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Posted: 10 years ago
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Now the show is discussing about a relevant topic. What women should wear?
I really like the topic. Its need of the hour.
I bilev that a person can wear what they wish if it realy suits them. Take the case of Mukti n Alia. The costumes really suits them. But I never liked the dressing of Rose. Its more exposing.

So what do u guys think about it?
Please their ur views. 😊

Its not us, its u?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all welcome back Meggie...missed you.
I have no comments with this issue Sissy.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Edna_Philip

First of all welcome back Meggie...missed you.

I have no comments with this issue Sissy.

y is that so?😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: _celestial_

y is that so?😲

Okk...I feel that a women should be given rights to wear her comfo dress...but at the same time I would say that she should be aware of what is happening around her...As a South Indian I would strictly reject the idea of that man who was Rock's bro...or whatever...Who said wearing a saree is so a good way of dressing...MY POV...Saree is not a dress where you say it covers you all up. Wear it once for yourself...then you will know.😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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do agree yes everyone should be allowed to wear what they want but keeping in mind their dignity.
i mean have seen some wearing blouses with big neckline where you can see like half of their ...don't like those.
As for mukti yes it does suit her but would like to say this not to offend anyone in starting episode i think around 50th episode she was playing guitar with one leg on chair and my 4 year old was sitting next to me when he saw her he went mummy shame shame i can see her underwear and i was like 😲
well i say it to him when he decide to run around in his underwear 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Edna_Philip

Okk...I feel that a women should be given rights to wear her comfo dress...but at the same time I would say that she should be aware of what is happening around her...As a South Indian I would strictly reject the idea of that man who was Rock's bro...or whatever...Who said wearing a saree is so a good way of dressing...MY POV...Saree is not a dress where you say it covers you all up. Khud pehenke deko tab pata chalegi. 😆😆😆


😆 True...

My opinion wear what you want... Don't complain afterwards... Always remember that your clothes also gives out an impression of your personality to the world.

My take... Am sure just as girls get whistles wearing hot pants... Boys do too if they were to be dressed in a similar fashion.

We talk about a modern world... Equality... Yet I have not seen the men in the tv show... Show as much skin as the women.

Sometimes I think equality and women's rights is a method to tell woman... Go ahead... Strip... It's your right... Your body, your choice, your right! Funny how women fall for it thinking they are being modern, equal and empowered!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelpureness


😆 True...

My opinion wear what you want... Don't complain afterwards... Always remember that your clothes also gives out an impression of your personality to the world.

My take... Am sure just as girls get whistles wearing hot pants... Boys do too if they were to be dressed in a similar fashion.

We talk about a modern world... Equality... Yet I have not seen the men in the tv show... Show as much skin as the women.

Sometimes I think equality and women's rights is a method to tell woman... Go ahead... Strip... It's your right... Your body, your choice, your right! Funny how women fall for it thinking they are being modern, equal and empowered!

I dont say we are complaining...I say that men will have problem with whatever we wear. Whatever...Here I wanna quote Aliya's words here...if we say modern dressed girls are abused...then why do salwar wearing women make headlines..??? Yes...I agree #ItsNotUsItsYou.
Its not us...whatever we wear men will be having problem with it. I am damn sure.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Edna_Philip

I dont say we are complaining...I say that men will have problem with whatever we wear. Whatever...Here I wanna quote Aliya's words here...if we say modern dressed girls are abused...then why do salwar wearing women make headlines..??? Yes...I agree #ItsNotUsItsYou.
Its not us...whatever we wear men will be having problem with it. I am damn sure.


This is issue is not really about what you wear... It is much deeper... It is an attitude that society has... Where women are objectified and prejudged. It is a society where women are looked upon as secondary citizens... India has a huge battle to win.


There are ideologies that are taught to young ones where women are objectified... Apologies for this. Lord Krishna... In a way one can say He was an eve teaser... Nobody has questioned His behaviour... There has no moral compass that has been raised. Another is Draupadi... Who had multiple partners. Today bharatnatyam dance isWhat it is... But once upon a time... It was more towards a sexual dance. These are few examples... Please research for more information...


Another is the attitude of society... A girl is either her parents Izzat... Her family's... Then her husband's... Then her in laws... When does she have her own Izzat... Why does that not come first? Why does her life belong to everybody around her first? Why do the elders in a family or society feel that they are entitled to have an opinion or tell a woman what to do? When something wrong happens, first thought...it must be the girls fault... Why? Women do this more than men... Why? Women are treated as secondary beings in society... Born to serve the men... If society has this attitude... Do you not think that a more sinister version also will exist...

It is a mother that moulds the future generation... Her thoughts, her vision, her prejudice,... She transfers to her child... When they are young. The question is... Who is moulding your generation?

To a certain part... I blame the television... From an impressionable age... Children watch indian soaps and films... It is no secret how women are presented... Those children are now men. I find it shocking when people talk about what their four and five year olds commented when watching a show that I would not allow my 12 year old to watch. Indian cimnema and television is very suggestive and very sexual.

We have always been taught to scrutinise what our kids watch... Because it affects how they think and affects future society.

I am sorry to have veered off topic.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Edna_Philip

Okk...I feel that a women should be given rights to wear her comfo dress...but at the same time I would say that she should be aware of what is happening around her...As a South Indian I would strictly reject the idea of that man who was Rock's bro...or whatever...Who said wearing a saree is so a good way of dressing...MY POV...Saree is not a dress where you say it covers you all up. Wear it once for yourself...then you will know.😆

😆 I have worn saree. I know, it was very uncomfortable. People say its beautiful n it is. But each time I had to look that it doesnt fall off. I used more than 20 pins to make sure it doesnt fall off.😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simidi

do agree yes everyone should be allowed to wear what they want but keeping in mind their dignity.

i mean have seen some wearing blouses with big neckline where you can see like half of their ...don't like those.
As for mukti yes it does suit her but would like to say this not to offend anyone in starting episode i think around 50th episode she was playing guitar with one leg on chair and my 4 year old was sitting next to me when he saw her he went mummy shame shame i can see her underwear and i was like 😲
well i say it to him when he decide to run around in his underwear 😆

😆 Thats true. I feel that only when actors were them, its good.😆

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