The Relationship of a Mother and Son....

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arathim

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: hav6587
Wow dear u penned it beautifully I totally agree you ...n I hope nandu brings back our manek

Thank You !!!

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parthmania

@parthmania

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

The Relationship of a Mother and Son...

All his life Manik was devoid of the Emotional Bonding of a Mother-Son relationship and that damaged every aspect of his Psyche..

Boys who are bereft of the Emotional Bonding from their Mothers act hostile, destructive and aggressive later in life more often than not.

Mother-son relationship is very important for boys...and the ones who are devoid of them more often than not develop hyper-masculine tendencies...

They believe that they always have to act tough...Go it alone...Fight to prove their manhood every time they are challenged

They develop Trust issues.

They have trouble setting boundaries.

They have difficulty seeing their self accurately.

They avoid Connection.

They try replicating the bond that they did not have in other relationships...

They remain emotionally closed.

They develop more Anxiety and Depression than others.

They Overreact on being Hurt.

They Overcompensate for Guilt.

They Fail in dealing with their Emotions...because it is a mother who nurtures Emotional Intelligence in their sons, teaching them to recognize and express their own feelings and to be more attuned to the feelings of others.

They Lack Communication skills...because it is a mother who teaches her son that they need to express themselves in words and not in their aggressive Body Language...stamping their foot , banging their hands on things etc...

They Lack Self Worth...because Mother's Love is crucial for building a Boy's self-worth...When a Boy sees his mother giving him importance and showering him with Love...he feels himself worthy of Love by others too.

Every interaction a mother has with her son has the potential to shape his perspective and impact his future relationships.

Nyonica always defined their interactions with the Give and Take Philosophy...which in turn He used it in every aspect of his Life...

Since I Give You Absolute Trust...I need Absolute Trust from you in Return...Give and Take...

Nyonica scarred him for his whole Life and for all his relationships...its upto Nandhini now...to Heal the Broken Boy.

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Despite all the ordeals that Nyonica might have put Manik through...he was always capable of giving, caring, and nurturing.

Nyonica may have scarred his psyche but could she ever bend the strength of his soul, the toughness of his character?

She never had the power to destroy the essential goodness within... that something which was innate to him...inherent...all pervasive.

On the contrary, a loving heart, an innocent smile, a guileless disposition changed him for life..he developed trust, he harnessed positivity, he learned to open up, to live and express. She had the power to touch his life in ways no else could.

He will never let her go. She will always shine for him...heal him so as to never be broken again !!!

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pia

@pia.raha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

i was justtt soo terribly sad for manik,he really needs lots of love,his childhood,evrything is ruined by nyonika!!!!! manik is helpless,he is in need of love which only nandini can give him!!!!! ur post truloy described manik's condition,hats off to u!!!!!

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arathim

@arathim

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: parthmania

Very well written !!😊

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