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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey Everyone😊

Yesterday, Shiv said to Gauri that it is not possible for one to forgett their first love, and that Shashank was her first love and she will be happy with him...and then Gauri confessed her love for Shiv to him. Now I was wondering if you all agree with Shiv that one can never forget their first love....or do you think that one can truly fall in love again and be happy. Also do you think Gauri actually loves Shiv or b/c she is married to him and he is being kind to her she thinks she is in love with him? And what of Shiv, he says in is in love with the girl in the picture, but he never even knew her...do you all believe we can fall in love just in an instant?

Looking forward to your responses...😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
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SORRY THIS IS LONG 😆

the girl in d picture has to be ipshita...becos of the way shiv said to ipshita 'u no the person i love is in the picture i hanged in my room'....trying to make iphita feel better...as im sure he realised its getting to her...all this marriage drama. anyway we saw that too...wen she spoke to anupam!

and as for th first question....ye i do think its hard to forget first love. if shiv n ipshita ever were in love, den he mite find it hard to forget ipshita, but i dnt tink gauri truely loved shashank. she only knew him 2 weeks, n she gulable, der4 she might hav thought its love at 1st, but mot anymore, shes over him.

ur 2nd question was can u fall in love d second time round? well i believe u can! if the second person has something or lots of things dat lacks or is different to the first person, den YES u can fall in love with dat person too.... 😳 THEREFORE SHIV WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN...WITH GAURI 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i don't believe with shiv.love at first sight is not possible.it means that u are just fascinated by the looks of the person and one cannot spend whole lifetime just by looks.according to shiv he saw that girl when he was sixteen & yet after 8 to 9 yrs he still remembers her which is not possible in real life(but in ekta's serial everything is possible)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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yes and no at the begin you might feel that you cant forget your first love but when someone else comes in to your life helps you to live your lives, takes of you every needs, understand you, respect you etc you can because then you might be in love with him. ❤️ 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Love is a very sunjective topic, so each person would shape his or her opinion based on their individual experinces. I do believe in love at first sight, but I dont mind giving it a second look. Love at first sight is instantaneous, so it is surely based on physical attributes.

As for Gauri, I remember that during the jungle scene she confessed that she wasnt sure if she loved Shashank but she did trust him a lot. So Shashank wasnt her first love in true sense. Now Gauri is married to Shiv. Indian marriages are a very strong bond, and in an attempt to save the marriage Gauri is falling for Shiv, especially now that Shiv's attitude has mellowed down and he shows genuine care and concern for her.

It is absolutely possible to fall in love and be happy again. Even is Shiv loves the girl in the picture (for past 10 years, which is a little too far-fetched, anyways)the important thing is that she isnt around him physically (assuming that the picture is not of Ipshita)and now with Gauri around, he will probably learn to appreciate her (which he already does now)and eventually this care and concern would give way to love.

Lets not forget that is a soap opera by Ekta, and anything is possible. In her world there is no room for logic and reasoning :)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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yep In the jungle secne Gauri said to shiv she doesn't know if she loved shashank but for shiv her love is outrite open she feels no shame, no fear, no expectations from it, it's just plain simple L O V E. but shiv's love is all complicated that is if it is actually love.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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personally i dnt believe in love at first sight which is how shashank fell in love wiv gauri but as for falling in love a second tyme then i think tht its totally possible bcos u c the mistakes made in the first tyme u fell in love wiv sum 1 n then learn from those the 2nd tyme rwnd...its possible 2 4get ur first love bcos u seek wat was missin from tht person/relationship n wen u find it u wnt want 2 giv it up

plus wen u fall in love for the first tyme then u r sort of naive as u dnt know wat ur expecting or wat u want outta the relationship but the second tyme it will b clearer as u'll know why ur first relationship faild n will luk 4 tht in a different person

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Iqbaladdict

yep In the jungle secne Gauri said to shiv she doesn't know if she loved shashank but for shiv her love is outrite open she feels no shame, no fear, no expectations from it, it's just plain simple L O V E. but shiv's love is all complicated that is if it is actually love.

i totally n 100% agree wiv u 😊

Edited by Zoe89 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zoe89

i totally n 100% agree wiv u 😊

Me too

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahena

SORRY THIS IS LONG 😆

the girl in d picture has to be ipshita...becos of the way shiv said to ipshita 'u no the person i love is in the picture i hanged in my room'....trying to make iphita feel better...as im sure he realised its getting to her...all this marriage drama. anyway we saw that too...wen she spoke to anupam!

and as for th first question....ye i do think its hard to forget first love. if shiv n ipshita ever were in love, den he mite find it hard to forget ipshita, but i dnt tink gauri truely loved shashank. she only knew him 2 weeks, n she gulable, der4 she might hav thought its love at 1st, but mot anymore, shes over him.

ur 2nd question was can u fall in love d second time round? well i believe u can! if the second person has something or lots of things dat lacks or is different to the first person, den YES u can fall in love with dat person too.... 😳 THEREFORE SHIV WILL FALL IN LOVE AGAIN...WITH GAURI 😳




I don't think to make her feel better he said he loves the girl in the picture.Otherwise he wouldn't have said he doesn't know what he feels for gauri,atleast would have corrected by saying there is nothing between him and gauri.

I think ipshita loves shiv and shiv knows that .That may be the reason he is worried ,that he knew ipshita wouldn't agree for that marriage as she loves him.That's what i think.I believe this becaz he would have told gauri in the jumgle before he dies about ipshita ,if would have loved her.He would have told her he and ipshita were in love and had to marry gauri out of force.A person would never lie before he dies,becaz he doesn't lose anything.

It would be ridiculous if they show shiv and ipshita were in love.Its ok to show that ipshita was in love with shiv and shiv told her that he can't love her beacz of the potrait girl.


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