Not being there for the friends!

I think Manik does feel a little guilt as he did say he should have been there yesterday with Cabir but I think they need to figure out a balance between friends and relationships

Friends cannot always come first and love second, coz it doesn't work that way...
There should be a balance btwn friendship and love; if my husband would always give more attention to his friends and if they would always come before me, I would not accept it...period !!!!!
I understand that Fab5 has always been the only family Manik has known, but at some point in his life he will have to decide who is more important for him: Fab5 or Nandini

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

I think Manik does feel a little guilt as he did say he should have been there yesterday with Cabir but I think they need to figure out a balance between friends and relationships

Originally posted by: Medha.S

You know, when people are in a relationship .. this, this balancing is a life long thing. Some end up finding a balance between their relationship and friendship and family ...some keep struggling, f**king things up, some keep improving ...

couldn't agree more balancing is a life long struggle filled with ups and downs.. I think it takes a lot of strength to achieve a balance and sometimes I do expect that from Fab 5 that they can at least try to balance out

They have a misunderstanding issue too n hr had guilt .
Yup I want some other song..

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

couldn't agree more balancing is a life long struggle filled with ups and downs.. I think it takes a lot of strength to achieve a balance and sometimes I do expect that from Fab 5 that they can at least try to balance out

Originally posted by: Medha.S

Yep, and for Manik it is more complicated because his friendship and family are both entangled into one package. Nayonnica is hardly a family, let alone a mother.

This is where I think Manik needs to understand that he can share his burdens, his problems with his family too. He is no God, just a teenager, youngster.

Only if he opens himself up to his people, then the balancing will happen. Because then he will have these 4 people who will help him balance it too. And make no doubt, they will. There might be some minor issues, but Fab5 not moving past is impossible.After today, I have no doubt. It is when refuses to let his two worlds meet, the problem will arise ..has arisen. It was his need to keep both of them separated is what messed things up.

True that for Manik his family and his friends are fab 5 he is very closed up regarding himself so over time his friends also start only talking about their problems and he takes it all in.. I would love to see that happening he slowly start opening up he shuld make an effort to make his friends know too what he is going through and I am sure the other four would love to hear about him for once