What about Tanuja n Tanya Relation? - Page 2

Originally posted by: B-onesie

Divya, you have asked for views so I am sharing my humble opinion with you.

I have
thought a lot about this and I hope you guys will bear with me.

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<p>I feel the
interactions between Tany and Tanuja are totally justified as it is. My greatest fear is for Tanya in all of
this. She stands to lose the only mother
she has ever known. And no matter what the
inherent character of Netra is, she was a good and loving mother and Tany loves
her. And for any child such a huge change in their life will cause emotional
turmoil.

Tanuja once
again is so desperate to protect everyone at the cost of herself. She wants to prevent Abhishek from getting
hurt by Natasha's new found love for her Mr. Handsome. And she is trying to keep Rishi away from her
to protect Rishi's family, not hers. And
of course, if she had to encourage a more intimate relationship with Tanya,
then there would be more reason for Rishi to come into her life. And even now, with each meeting you can feel
her resolve wavering.

Rishi has a
reason to bond with Natasha as in his mind she is his daughter as she is Tanuja's. For him they are already a family. He might regret the comment he made to Tanya
that he loves her the most in the future when Natasha and Tanuja become part of
their life.

Rishi is one
track minded. He is focused on only one
thing. Getting Tanuja back. Yet he does not tell her his true
relationship with Netra? This I battle
to comprehend. I think once he stops behaving like an
lovesick teenager, sits her down in a mature manner and discusses things
calmly, she will also divulge what she has been keeping inside for 7
years. But instead he walks away or
manhandles her when she says something he doesn't like. Yes, this speaks to the passionate love they
have for each other and makes for great viewing, but as everyone agrees, it is
going around in circles.

The other
thing that bothers me is Natasha saying she likes Rishi more. That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever
heard. Her father (yes Abhishek is her
father in every sense, other than biological) is a loving father and has always
put her first. This is why she is so
wonderfully confident, to the point that she can be quite a little brat, but
the cutest brat ever. For a 6/8 year old
her daddy will be her number one.
Especially one that gives her everything as AK does, even though she is
steadily growing attached to her Mr. Handsome.
Hopefully in the long run she stands to gain 2 loving fathers that remains
in her life for the duration.

I know AK
loves Nats blindly. But ultimately, she
is not his possession, a business acquisition that he has made. She does not
belong to him. It is not realistic for him to expect for them
to live in the status quo forever.
Either he would want to move on or Tanuja would. And as parents, Tanuja and AK should have
started preparing Nats for the eventuality.
Like adoptive parents do when they explain about birth parents to their
adoptive kids. I hope that they have
done so in both Natasha and Tanya's case.
This will make the transition so much easier.

That's what
we all want as Kasam fans, for the 4some to be one big happy, healthy
family. And that might mean to allow
both Netra and AK a place in the family as well.

Just my 2
cents worth on the matter.

Originally posted by: Divya333

Thank you B-onesie for such a beautiful reply. Agree with you, you explained every matter clearly. Every Kasamian wanted to happens the things in the way you discussed above.

Originally posted by: Tessaloni

One track mind indeed! he has such tunneled focus that he is not accounting for the terrible position in which he is placing her. In her mind he is married, and shares a daughter with Netra. As much as his advances have her weakening her resolve to keep her distance, and as much as the stubborn love she feel's for him despite the "betrayal" which caused her to leave pulls her ever closer to him; still, she is never selfish and keeps fighting him both for his family, and also for Nats and AK's peace. As long as they don't address that very glaring elephant and talk about their "marital" status and the parentage of their children, they will keep moving in circles.

but as long as Rishi keeps his promise to his darling Netra about not revealing the real status of their relationship, he ultimately gives Netra the power to do just as she wants. As long is Tanuja remains ignorant of the truth, and is still haunted by his betrayal be it not the case, she will not have any reason to reveal the truth, or do anything about getting back together with him.

for now she is doing her best just to be cordial with his family, especially his daughter because she cannot encourage any bonds with her for the reasons you stated, and to which I wholly agree. Whether Tanya turns negative or not, it will be justified because as a child her foundation will be shaken, and she will be losing the only mother she knows and has no reason to reproach. but let's see how things unfold...

well as for Nats and AK, I also felt that it is rather unnatural for her to prefer Mr Handsome above the father who so completely adores and does everything for her. especially because it is a bond of such long duration that it cannot be broken so easily that she would prefer RSB regardless of the relationship she shares with him. they have a very strong and close bond which CVs should not forget to account for...

And yes, AK cannot be so possessive about Nats as to be threatening Tanuja that for her he is willing to go to any extent against Tanuja, even betray her. Tanuja trusting him as a friend at the moment does not realize the terrible danger of those words. Yes he loves Nats but how can he claim to love her more than her own mother who gave her life and sacrificed so much for her? His attitude in that respect is not healthy and makes me uneasy for Tanuja. he really has to realize that Nats is his daughter but she is not his possession, and he has to act for her happiness and best interest in whatever situation.

I am hoping that CVs will handle the sensibilities of both girls and all concerned with due sensitivity and not spoil either of their characters in the process... I am beginning to doubt that judging from the precap however, but here is to hoping 😕

Originally posted by: Suntala

Once again you are so pinpointing Tessa! Yes many serious issues are to be resolved but let's see how CVs handle it

Originally posted by: Divya333

Well I dont think CVs will handle those sensitive issues carefully. In order to gain trp they will spoil any one of the character. I dont have trust on CVs. But llets hope for best.

Originally posted by: Tessaloni

Straight to the heart of the matter like always Honey-Bee? 😆

One track mind indeed! he has such tunneled focus that he is not accounting for the terrible position in which he is placing her. In her mind he is married, and shares a daughter with Netra. As much as his advances have her weakening her resolve to keep her distance, and as much as the stubborn love she feel's for him despite the "betrayal" which caused her to leave pulls her ever closer to him; still, she is never selfish and keeps fighting him both for his family, and also for Nats and AK's peace. As long as they don't address that very glaring elephant and talk about their "marital" status and the parentage of their children, they will keep moving in circles.

but as long as Rishi keeps his promise to his darling Netra about not revealing the real status of their relationship, he ultimately gives Netra the power to do just as she wants. As long is Tanuja remains ignorant of the truth, and is still haunted by his betrayal be it not the case, she will not have any reason to reveal the truth, or do anything about getting back together with him.

for now she is doing her best just to be cordial with his family, especially his daughter because she cannot encourage any bonds with her for the reasons you stated, and to which I wholly agree. Whether Tanya turns negative or not, it will be justified because as a child her foundation will be shaken, and she will be losing the only mother she knows and has no reason to reproach. but let's see how things unfold...

well as for Nats and AK, I also felt that it is rather unnatural for her to prefer Mr Handsome above the father who so completely adores and does everything for her. especially because it is a bond of such long duration that it cannot be broken so easily that she would prefer RSB regardless of the relationship she shares with him. they have a very strong and close bond which CVs should not forget to account for...

And yes, AK cannot be so possessive about Nats as to be threatening Tanuja that for her he is willing to go to any extent against Tanuja, even betray her. Tanuja trusting him as a friend at the moment does not realize the terrible danger of those words. Yes he loves Nats but how can he claim to love her more than her own mother who gave her life and sacrificed so much for her? His attitude in that respect is not healthy and makes me uneasy for Tanuja. he really has to realize that Nats is his daughter but she is not his possession, and he has to act for her happiness and best interest in whatever situation.

I am hoping that CVs will handle the sensibilities of both girls and all concerned with due sensitivity and not spoil either of their characters in the process... I am beginning to doubt that judging from the precap however, but here is to hoping 😕