because she is a willing target! 😔

Have you notice how Jigyasa and Ranveer never seem to affect Bani the way Jai affects her? Both Jigs and Ranveer create more problems and insult her much badly than Jai does, but Bani is completley oblivous to them and is least bothered....but Jai has to just give her the silent treatment and she becomes heart-broken! 😔 Jai has to just shout on her and she gets tears in her eyes...he has to just bully her and she gets scared out of her wits, Jai has to get drunk and look desolate and she gets completly grief-stricken at his state!

Both are to blame equally....Jai for being such a pig to Bani and Bani for being the sacrifical goat to Jai's butchering!

Eeeks, I hope I made some sense here! 😳

Love,

MT
Edited by mistletoe - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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same as usual leading lady cries all the time and fights for her family
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Posted: 19 years ago
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awww cheers MT...made me feeel much better...watchin ekta shows i really had it today...but u made it sound clear....


both r 2 b blamed!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😊 Is there a way .. Kekta Can read the posts on this forum ... or maybe join the Forum ...?
Wish we could Interview her ...
Channel Moderators .. Can that be done ... we have some serios Issues .. to argue out with Her ... 😃
Yeh Kekta Bhi Na.... 😆

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