Kaisi Yeh Yaariyan Episode Discussion Thread 13 - Page 77

Originally posted by: MaNanFF

Honestly i don't want cherry popping and all. Nandini is sucha cute kiddo and compassion, love and care can also be shown without cherry popping!

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Hehe, yeah Alya just gave Manik a chance to break up. The goons things doesn't even matter. (it's like in episode 38 Nandini tells Manik that he isn't angry with DhrulYa because Alya was the one to send the goons, but he's angry that they hid it from him). The why and how doesn't matter. Manik just wanted out, even if he didn't admit it. Deep down he knew that Alya wasn't the one.

Originally posted by: Rutu01

Thats the reason dhrulya are in a mess ...their hormones did the talking first rather than them ...In manan ..nandu did the smart thing - friendship phase ...she slowed it down ...made sure they got to know each other first

Originally posted by: Rutu01

If aliya hadnt given a chance manik would have been the first to break up ...remember diwali night ...nandu didnt wanted to take things further coz she believed manik n aliya were still together ...So for anything further to happen with nandini manik would have broken up with aliya.

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

It's both/

He is sexually experienced but not emotionally experienced.

He knows how to 'do it', and he knows how to keep safe etc etc. I'm pretty sure he knows how to build up and all that stuff. But that's only with Alya. Alya and Manik would have learnt and become used to each other's bodies. But with Nandini, it's different.

She's inexperienced; and so Manik is automatically inexperienced with dealing with someone who has never had sex before. The emotional aspect for Nandini and even for Manik is something he wouldn't have experienced. He may know how to have sex, but he will have to learn about Nandini and how she feels about it.

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Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Exactly right! It was their hormones that did the talking. Dhruv with his lack of experience and Alya with her experience. They just let their hormones speak. And then shit happened.

I kind of like the ideas the writers have gone for both couples (whether intended or not). Alya and Manik are both experienced in sex, Dhruv and Nandini aren't. And yet, both are on different sides. I guess what the writers were saying was that sex is fine, but both people should talk about it and should discuss about sex and their intimacy,their relationship between getting serious. And honestly, (IF ONLY THEY DID THIS PROPERLY) this could be such a big lesson. Never have sex until you are sure you're ready, that doesn't mean you have to be married or whatever, it just means that you should talk about it before doing it.

If only DhrulYa talked before their hormones took over, things would have been different. They should have talked about what they really wanted, whether or not this relationship was essentially a rebound or not. We never even got an insight into what Dhruv was thinking. This guy JUST lost his virginity. And Alya? She became intimate with the person she never thought she would.

I love Manan and I love how their relationship is developing. They're talking about it, they're experiencing it slowly. They're taking a step forward and if they like it, they'll take a further step or move back into the comfort zone. This is how a relationship should be. TALK and talk about what you feel, what you want. Don't do something and then regret it.

Originally posted by: MaNanFF

Whatever there was between Alya and Manik i still can't digest the fact that in initial few episodes Manik actually told Alya several times that he loves her and in episode no. 20 or something he went like LOVE is really a heavy word😕

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Exactly right! It was their hormones that did the talking. Dhruv with his lack of experience and Alya with her experience. They just let their hormones speak. And then shit happened.

I kind of like the ideas the writers have gone for both couples (whether intended or not). Alya and Manik are both experienced in sex, Dhruv and Nandini aren't. And yet, both are on different sides. I guess what the writers were saying was that sex is fine, but both people should talk about it and should discuss about sex and their intimacy,their relationship between getting serious. And honestly, (IF ONLY THEY DID THIS PROPERLY) this could be such a big lesson. Never have sex until you are sure you're ready, that doesn't mean you have to be married or whatever, it just means that you should talk about it before doing it.

If only DhrulYa talked before their hormones took over, things would have been different. They should have talked about what they really wanted, whether or not this relationship was essentially a rebound or not. We never even got an insight into what Dhruv was thinking. This guy JUST lost his virginity. And Alya? She became intimate with the person she never thought she would.

I love Manan and I love how their relationship is developing. They're talking about it, they're experiencing it slowly. They're taking a step forward and if they like it, they'll take a further step or move back into the comfort zone. This is how a relationship should be. TALK and talk about what you feel, what you want. Don't do something and then regret it.

Originally posted by: mishaarshi

The cvs will get back to it when they will start the aliya dep track ...but I still wonder if dhruv really loves aliya