The Relationship of a Mother and Son....

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The Relationship of a Mother and Son...

All his life Manik was devoid of the Emotional Bonding of a Mother-Son relationship and that damaged every aspect of his Psyche..
Boys who are bereft of the Emotional Bonding from their Mothers act hostile, destructive and aggressive later in life more often than not.

Mother-son relationship is very important for boys...and the ones who are devoid of them more often than not develop hyper-masculine tendencies...
They believe that they always have to act tough...Go it alone...Fight to prove their manhood every time they are challenged
They develop Trust issues.
They have trouble setting boundaries.
They have difficulty seeing their self accurately.
They avoid Connection.
They try replicating the bond that they did not have in other relationships...
They remain emotionally closed.
They develop more Anxiety and Depression than others.
They Overreact on being Hurt.
They Overcompensate for Guilt.

They Fail in dealing with their Emotions...because it is a mother who nurtures Emotional Intelligence in their sons, teaching them to recognize and express their own feelings and to be more attuned to the feelings of others.

They Lack Communication skills...because it is a mother who teaches her son that they need to express themselves in words and not in their aggressive Body Language...stamping their foot , banging their hands on things etc...

They Lack Self Worth...because Mother's Love is crucial for building a Boy's self-worth...When a Boy sees his mother giving him importance and showering him with Love...he feels himself worthy of Love by others too.

Every interaction a mother has with her son has the potential to shape his perspective and impact his future relationships.
Nyonica always defined their interactions with the Give and Take Philosophy...which in turn He used it in every aspect of his Life...
Since I Give You Absolute Trust...I need Absolute Trust from you in Return...Give and Take...
Nyonica scarred him for his whole Life and for all his relationships...its upto Nandhini now...to Heal the Broken Boy.

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manan_flab thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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res
yea me first after idk how long...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wow dear u penned it beautifully I totally agree you ...n I hope nandu brings back our manek
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Posted: 10 years ago
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My heart really broke for Manik today 😭. His issues about Nyonika runs much deeper than he let's on.
I think this picture sums up Manik quite well:


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Posted: 10 years ago
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u penned down manik and his condition perfectly!!

nandini needs to buck up now... step up those few steps... stop being nandini murthyi... she needs to be manik's nandini... the one who'll always trust him, have faith in him, believe in him no matter what! even if he doesnt have that faith, she needs to... she needs to guide him, be there for him, protect him... shine for him...

nandini just needs to be his nandini...

that's all he wants... all he needs. i hope the cvs will concentrate on showing this soon! the transformation from the stiff nandini murthy to manik's nandini
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Posted: 10 years ago
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you are sooo right it is mother who shape their babies and manik never got that
let us see how nandini will heal him
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1st where hv u been ?...long time no see...hope u r outta de-addiction mode 😃
Yep, only his shinin star can guide him ... hope he'll 4give her ... soon 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: manan_flab

res

yea me first after idk how long...



*i dont look like her* 😆



and..



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said Aru!!
exactly!!👍🏼


ps did u rate the epi yet??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: manan_flab



*i dont look like her* 😆



and..




Simmi...🤗

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