|firefliesHaven|MaNan AT#54|'You and me are toxic' - Page 31

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

I don't agree to this. Sure, he let her walk away. Because he was basically done with her. The fact that Manik did all he did for Nandini was already something that is surprising in itself for anyone who's known the Fab5 wala Manik. He gave her all the chances, all the reasons to come to him, to continue their relationship from the point where it all went wrong. But she refused them all. So what else would he do? Go around and beg some more after she's kissed him goodbye? Who, Manik Malhotra? Not even in the wildest of dreams.

More than him respecting his pact to himself, he wants her to do that. To stay away like she promised. To properly walk away. To not give a damn about his arm because she walked away. I stand by my statement, he think she wants stuff from him but isn't ready to give him anything. I am not saying he's right in it, he just thinks that. He's seen her around him, doing sneaky things so that he wouldn't hurt his hand anymore, spilling drinks on him then wiping it all off because she sees that he can't do it, not giving mixed signals per se but not staying away like she said she would either. And he's plain annoyed. In the heart of his heart, he's all you said he is. But abhi he's not acting or thinking from there. He's looking for petty and surface level reasons to have a one up on her. 'You walked away, now see me not give a damn.' Nandu never said that he should stay away from her, she simply said she's gonna go away from him. And now she's doing all these contradictory things, coming close to him but never to actually be with him but to remind him about the things he really doesn't care about. It's enough to drive anyone insane, Manik tou phir bhi certified Gadha hai.

Originally posted by: 13thwish

@Doc: Nandu's greatest weakness has always been the need to be 'too responsible'.. that is her way of making sure that everything is safe and stable and in control in her world.. as her result of her early losses, she developed this defense mechanism as a survival tactic.. if she takes it upon herself to make things go right, then she can assure herself that all is well.. But when the incident with Manik's hand happened just because she decided to be adamant and stubborn (and her age) for once all hell broke loose.. and she blamed herself of course.. that's when she fell back on her reflex reaction.. when in doubt, take responsibility, do damage control.. and she instinctively decided to walk away.. she and Manika are too volatile together.. they bring out each other's reckless side.. better to nip this in the bud before things get even worse.. and so she did it..

We tend to forget, that at base both Baba and Nandu are exactly alike.. Under pressure, when pushed in a corner, they will throw themselves under the bus for the sake of their loved ones.. this is their modus operandi in all crunch situations..

If he was impulsive when he came up his 'sacrifice' scheme for Dhruv's sake, then she was hasty when she came up her 'we can't be together' for Baba's sake plan..

The sorted, calm Nandu would perhaps have debated the pros and cons of this decision.. but that was not the moment when she could be rational..she was too afraid and worried for that.. and she was simply reacting to his pain.. It was definitely immature in a sense, but then aren't we all, when stripped of our ability to reason in a crucial moment?

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

Manika - Ek Ichchadhaari Naagin
A Tragically True Story.

Originally posted by: TheShipWeirdo

WHERE IS ADITI

Originally posted by: TheShipWeirdo

Is that ALL you got from this entire post? 🤣

Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose

Here Bacchi 😎

Originally posted by: Noorie30

hmmm you sound like Suha❓

Originally posted by: zohasad2.0

He needs to confront his feelings about Raghav once he starts falling for someone else. The major reason is that though Bira doesn't show it so many times...he does go through this hurt of my lover leaving me even though we both loved each other. Absurd feeling, isn't it...not getting what you know was yours...or maybe it just wasn't yours.

ManBir are special ^.^ Main reason being them neither expressing it all nor lieing about all of it. They know and the other one knows that out of all the people, he knows. This feeling keeps them going and smiling, Keeps them satisfied that there is one person they can message if they want to "I need you bro :(" w/o any hesitation whatsoever.

Nandu needs to know it from a man who has suffered a similar loss coz she can't deal with all of it herself. Maybe the whole RagBir break up's off shoot is MaNan's realization.

R was this guide in Bira's life...he did leave him alone but with so much to keep with himself forever---wisdom and memories.

@red I am sure it kills one.