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Posted: 9 years ago
#81
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Originally posted by: swaron19

Guys good news!! I have found out who this so called "source" thing is. You want to know? It's our own MIND. Yes , you heard it right.. Our mind generates millions of thoughts in a day. And most of them are delusional ones. When going through emotional turmoil or strong emotions like sad, angry, ego all the negative thoughts, our mind weakens and tend to create more delusions connecting all the thing we read, feel or experience. And we all tend to fall for it.

We today live in such a society where we have learned that what we say and do is always right. We listen less, and whatever we listen we tend to interpret it according to our own comfort. We mold things according to our comfort cause we can't accept change and we don't like negations.. and u know change is the only constant thing. NO matter what, change will make sure it is accepted.. whether you go against it, or accept it peacefully by accepting it or by changing your line. But in the end CHANGE will only win.

And best medicine for it is TIME and PATIENCE. Give time to yourself and everyone around you. Have patience to understand change. everything will make sense in the end.😊

Today, We have become so fragile that we can't handle a truthful word or action against us or to be precise "our own delusional world created by us". And this results in all this upheaval.

Why doing so much of bhashan baaji.. cause I'm feeling everyone here(fans , actors, makers) is going through this stress.

Kyy S2 cast: -Niti, the girl was being strong till now. But as human nature is she is not able to handle all this pressure now. Her (though not only hers' every casts members) photos and videos make everyone think they are so happy together, but they are feeling the pressure, creating mental agony and her new twitter statement clarifies it.

Yuvi retweeting all positive responses to tackle all the pressure.

Vebha stating positive quotes to make her calm down..

karan making a friendly atmosphere to help reduce stress.

Utkarsh karan and yuvraj making videos to enjoy themselves and make a way away from the entire negative atmosphere.

Charlie reacted to negativity cause of all pressure. But after her bashing she's now keeping mum.

Krissan is being less active.

They all are happy working but are also in lot of stress feeling pressurized.. Each day when their new episode is telecasted it creates more of the negativity then positive post. Each day is a exam for them.

Parth:- I felt he really got overconfident with all the appreciation he got.. He was not able to handle all this. But don't we all, at some stage get egoistic and overconfident when we get praised a lot. It happens to everyone.. but one bad setback from life and we all get to know what's our place in this world. Yes we are talented in our own way but we get to know there are many other talented people outside. And the only thing we can do to survive in this competition is to stay grounded have patience and keep working towards our goal. That's it... we can't do anything else apart from it.

I too have gone thru that phase. My parents words made me change my perspective. A correct guidance and support is must at this stage.

He is at this stage now, he has lost his projects, he misses his lost love, .he's also facing all the pressure... man buck up this is just a phase and this setback will make you learn how life works in real. And how only you have to adjust and compromise with the change. World will not change for one person.

Learn the lesson. And again start working like a beginner.. just keep on learning and work hard. Don't compromise in case of your goals and dreams, but do adjust with people around you. In the end they only will be around you in your hard times.😊

Fans:-

lead actor : - yes I miss lead person..

Fans :- aww they are in love.

co actors: - I miss that person.

Fans: -aww they are great friends.

lead actor: - takes stand for someone.

Fans :- ohh he/she is writing it in someone's influence.

Actor: - It's just my decision

Fans: - he/ she's taking all their blame.. oh man so great are they.

Please don't let sources' play games on you. We people really carve for masala is everything.

But we forget For a character we are fighting with the real people and making them hurt.

A fan's responsibility is not only to praise the actor but to also pinpoint the wrong path they are following (in polite manner). And we don't know anything going behind the scene.. so please stop judging each and every person. Half truth or half lie.. anything is completely dangerous.

How could you do this? You have no right to leave a show? A show cannot continue without this person? They never understand our perspective only we understand them? Because of us only this show is running? Fans make a show successful.. But they completely have no idea what's going behind the show. The actors, producers, directors all have to work under which circumstances we are really clueless about it.

Media shows only one part of the truth and we shape that news according to our comfort.. which is all in all FAKE, and as I said half truth is more dangerous.

Fans are feeling stress cause they feel they are not being heard.. but in real everyone is familiar with the situation fans are in but in . but we don't know the actual circumstances they are dealing with.

just Don't use freedom for speech in wrong way.. You don't like something say you don't like.. But there's a way to say everything.. Atleast Be polite.

Have patience. And give time. Time will mend everything.. till then learn, discover and grow.😊

Stay positive. God bless you all.😊

P.S.: - OMG kitna saara likh diya😆saari baate jo bolni thi bol di.. 😆😆 but now I'm feeling relaxed.. 😃

State your opinion (in favour or against).. we all will peacefully discuss it. 😊



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awesome post gal

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nneeiill


so voicing against cyber bullying is moral policing..never thought like that before.anyways.


@topic maker : it was a brilliant post...forgot to say.



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Moral policing is not wrong
and very much needed in this scenario


Edited by Beba17 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: nneeiill


and may i ask who gave the right to trenders to mock others ??? trenders kare tho sab sahi baaki kare tho illogical..insensitive and what not
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even if parth comes back i still stand by that whatever happening is not healthy...
one day u bash aditya swamy...yes we can bash..but hey mind u we r the trenders no one should bash us..its copyrighted to us..whatever we tweet is not even considered bashing.its all MaNan HEA re..

next the source says it karishma the villain..she becomes the agla bakra for trenders..hey we r not bashing her ...we r just mollycoddling her with angry tweets for our MaNan HEA ..kyunki boss karishma ke vajah se hi tho manik gaya na..parth ka toh isme koi haath hi nahi hai..

next source utters that cast is villain..fir sab preach them. trenders say let us do what we want..but they dont apply the same rule to cast...its like bhai note likhne ka haq tho fans ka hai...how dare the cast write such notes...they should be making dubsmashes so that we can mock them..oh wait mocking is also our copyright..how dare some one else mock us


such a bful show..such bful memories..all being trashed and dragged just like that..matlab ki every tom dick and harry is target for not getting MaNan HEA except for the person who left..and if we point out this then we also become villains...


once upon a time i was proud of ky2 fandom.. not anymore...


WORD!!!

Between all these things my MaNan are no where to be seen Its all about blaming, bashing, finding new target every day!!!
I wonder how ll they be able to love manan(if at all Parth comes back), after hating "Nan" of manan and the actor playing it so much😕

And people want to answer bashing by bashing the opposite party.. There is no end to this!! Its just a WAR and ppl are uncertain about what they are fighting for..Sigh!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


WORD!!!

Between all these things my MaNan are no where to be seen Its all about blaming, bashing, finding new target every day!!!
I wonder how ll they be able to love manan(if at all Parth comes back), after hating "Nan" of manan and the actor playing it so much😕

And people want to answer bashing by bashing the opposite party.. There is no end to this!! Its just a WAR and ppl are uncertain about what they are fighting for..Sigh!!!


Also, point is, would NAN be able to give the same respect & Love to Manan that she used have

She has been ridiculed, bashed in the name of Manan

If I were She I wont be able to do that
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well Actors are what the viewers make them. It's all work for the actors and business for the makers and the channel. So yes, the timing does matter. The channel and the makers are the ones who need to deal with the supposed bashings thrown their way. Others advising is definitely moral policing.

How is the trend against Niti's show? She will be a part of the show even if the ML is there or not. People did not even expect the cast to respond to the trend. Parth responding or not is another matter. It's the channel and the makers who are being targeted. It's mainly about MaNan, Parth and the show. How does it become Anti-Niti? Now this is an Assumption as well, ain't it?

Any way, am not here to fight. Peace and Cheers.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .teddy.

@nneeiill : I am not a part of the trend and not supporting it either. I even doubt of there being any outcome out of this 'massive trending'. The fans are wrong in bashing. But the cast is also wrong in their ways of dealing with the fans. And it was wrong on the makers' part to continue the show with the same characters in the next season. Everyone's way of dealing with the things is different.

Besides, why should we tell anybody what to do and what not to. If people want to trend why not just let them do what they want to and see for themselves if they achieve whatever they want to. Why such moral policing on the Internet?


Why r u telling that cast should not promote??? Why r u telling ppl not do moral policing??? How can u even talk about RIGHT and WRONG when u r against the word MORAL??? Contradicting urself??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Beba17


Also, point is, would NAN be able to give the same respect & Love to Manan that she used have

She has been ridiculed, bashed in the name of Manan

If I were She I wont be able to do that


I don't know what Niti would do or what she is allowed to do(bcoz of contract).. But I definitely would have hated something which gave me nothing but hurt at the end and nullified my contribution. I do not even like it when my manager gets praised for my PPT.🥱😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .teddy.

Well Actors are what the viewers make them. It's all work for the actors and business for the makers and the channel. So yes, the timing does matter. The channel and the makers are the ones who need to deal with the supposed bashings thrown their way. Others advising is definitely moral policing.

How is the trend against Niti's show? She will be a part of the show even if the ML is there or not. People did not even expect the cast to respond to the trend. Parth responding or not is another matter. It's the channel and the makers who are being targeted. It's mainly about MaNan, Parth and the show. How does it become Anti-Niti? Now this is an Assumption as well, ain't it?

Any way, am not here to fight. Peace and Cheers.


I don't think we r fighting here 😆. everyone has their own perspective to look into this.
I'm replying this just for the bold part. did u see the comments in all these trends. it says to boycott the show as P aka Manik is not there.they ridicule the people who r still watching s2 as if its some crime. isnt it against her show where she always tries to giv her best which she luv the most? doesn't hav she rt to stand by her own show or CVs when they need the support most? if she doesn't stand for her show in its low wht is the rt time then?
I saw tweets which say tht why Niti doesn't support this trend as its for MaNan? u r saying to boycott the show and shuts it down if P doesn't come back n u r expecting her to support this activity? r u kidding me?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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may be all in IF dont know but majority of the trenders address karishma as Luchi and yuvraj as Chuha while trending for manan hea..matlab this guy toh just landed in KY2 and he got name already 😆rest i donno but its fair i guess coz after all its for MaNan and it should not be considered bashing or mocking or name calling !!!!
P.S bashing a channel and bashing a person does make a difference.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


I don't know what Niti would do or what she is allowed to do(bcoz of contract).. But I definitely would have hated something which gave me nothing but hurt at the end and nullified my contribution. I do not even like it when my manager gets praised for my PPT.🥱😆


tell me abt it.. I hate this the most I guess 😆

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