Do you agree with Shiv - Page 2

Originally posted by: Saregama_fan

Hey Everyone😊

Yesterday, Shiv said to Gauri that it is not possible for one to forgett their first love, and that Shashank was her first love and she will be happy with him...and then Gauri confessed her love for Shiv to him. Now I was wondering if you all agree with Shiv that one can never forget their first love....or do you think that one can truly fall in love again and be happy. Also do you think Gauri actually loves Shiv or b/c she is married to him and he is being kind to her she thinks she is in love with him? And what of Shiv, he says in is in love with the girl in the picture, but he never even knew her...do you all believe we can fall in love just in an instant?

Looking forward to your responses...😊

ok before i start lemme tell u guys beware its a topic on love that to philosiphical questions n i can go on n on on

ok so starting well i believe true love is done only once n that is difficuly to forget but that dosnt mean people cant fall in love again or falling in love again makes the characterless sometimes due to turn of events we loose our love but then we can just give up life saying that i have lost my love thats unpractical but i still stand by my statement true love is donne just once

as for gauris case shashank was similar to her just how she thought so the fact that shashank fitted her dream guy frame ie the qualities she looked in for for made her like shashank she gradually became frends n trusted him the fact that she was gettin married actually made her believe that her liking or infatuation is love but when she spent time with shiv she started understanding him started accepting him as he is she fell in love with them

now comming to shiv sometimes in a crowd of thousands u see one beutiful face n ur dumbstruck there may be nothin special but just the simplicity or just the depth in his/her eyes may take ur attention away this one u are not able to forget people n what shiv does to the potray is not love its his admiration he admires the girl in the potray which he has mistaken to be love as he never again found the same same depth or probably the same simplicity in anyone else eyes or face 😳

thirdly above all this what i strongly believe in is destiny life never stops even when u are surrounded by 1000 problems u have to find a solution fight against it running away from the situtaion n thinking that life is over i no solution

all that happens happens for good if not now u will realise it later n if ur destined to be hurt in love u will unintentionally knowing the person doesnt love fall for him /her n hurt urself thats what gauri is doing in between

if ur destined to get your love even after 19 years u wont forget him /her n u will get ur love n if u are destined to to suffer in love u might try hard but u wont forget that person even afetr years n just suffer alone

destiny is not humans hands it is only in gods hand n he only can decide when our destiny is to be changed

for me love is unconditional n true love is only once in life n as i said above all what i believe in is god n destiny

ok that was my lecture on love n its side effects 😉😆

hope dont bore u much

love

anu

Well for some people first love comes when they were teenagers. The first love is only the first lesson to learn, deep inside u never forget your first love, but moves on with ur life. Its possible to fall in love again, But the question is, was Shasank Gauri's first real love?

First of all Gauri will never fall for Shashank, if she just meet him on a street or something like that, but he was the guy she was supposed to get engaged with and marry him. Therefore she begins to like him, trust him, have lots of expectation for their future and maybe develop feelings for him, but I don't think he was her "real" first love.
The situation with Shiv also almost the same, but different kind of, she never dreamed about marry him but she ended up marry him. She has seeing his both face, evil and good, and then begins love him for that person she think he is ( bcoz she don't know about the raaz ) without any kind of expectations from him, so her love for him is real.

Shiv's first love was to early in his teenage. He don't know the girl, but fall for her in first sight. Its is possible, but I don't believe that. Shiv don't know yet that he has already fall for Gauri, all the guilty feelings, want her to be happy with someone else, his concern for her, all this is love.

Anything is possible with love.

I think we can fall in love again, however, we don't forget the ppl we love, does not matter if it first or last love

Gauri never loved shashank she just trusted him, she acutally loves shiv

Shiv loves gauri just does not know it he will know it when he finally meets the girl in the picture again

very nice discussion 👏

wht i think is tht

gauri always wanted a husband like shashank and prayed never to get a husband like shiv. so when shashank came to her life, he was her picture perfect husband type and was happy and she misunderstood her happiness to be love and when he left and she got married to shiv, she decided to make her marriage work.

she started off the real bad side of shiv and was able to see the good side of him which he never shows others. and realised wht a good human being he is, and fell in love with the good person in him, while shashank was like her dream come true.

and i think this is wht will happend with shiv also, he might have wanted a wife like maybe ipshitha and might have an affair with his picture perfect wife and might later realise tht, wht he felt was not love, and his true loveis gauri.

Originally posted by: kvvr

Love is a very sunjective topic, so each person would shape his or her opinion based on their individual experinces. I do believe in love at first sight, but I dont mind giving it a second look. Love at first sight is instantaneous, so it is surely based on physical attributes.

As for Gauri, I remember that during the jungle scene she confessed that she wasnt sure if she loved Shashank but she did trust him a lot. So Shashank wasnt her first love in true sense. Now Gauri is married to Shiv. Indian marriages are a very strong bond, and in an attempt to save the marriage Gauri is falling for Shiv, especially now that Shiv's attitude has mellowed down and he shows genuine care and concern for her.

It is absolutely possible to fall in love and be happy again. Even is Shiv loves the girl in the picture (for past 10 years, which is a little too far-fetched, anyways)the important thing is that she isnt around him physically (assuming that the picture is not of Ipshita)and now with Gauri around, he will probably learn to appreciate her (which he already does now)and eventually this care and concern would give way to love.

Lets not forget that is a soap opera by Ekta, and anything is possible. In her world there is no room for logic and reasoning :)

I agree with this analysis...

Shiv is thinking that he loves the girl in the portrait. But the reality is he is being attracted to Gauri's personality and charectaristics. Therefore the bond between Shiv-Gauri will be stronger than the physical attributes. It takes time for physical attraction to fade away which is more true than with women... No offence to men :-)

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