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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM - Manik has almost always lived for his friends , this is the first time he is snatching few moments for himself . Still even then he vents about Cabir's troubles and his inability of helping him out. He is unaware about Mukti. He saw the threat Harshad posed , hence his talk with him. I feel his talk about why cannot life be simple and normal with Nandu emphasized his struggles. I like how the conflicts are flaring up around him, just when he has found his own peace/normalcy. More than jarring , i like how this is real.
Dhruv needs a bit of Rose fun.

@Jessicah - You cannot claim to love Cabir and not accept his sexuality. His love is pious, endearing and all sorts of beautiful. It is for people like you to see that maybe what doesn't conform to your own set of rules or morality doesn't mean another being should abide or caged by them as well. Quoting Cabir, Love is love...nothing more.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jessicarh

I agree..love can never be wrong...but lovers can be...
i never wanted cabir to be shown as gay...and still don't want it...
love cabir...but not his relationship... 😒

no offense but i dont agree.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnomanderRake


The show is aimed at making people like you understand that there is nothing wrong in being gay, I am sorry that this message is not coming across to you. Please be sensitive, there are many people who are gay and please try to understand the world beyond your sphere.

👏 you put it much more politely than me. mein shout karna aur gaali dene jaa rhai thi isi liye i stopped the sentence at four words. 😛😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: charminggenie

@TM - Manik has almost always lived for his friends , this is the first time he is snatching few moments for himself . Still even then he vents about Cabir's troubles and his inability of helping him out. He is unaware about Mukti. He saw the threat Harshad posed , hence his talk with him. I feel his talk about why cannot life be simple and normal with Nandu emphasized his struggles. I like how the conflicts are flaring up around him, just when he has found his own peace/normalcy. More than jarring , i like how this is real.

Dhruv needs a bit of Rose fun.

@Jessicah - You cannot claim to love Cabir and not accept his sexuality. His love is pious, endearing and all sorts of beautiful. It is for people like you to see that maybe what doesn't conform to your own set of rules or morality doesn't mean another being should abide or caged by them as well. Quoting Cabir, Love is love...nothing more.

This topic is not about Manik , I find the timing of his romance blooming when all of his friends are through alarming things as complete ill timing from the cvs part. anyway. I think Rose needs a restraining order and he needs more of Alya. 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM - But why ? His life has to be independent of his friends too ? That is the point right. He is aware of the mess around him and is trying to sort it out but that doesn't mean he should stop living his life. That is is the point of his growing up na. I don't know where you think cvs are digressing . To me , it adds to the big story-line and actually connects the running theme atleast around Manik. Perhaps you can illustrate.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_girl


If nothing else, then try to be a little sensitive towards people. You either like someone and accept them for who they are, or not. Liking is not conditional.

@OP- I really like what you said about Dhruv and Alya. I adore them together and they just work, you know. There is something precious, tender about them.
However, while Manik-Nandini track may be a little hurried, I don't know why it should happen in a convenient time. I mean, incidents in life don't happen like that. Like how would that work? Manik-Nandini fall for each other when it's convenient to fall for each other? Life is all about wrong timing, no?

Im glad you feel the same about Dhruv Alya. I love them. *sigh* maybe youre right its much more real but it as hard hitting you know. i cant take it , personally.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: charminggenie

@TM - But why ? His life has to be independent of his friends too ? That is the point right. He is aware of the mess around him and is trying to sort it out but that doesn't mean he should stop living his life. That is is the point of his growing up na. I don't know where you think cvs are digressing . To me , it adds to the big story-line and actually connects the running theme atleast around Manik. Perhaps you can illustrate.

The point of fab 5 is the opposite. His life is his friends just like all of them. That is their refuge their home and suddenly the importance of that is fading. I just as a viewer dont like it when his friends are either popping pills or something else regardless of him knowing it or not while he is playing around with a girls dupatta...not his fault just I think the writer shouldnt have done that or should have done it or handled it with more sensitivity.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If you mean rushed by ill-timing, then I agree.
But if you mean Manik should put his life on hold because of his friends, that doesn't make sense to me. Also, like I said previously, feelings don't work like that. They will only fall in love whenever it's convenient to fall in love? Life is all about wrong timing.
People die when others fall in love. Simultaneously. That's how life is. The Cvs, hitherto, have been pretty realistic to show this. And if you're talking about the fading bond between Fab-5, that also needs to happen. They can only grow as individuals when they come out of their bubble of isolation. Mukti and Cabir need to help themselves, so does Manik and Dhruv. They need to grow as people individually.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_girl

If you mean rushed by ill-timing, then I agree.

But if you mean Manik should put his life on hold because of his friends, that doesn't make sense to me. Also, like I said previously, feelings don't work like that. They will only fall in love whenever it's convenient to fall in love? Life is all about wrong timing.
People die when others fall in love. Simultaneously. That's how life is. The Cvs, hitherto, have been pretty realistic to show this. And if you're talking about the fading bond between Fab-5, that also needs to happen. They can only grow as individuals when they come out of their bubble of isolation. Mukti and Cabir need to help themselves, so does Manik and Dhruv. They need to grow as people individually.

I mean ill timing . i dont visually like to see wrong timing i guess when you know more about characters than the characters know about each other... its too nail biting , but yes its very ill timed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Cabir doesn't know about the pill popping as well, yet we sympathize with his life ,relate and want to see his relationship mess. Does that mean , he is neglecting hsi friends and his scenes are dis-connected too?
So if Cabir even with a spiraling Mukti around can grieve and be with love than why cannot Manik explore his relationship. Alya who isaware of the pill popping , is spending and grooming Dhruv who is clueless about everything else. Alya did drop everything when she saw the extent of Mukti's spiraling, she wants to handle it on her own.

Where has Manik discarded fab5 or dispatched them from his priority list. As far as Mukti is concerned , he is clueless like almost everyone . With Cabir , he shouted at the object of his affection when he panicked that Cabir's secret was out , he left Nandu the moment he heard about Raghav and even when he was playing with the dupatta , he explained how he is boggled by Cabir's problem . Silly would be if he has continued being with Nandu even after knowing about Raghav, which he didn't . So I really don't see the point of him not being the home or kicking his friends down the priority list.

As a viewer , it might seem more of unfortunate timing that just when Manik has his own space , his priorities and his friends are spiraling. But that is what makes it a compelling story . The moment he does something so mundane like romance his girl, his friends need his attention , I thought that was the crux of his story and struggle.
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