Just a thought...

ok im beginning to get headaches after every epi i watch...

wat with shiv soooo obviously in love with ipsh and vice versa...mayb and i say this with all seriuosness...mayb it should become ipshy n shiv.....coz they r very very much in love....

i mean com on lets all b honest...

this is the kind of love story we all want to see...(i could give names of other characters we all support in other serials) who defy the whole world to b together... and we accept them with all thier lying n cheating..we redeem them...thier love which survives all odds..

i do get the whole fact that the angle of putting gauri in the line of fire delibratly is a major bad thing to do... but we forgive worse...(again examples abound)..and im not saying gauri should die... but i thin k the main love story should become about shiv n ipshy and not gauri n shiv

if this is the way its supposed to b...then it would seem really really stupid that shiv could just fall for gauri....no matter how nice or sweet or caring u r..love doesnt happen that way...shiv looks tormented every time he lays eyes on ipshy.... he feels really guilty about gauri....wat kind of love springs from guilt?? not the kind that i would like for gauri..

ok i,v rambled enough...

ps...just for those who r gonna say that since IQ isnt shiv..then it doesnt matter who shiv ends up with(i have seen countless posts on that)...all i can say..it doesnt matter who the actor is....coz the character is wat its all about...and rite now...at this point in time....im feeling more for shiv n ipshy then i am for gauri....

see the way the show is directed, we are suppose to sympathise with gauri . and not with shiv and ips as much. i agree if the show was directed from ips nad shivs story, gauri would come across as someone who spereated out beloved lovers and we would not like her

its all about HOW the story is told, not so much what the story is.

hmmm u know yesterday ekta treated the whole thingy in such a way that we sympathize wid shiv and ipshi ...however still wat is done is wrong, every action shld have a limit and if sum1 deliberately takes an innconet life for the sake of their luv... 😡 , it is a heinous act and how can such ppl live w/o guilt is amazing.....plus in luv one must learn to sacrifice not take sum1s life!!!! 😡 😡

Originally posted by: julle1234567890

see the way the show is directed, we are suppose to sympathise with gauri . and not with shiv and ips as much. i agree if the show was directed from ips nad shivs story, gauri would come across as someone who spereated out beloved lovers and we would not like her

its all about HOW the story is told, not so much what the story is.

Totally agree on that... It all depends on the point of view, and the telling of the story... This is supposed to be Gauri's story, Shiv n Gauri's story, so noone is supposed to come between them. Yes, I suppose a lot of people to sympathize with Ipshi and Shiv (me amongst them), and I guess thats what the creatives want too, characters that are grey- but this story aint Ipshita's... So I stand with Shiv n Gauri....

Originally posted by: julle1234567890

see the way the show is directed, we are suppose to sympathise with gauri . and not with shiv and ips as much. i agree if the show was directed from ips nad shivs story, gauri would come across as someone who spereated out beloved lovers and we would not like her

its all about HOW the story is told, not so much what the story is.

could hav fooled me!!!😆 honestly....i feel more for shiv n ipshy then i do for gauri...the creatives need to either cut down on the eye locking tormented lover scenes of shiv-ipshy (they make me want to lock them up in a room together somewhere..and send gauri off on a world trip😉😆)...or they need to get gauri's act together.....

ps...after yesterday wired def-not-how-we-all-wanted consumation epi....im feeling bad for gauri too....and im still having difficulty in beliving that shiv will fall for gauri just because she loves him so much...coz in that case its not the kind of love gauris deserves...i guess i want shiv to love gauri the way he loves ipshy...totally.. and with the same intensity....and with the same or even more amount of devotion....

it has to b all or nothing..!!

sigh😕 mayb its just me...im in the feel-bad-for-everyone mood...😛

U know even I had the same thought yesterday, i think the whole engagement thing made u feel bad for Ippshitta, I think in such a situation, Shiv should tell Gauri the full truth..and then it is will be easier to decide who he should be with, b/c we don't really know how Gauri will feel once she knows the entire truthr....[/QUOTE]

yeah...but the way they r showing her rite now...i wouldnt b surprised if she still stiks by his side....

plz creatives ....give gauri some gumption ... i cant bear much more of gauri's i -luv-u-shiv-and-i-dont-care-if-u-dont-want-to-die-in-ur-arms ....scenes...