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Posted: 10 years ago
@Sahar - They both got carried away. If Manik took his protector role too seriously , Dhruv also benefited from the "good image" Manik painted for him. He was forever the nice guy. With Manik letting him play the hero to victims enabled his need to feed on good too.
See Dhruv could let og of their friendship for a 3rd person's insecurity but Manik couldn't leave Dhruv even for his love - 3rd element. That is how Dhruv feels inferior too. Manik has always ended up being the Mahaan one in their friendship. A trait he isn't even aware of himself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Food and tunnel vision topics aka mindless drolling posts on one character helps you to overcome shallowness 🥱

my question, did the thing what nandu tried to say about he is best for her, no one else reached his brain? If yes then is he going to stop saying to dhruv that you are better for any girl over me always?
I know why he always say that to dhruv, but isn't it time to realize why nandu choose gadha over dhruv?
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See all the fab5 member are aware of Manik's protector thing, they never called on it because 1)- it helped them too . 2) They didn't want to make him feel unworthy 3) This worked for them and was a nice way of hiding their vulnerabilities behind Manik.
Dhruv has full right to rebel and rage, infact I love him for this , he is breaking from his own securities that go beyond Manik too. But when he questioned the intent thats where Nandini felt Manik wasn't wrong.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Genie

Yep definitely, their dynamics have always being on equal footing where mutual benefits are concerned. It's just the unfairness bit that is a bit heavier on Manik's end than Dhruv's if we consider the bigger picture.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: sadhanager.

Food and tunnel vision topics aka mindless drolling posts on one character helps you to overcome shallowness 🥱

my question, did the thing what nandu tried to say about he is best for her, no one else reached his brain? If yes then is he going to stop saying to dhruv that you are better for any girl over me always?
I know why he always say that to dhruv, but isn't it time to realize why nandu choose gadha over dhruv?


I do believe that it's about time for Manik to realize Nandini's WHY and his own WHY and Tie as well plus word it out loud to so that it can sink into him, and he realises that he cannot continue to be a good friend at the cost of Nandini Always.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@ genie
Dhruv's questioning Manik's intent - definitely wrong but not unfair, it's only a by product of what dhruv's ailing from currently >> inferiority and insecurity complex.
Edited by -Sahar- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sahar-

@Genie

Yep definitely, their dynamics have always being on equal footing where mutual benefits are concerned. It's just the unfairness bit that is a bit heavier on Manik's end than Dhruv's if we consider the bigger picture.


Thing is for me Manik was most unfair to himself. To part away with his being for his friends, Dhruv and self-destruct his happiness for him. Forget, Dhruv or Nandini. He had to live with that guilt of hurting Nandini and hiding from Dhruv.
For me all fab5 and Manik are equally to blame. If he set the system in place, they all used it for their convenience . For a guy to guilt trip about spending one moment for himself was unfair too. He could never walk away from the arrangement because even his friends pretended or actually did relied on him to pull it through for him. Something like Nandu is banking him to do so for them now.
So kinda unfair to pin it down on Manik only and then question his selfless acts .
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sahar-



I do believe that it's about time for Manik to realize Nandini's WHY and his own WHY and Tie as well plus word it out loud to so that it can sink into him, and he realises that he cannot continue to be a good friend at the cost of Nandini Always.


I still waiting for that day, means when? Someone joking in main forum not only for dhruv even for kinds of mukti and cabir, manik will throw nandu out of his life at any day I know he isn't gonna do that, but the way he acted as dementor after every happy moment they spent together make me feel bad for nandu every time.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Sahar-

@ genie

Dhruv's questioning Manik's intent - definitely wrong but not unfair, it's only a by product of what dhruv's ailing from currently >> inferiority and insecurity complex.


The way we are interpreted his intent that is wrong. It actually worked the other way too. Made Manik insecure about his goodness. he always felt the "bad" or inferior one of the two.
But the way Dhruv interpreted the "intent" was wrong. It was never about Manik being Mahaan which is why Nandini called him out that. Yes Manik seemed like "Mahaan" superficially but that wasnt the reason why he did his protection thing. He genuinely felt Dhruv deserved better and was the nice one. If Dhruv thinks Manik was at a pedestal , then Manik too had Dhruv on one too.

It's just it worked for them till a long time . It was mutually suffocating.
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@ Genie

Quoting you > " Manik had to live with the guilt of hurting nandini and hiding from DHruv."

^^ But when did he ever feel guilty for hiding it from DHruv? Fact is he never did feel guilty for hiding this from DHruv, He still does not. Fact is, that Manik is still obsessively guilt tripping over nandini choosing him over DHruv and I just saw Friday's episode, Manik clearly felt ASHAMED of this fact in front of DHruv. He still tried to justify his sacrifice to DHruv in whatever way possible.
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